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 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 276
Shaving = Pedophilia?Page 7 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)
^^^ So you prefer women to have hairy legs and armpits too right? And likewise, you never shave your face, trim finger or toenails either right? ...After all god put that stuff there too!
 BowHunter216
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 277
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Posted: 12/24/2011 7:08:00 AM
It's been my experience that most women are eager to please their bf and accommodating most reasonable requests. Since you stated your preference for her to shave her pubic hair and she refuses, let it go and forget it. Do not keep harping on it or use sex as a weapon against her. I kind of equate it to the woman who wrote in and was upset because her bf refuses and says it's disgusting after she gives him a bj. That sounds like a compatibility issue and could be a deal breaker whereas pubic shaving is insignificant in the overall scheme of things. BOW HUNTER
 cashleys
Joined: 1/29/2012
Msg: 280
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 12:43:40 AM
Actually it is creepy and I have the same thoughts about it. I think all men and women should be well groomed, but bald and hairless in their vaginal area just creeps me out, I don't want to look like a little girl.. It started with women and their bikinis lines and now has become way too much in my opinion.

Also the hair is there for many health reasons.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 281
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 8:22:24 AM
Also the hair is there for many health reasons.

Those being what, exactly?

Actually it is creepy and I have the same thoughts about it. I think all men and women should be well groomed, but bald and hairless in their vaginal area just creeps me out, I don't want to look like a little girl..

If the hair on your vajayjay is the only thing that keeps you from looking like a little girl, you must get carded a lot unless you go out to places naked.
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 282
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:52:52 AM

She says that the shaved look only turns on Pedophiles.

Helluva stretch.
Issues some?
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 283
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 9:54:22 AM

Also the hair is there for many health reasons.


Ya. It used to be useful when we were all a bunch of naked monkeys huddling in caves for winter.
Clothes have kind of made the thing redundant, but on an evolutionnary scale, it'll probably take a couple hundreds or thousands of years before we loose all of it. That and the little toe. Well toes in general.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
Msg: 286
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Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:17:44 AM
I like au naturelle. No shaving,

Picking the hair out of my teeth. How wonderful
 Moonchild51
Joined: 3/11/2007
Msg: 288
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Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 1:06:29 PM

What reasons might that be? A crab trap?
....ewe Rusty! Seafood at it's finest!!@
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 289
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Posted: 5/8/2012 1:20:31 PM
And what a sea it is......YUK!!

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 DumchikBrewsky
Joined: 10/24/2010
Msg: 290
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Posted: 5/8/2012 1:21:52 PM
God Almighty. Will this ridiculous issue never die?

Porn stars shave for the effect. Are we obligated to emulate them for that reason? If my man insisted on it, I'd show him the door. I've NEVER heard there are any health benefits to shaving pubic hair.

I saw a post elsewhere from a man in his early 60's, who stated outright that he only wants tiny, young Asian women who are shaved because they remind him of prepubescent girls. I feel very sorry for the women. I doubt most men feel this way, certainly not the ones who are emotionally healthy.
 Fatman_Blimp
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 293
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/8/2012 11:41:51 PM
I don't get the pedo implications--they say the same thing about porn leading to pedophilia and rape...Just seems like some strange leaps to me...If a shaved bush makes you think of a child then something is SERIOUSLY wrong with you! I just can't stand it basically bcuz of the look..As a previous poster stated, I also feel a lot of this started with porn...When porn really started getting bigger in the '90s is when you started seeing baldness take off..Nowadays I wonder how many women under 26 have any hair down there! Personally, I want it hairy--the hairier the better, like the girls of ATK or Seattle Hairy Girls!
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 294
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/9/2012 10:39:36 PM

She says that the shaved look only turns on Pedophiles.

Uhhhh... possible. Can she substantiate that statement, I wonder.
Me? I trim. My skin is extremely sensitive in that area...
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 295
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/9/2012 10:49:48 PM
If I was with a girl that had a full bush........I would spray it with "Raid" before I got close to it!!! No damn telling what would be living in that nasty jungle!!!
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 296
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Posted: 5/10/2012 6:32:58 AM

If I was with a girl that had a full bush........I would spray it with "Raid" before I got close to it!!! No damn telling what would be living in that nasty jungle!!!


I believe that was in jest..LOL

Full, trimmed, bare..if it is given to you, take it for what it is and be happy with it.
If you've "got it", and want to try something different, experiment.
 Fatman_Blimp
Joined: 2/28/2012
Msg: 298
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/10/2012 6:36:40 PM
I know damn well it's a fad that I wish would go the hell away! But once the "mainstream" gets ahold of something and then brainwashes the masses of asses into thinking it's something they can't live without, then good luck trying to keep the camel out of the tent!
 onewayoranuther
Joined: 3/21/2011
Msg: 299
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/10/2012 8:58:09 PM
I am a redhead/strawberry blonde naturally. I have very little hair anywhere, legs, underarms or on my mound. As a young woman I was embarrased about it since all my g/f's had bushes. I felt abnormal.

When I have been with a man who shaves it off I feel like I am with a child...and it is a major turn off. He can slightly trim it off so it is not unruly but to take it all off makes me cringe.


My ex did this once and I could barely look at it without thinking about how much he really did look like our son.

P.S. that was a joke
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
Msg: 300
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Posted: 5/10/2012 9:47:25 PM
Too many stereotypes being thrown around. Bottom line is that it doesn't matter if you shave, trim, or go all natural if you practice good hygiene (showering daily or twice a day).

It is true that sweat is trapped by hair to cool down your body rapidly. But without hair your body over compensates and you secret a lot more sweat than normal. Bottom line, if you live in a humid climate, like Florida, daily showering is pretty much mandatory.

Trimming is a compromise between the two extremes, and the most realistic IMO.
 ted61
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 301
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 7:49:48 AM
I didn't read all the posts, but do people think that a woman who likes a man with a shaved face means she likes young boys, since young boys don't have facial hair? Doctors recommend women shave their genitals for hygene reasons

Common sense will tell you When a woman urinates or wipes, some hairs are bound to get included in the "wipe" and hold dried urine and mucus debris.
 sexguy2012
Joined: 4/27/2012
Msg: 302
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 4:17:54 PM
I didn't bother reading any otrher comments because the question is too general.
Maybe it can apperar to be pedophilia for some however I say it's far from being a reality in many people.
For me the joy of pleasing orally is enhanced as it's easier to play with all the areas and parts much easier.
The exposed area receive direct contact.
 cicicross1
Joined: 9/28/2011
Msg: 303
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 5:30:46 PM
OK, for the record...I am an OB/GYN nurse. I have worked with no less than 60 different OB/GYN's through many states. Many of them from different countries and cultures. NOT ONE recommends shaving as a hygienic practice. The idea is just ridiculous. It is a preference thing alone.

Now, as to my personal preference it is more stimulating for oral to be hairless, as well as knowing that a guy is more likely to go there if they know they arent coming up with a mouth full of hair, has made my decision for me. Yes its a pain to keep up, but I guess it is well worth it. As to the pedo comment...well, prepubescent girls are hairless...shaving it all off does tend to lean toward that look. So I can see where some people might think there is a correlation. Again, though, preference is preference and one should do what one is comfortable with...
 Qedtanya
Joined: 5/4/2012
Msg: 304
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 6:58:22 PM
Most of my encounters have been pleasantly surprised that I wax. Waxing is much less stressful and cleaner than shaving. Although more painful in the beginning, it's well worth the results. I love how I feel much sexier and cleaner (even being overweight) with it waxed. I wouldn't shave just because I am worried about hurting myself. Waxing is so much better!!!
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 305
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 7:59:08 PM

Many of them from different countries and cultures. NOT ONE recommends shaving as a hygienic practice. The idea is just ridiculous. It is a preference thing alone.

OK, if you don't want to think of trapping moisture and sweat as a hygiene issue, then I have a preference for the additional freshness that shaving/waxing provides.
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
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Posted: 5/11/2012 8:13:51 PM
It is a hygiene issues in countries where they have poor access to water. If you are able to shower daily and change clothing daily it is 100% a non issue, especially living in a humid climate like Florida.
 highwayman390
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 307
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/11/2012 9:40:33 PM
I prefer hair myself on a woman. Trimmed is fine, but bald is not for me. I have no problem perorming oral on a woman with pubic hair. I actually find a triangle of hair very sexy.
 hockeyc999
Joined: 12/21/2011
Msg: 308
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 5/12/2012 3:50:32 PM
I prefer shaved/minimal hair on a woman. I find lots of hair a turnoff, and as a rule will not eat her ****y if there is an untammed forest. Gotta keep the grass cut lol. As for myself I keep myself shaved, it is much more clean and smooth :)
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