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Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 317
Shaving = Pedophilia?Page 9 of 15    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15)
rub your face against her bush alot , your face will get quit bright red after a while...Show her the damage, and try and use that as a bargaining chip...
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 319
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 6/13/2012 1:40:30 AM

I prefer hair myself on a woman. Trimmed is fine, but bald is not for me. I have no problem perorming oral on a woman with pubic hair. I actually find a triangle of hair very sexy.

Exactly my position also.

I would also never dream of trying to convince a woman to have her pubic hair any way other than what she felt comfortable with.

The minute you start trying to change somebody towards the way you think they SHOULD be, then it's not a healthy relationship I feel. Be happy with people as they are, not how you would like them.

most women r shaved these days- shes frigid or something

Well, aren't you the sensitive, intelligent one? How did you come to this brilliant conclusion Sherlock?

Joined: 1/9/2008
Msg: 320
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Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 6/13/2012 2:14:21 AM
chicks goota shave or at least give u a landing strip. i've seen 70's porn and it aint pretty.
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 321
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 6/13/2012 1:45:22 PM

Is that the best you could do? LOL If I'm not mistaken, nature didn't make my clothes, and I believed I've out lived my eyes....and If it wasn't for reading B.S. on forums...I could still do without the glasses.

If Nature got it right, you wouldn't need clothes.
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 322
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Posted: 6/13/2012 2:29:03 PM
^^^^^ You need to take more time to think before you speak. In the beginning, we didn't need clothes...nature didn't force us to migrate out of our evolutionary range. According to you, if nature had got it right, you would be in one hell of mess shaving your sweety....about a dozen razors to get the job done! LOL

Anyway, I'm so glad nature was somehow able to muddle through without your valuable input.
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 323
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Posted: 6/13/2012 4:34:22 PM
I like doing the shaving...Personally..!!
She can relax and enjoy being ~Treated~ to some 'Personal Care'
...and I get to practice my favorite Artwork...
Trimming little hearts...or lightning bolts...or smiley-faces in her fur!!
A good Saliva-rinse...and she's Off to Mars..!!!
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 324
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 6/13/2012 6:21:20 PM

I would also never dream of trying to convince a woman to have her pubic hair any way other than what she felt comfortable with.

Thank you. Nor would I badger a man to change his personal (ever so personal) hair style preference. We can discuss and probably make some accommodations. Say, you demand I shave completely, and hypothetically assuming I do it... Well then, with my sensitive skin and my aversion to pain... Well, lets just say it'd ruin "the mood" for me. Of course, the demanding part has already put out the fire, anyway.
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 325
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 6/13/2012 10:35:15 PM
I've been trimmed real short or shaved since the 80's. Its always been my choice. I love a shaved guy and hell get more play if he is. Hairy balls don't get sucked on. I really think guys get turned on cuz they can see everything. Every wrinkle and they like that. Plus they can't wait to dive right down there so I get the benefits of it.
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 326
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/10/2012 7:00:57 AM
Ive heard the same thing and while I dont care other than cleanliness how a woman presents herself privately I had too say hey!....because this particular woman said the same thing!......and after reading why woman shave and why not its a personal is any body art or other.....too many think the wrong thing....I watch the very idiots that have been acused of these acts and to be put into that catagory infuriates me.....!
Joined: 11/19/2011
Msg: 329
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/11/2012 12:22:53 PM
Of course it isn't pedophilia, some people just like it clean, with no hair, etc
I personally prefer it with a bit of hair. It seems more complete. Adds a finishing touch.
But I don't mind a shaved woman. Shaved or not, it really isn't terribly important. lol
Joined: 4/1/2012
Msg: 330
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/11/2012 12:27:09 PM
I prefer shaved or at least well trimmed, and appreciate that so many women in my age group now do one or the other - but ultimately, good hygiene is most important to me.

My ex is a sasquatch, with hair in places I never dreamed of - and I'm sure that influenced my current preference.
Joined: 3/27/2012
Msg: 331
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Posted: 7/12/2012 1:03:58 AM
I once heard one of them wanna-be radio call in talk show sex therapists state that a man who wants his woman to be shaven is because men like women to look like little girls. I thought this was very strange. It was pretty disgusting. If I saw my girlfriend as a little girl like that, that would gross me out. And it seemed really messed up that this radio host was so sure about this opinion on the subject, and was telling everybody that.
Joined: 7/8/2012
Msg: 332
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/15/2012 10:45:27 AM
Well let me address the original subject... Your lady needs to see someone about her repressed issues. She may be a victim of abuse.

Ok now on the the hairy matter... I find it depends on the individual. I had a GF that had very thick dark hair down there and I didn't like it and requested she keep it shaved. She didn't like to shave it or the way it felt so we compromised and I would trim it for her... short not bare. I have had other GF's that were bare and it was nice. But I also had a girlfriend with red hair and I loved her red pubes. She kept it shaved before but the color was a real treat for me so I asked her to just keep it trimmed.

PS offer to do the shave/trim for her... it makes great foreplay if you do it right... remember its not your face you're shaving so take your time and be gentle
Joined: 7/8/2011
Msg: 333
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/15/2012 1:09:14 PM
Not that anybody cares, but I prefer a fully shaved look, unless it's with a natural redhead, in which case I like it neatly trimmed.
Joined: 7/25/2012
Msg: 334
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/30/2012 12:09:30 PM
tell her she's being a dumb rationalizing ****.

also, tell her you want her to look younger because if she's old then her sex appeal is only going to be going down.
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 335
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/30/2012 12:18:47 PM
also, tell her you want her to look younger because if she's old then her sex appeal is only going to be going down.

Your own appeal just went down a good couple notches there bud
plus you're posting everywhere with useless crap!
Joined: 3/12/2009
Msg: 336
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Posted: 7/30/2012 12:37:06 PM
Tell her its for hygiene and cleanliness. Problem Solved. Really whats the big deal? She's going to do what she wants anyway.
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 338
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/30/2012 2:35:13 PM
some time in the 80s both my wife and I started shaving .. i really dont know why it took us so long ..everything is great ..and in no way does her kitty look any thing like a little girls .. i have never seen a little girl with labia that size..labia starts changing / growing at an older age than hair does

\actually the first girl i ever had sex with didnt have hair on the kitty ..or labia either ...she was 13 and i was 15 .. and i was thrilled when she grew hair .. and not so thrilled when she had a period ..and even less thrilled a couple years later when she missed her period ...but it was a false alarm ..and after 40 some odd years ... we are still friends ..and i have it from good authority that she again has no hair on the kitty ..and she dont have a period any more but shes got labia for sure
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 340
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Posted: 7/30/2012 3:33:17 PM
So; if a woman likes a man who has a clean shaven face, does that make her a pedophile as well? After all, most sexually mature males naturally would have a beard.
Joined: 10/15/2009
Msg: 341
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/30/2012 9:44:22 PM
more females r shaved these days ven not- so i guess lots of peodos haha!
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 342
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 7/31/2012 5:15:04 AM

Is that accurate? Do they grow? My wife's have been the same as long as I can remember...'course I haven't seen them in a few hours. Maybe I'd better check...

well from a medical standpoint i dont know... but from a personal stand point ..i had a very sexually active teen age era and all the teen girls I were with none of them had prominent labia .... and since my teen years I have returned to be with several of the women whom I was with in their teen years ..and with out exception their pvssy lips have grown ...including my wife ..yea I robbed the cradle ..she was 16 when we got married ... and hers have definitely grown ..and just in case you are doing the math ..on my posts ...I married my current wife when she was 16 .. we later divorced and spent several years dating other people ...we are now back together and I can tell you she did not have the meat curtains she has now when she was 16.. just saying
Joined: 5/31/2009
Msg: 346
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 8/22/2012 8:25:09 PM
They're definitely not the same.

I shaved once when I was younger (13 or 14), and it itched like crazy.

Since 2009, I've been shaving on a semi-regular basis, and that's what I realized is the key. I prefer to be bare because I can feel more. No hair barrier :)

As for guys, I prefer trimmed but he doesn't have to go bare.
Joined: 7/8/2012
Msg: 347
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 8/23/2012 6:06:40 AM
I love the small strip or just a lil patch, my GF actually likes my balls clean shaven. And if she's happy, I'm happy!!
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 348
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 8/23/2012 8:12:19 PM
Really it doesnt matter to me about woman shaved or thing that does bother me is the woman who assumes and think guys want the little girl look.....pretty lame as i work in a prison and am around those far as Im concerned as a woman its a personal choice....but they all think what they think....
Joined: 7/27/2012
Msg: 349
Shaving = Pedophilia?
Posted: 8/23/2012 11:07:03 PM
Tell her you prefer it because it's cleaner, smells better and it's healthier! If that doesn't work either you put up with it or find someone else who believes in shaving.
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