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Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 11
How do you know without jeopardizing...?Page 2 of 2    (1, 2)

He says he just gets like junk mail from pof so that's why he goes on

I regret to inform you that this is a flat-out lie. POF doesn't send junk mail. The only way to get mail from POF, other than a monthly notice that there are new matches, is to request it in your mail settings.

The options are these:
Send me an email, when i have mail at PlentyOfFish: Yes No
Send me an email when someone adds me to their favorites: Yes No
Allow emails from Local Singles Events: Yes No
Allow emails (first contact) from users without images on their profile: Yes No

The last two may apply only to within-POF e-mail, I think. Anyway, I have them all set to "no," and I don't get any e-mail from the site except a monthly note that there are new matches.

If he's getting mail from the site it's because he asked for it so that he will know when women e-mail him or favorite him.

Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 17
How do you know without jeopardizing...?
Posted: 12/21/2009 5:40:30 PM
How long have you known him?
You sound like you're trying too hard to seal the deal.
While he might just be wait and see with you.
play it too needy and you may run him off even though he may be on the up and up.
We don't know enuff about either of you to say.
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