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 Sapphireeyes
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 43
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Op, tell her to learn to love who she is, once she accepts herself the rest is fluff...a good sense of humor can disarm things...yes some people will make comments...I have found that women make more than men...men are just more vocal to your face :P

She should post the pictures she likes of herself, if someone is being crude or rude to her then she should just deleted the loser...but bare in mind that the way she presents herself will have alot to do with the way she is treated.


I don't have a full body pic. I won't. Why? I don't want guys (that I've never met) doing WEIRD things while looking at my picture.


That's right, I dont want anyone doing anything weird unless Im there to enjoy it!

Tell her to get a good sense of humor and she can laugh at them...otherwise she will constantly have people saying things to bother her. The poster who said most arent serious is right, but she only needs one to be serious.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 2/17/2010 2:47:43 AM

I don't have a full body pic. I won't. Why? I don't want guys (that I've never met) doing WEIRD things while looking at my picture.


Full of ourselves are we?


WOW! I've not found a single girl on this or any sight that even came close to providing what free porn could...Professional lighting, angles, sets and camera work...ha! Browsing sights like this to get off would be the LAST thing I'd ever think of!!!!!!

Me thinks you might be fantasizing a bit!
 Fifi47
Joined: 8/19/2004
Msg: 45
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Posted: 2/17/2010 10:48:54 AM
Men either like huge assets or they don't it seems. Many like them if they are attached to a thin woman, but those seem to be fake ones a lot of the time. My profile pic showed none of my large assets, and I still got comments once in a while about them. Let me know the men who were not gentlemen.
 acuddler
Joined: 10/30/2009
Msg: 46
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Posted: 2/17/2010 10:56:52 PM
What shinola. The only reason guys know a woman HAS large assets is because...SHE DISPLAYS THEM. Guys figure that she displays them because she enjoys having them appreciated, so the guys apprecieate them. Then she feigns anger. Play another game. This one is old, and boring. There is no reason a woman has to post a photo. If she chooses to post a photo there is no reason she has to post one which displays her breasts. A head & shoulders shot will do. If she posts a photo which shows her boobs, guys have a free speech right to comment on them. She WANTS such comments, or she would NOT invite them by posting boob shots.

I once contacted a woman whose photos included overhead 'see down my low cut blouse top...what cute boobs I have' images. I never commented on them. We met, and she wore even more revealing clothing. I never commented on her very much on display boobs. I was 'gentlemanly' enough to not stare at, or comment on, her soccer ball-like jugs. Throughout the date, she scowled at me. At the end of the date, she bi**hed me out for being rude to her...because I did NOT comment on her figure. Later, she told a mutual friend of ours that I had beeen insulting about her breasts. She took insult at my NOT paying attention to her breasts. There is no pleasing some women. Some guys are fixated on breasts. Blame their Mothers for switching them to bottles too soon. If you date enough, you will encounter breast-men. Live with it, or don't date.

Breast men are about pleasing themselves, rather than their women, so thank God that you have this 'marker'/'telltale' to tell you which guys are worth avoiding. Now, a guy who sits across the room and stares at your crotch, while licking his lips, is more interested-than the typical breast man-in pleasing you as well as himself. Such men know that li**ing your Cl*t is more of a turn on for you than is groping your boobs.

The woman I am currently with has large boobs, but I never commented on them until after she had. She thought I might be turned off by their being too big...and droopy. I said they were fine as they are, and I would like them whatever size they happened to be. I am more interested in her personality than her body, but I am the exception. Some guys have a thing about big boobs...just as some women have a thing for tall guys, thick wallets, etc. To each his/her own. Sites like this are for helping you screen in suitables, and screen out unsuitables. If the process is working-by revealing unsuitables-don't complain.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 49
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Posted: 3/23/2010 1:12:59 PM

If she posts a photo which shows her boobs, guys have a free speech right to comment on them.

we have a free speech right to comment, and women have a free-speech right to blow us off. what's your point?

big boys know how to look appropriately, and how to comment appropriately (namely a few dates down the line, when everyone's clothes are in a heap on the floor). they've learned a few things since junior high, like not to trade the possibility of sex later for the millimeter-deep thrill of one-way sexy talk now.
 briargate
Joined: 8/18/2008
Msg: 50
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Posted: 3/23/2010 1:32:44 PM
I'm guessing that your friend has dealt with this kind of running commentary on her breast size in school as well, no? Dealing with this sort of teasing is just what she has to learn how to do. Not responding is the best response.

In any case, toning down the clothing is probably the best idea. If it ends up being a surprise to her dates that she is large chested, that is not likely to be a bad discovery. There are few guys who find that unattractive, although there are some.
 SiliconJaguar
Joined: 10/21/2008
Msg: 52
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Posted: 5/26/2014 7:21:50 AM
Hi, What's the lady's profile name?

I'd like to have a look.
.-.-.
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 53
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Posted: 5/27/2014 10:50:42 AM
Honestly, how she dresses is going to affect the responses she gets. Lots of girls with big... personalities like to wear low cut tops that barely cover them, they look like they're about to burst out. We're all familiar with that top down view a lot of girls use to let their chest hide their gut.

She needs to pick her pictures based on the response she wants. No girl is going to be able to completely avoid comments like that, it's just not happening. But they can try to cut down on it. I'm sure she has pictures in clothes that aren't low cut, or not night against her body. Little things like a jacket, hoodie (use common sense on how to wear it, if the zipper stops at your boobs, we're looking), a looser fitting shirt can do a great job of hiding those things.

Now if they're the prominent part of your pictures, like you have a closeup where the bottom of the camera is the bottom of your boobs, a lot of guys are going to take that as either you want sex or you're using your boobs to get a guy, because let's be honest, why else are you purposely making the bottom of the picture right there?
 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 5/27/2014 11:49:37 AM
Any woman can dress down enough to make breasts look smaller, and not show off the cleavage, even in a full body shot, so that should be what she does, and well hopefully.

Many women will dress to make their bodies look enticing and attractive, hide some of the flaws and weight issues, and boobs are not different. It is all in the advertising and what one believes will be an eye catching part of them in any and all pictures.

Being well endowed does not mean that one has no choice as to how to present that part of yourself, both for women and men!!....;)

cd
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 55
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Posted: 5/27/2014 7:41:24 PM

because let's be honest, why else are you purposely making the bottom of the picture right there?


Speaking of assets.....so when men purposely aim their camera upward from the bottom of mid chest range and all you get is a huge inside view of their nose, does that mean they want sex or are they using their nose to get a girl? Is it how the nose hairs align the inner layer of the nostril that turns a woman on? It gets me every time......
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 56
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Posted: 5/27/2014 11:19:20 PM
Girls take that same picture. But lets be real. What girl has ever had sex with a guy because he has a nice nose. But how many guys have had sex with a girl because her chest was big? It's no secret that having them hanging out is going to attract guys looking for sex, it's even going to attract guys who weren't looking for sex who now are.

Even straight girls love those things. What do you think any guy is really looking at? When your top looks like it's suffocating them, do you really think we're wondering if you're in college for your PhD?
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 5/28/2014 5:37:56 AM
I like bums.

Like,,,,,,

honestly.

I do.

 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 58
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Posted: 5/28/2014 6:34:33 AM
Sure, mammaries and butts are nice, but I'm a face man. A nice smile is eternal:)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 59
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Posted: 5/28/2014 7:45:34 AM
Walt, if you like bums, I know a park in the city where some are hanging out :)

seriously, tho, its refreshing to see that after so many posts from women claiming they can't understand why they get the attention they get, at the rate they get it....that there are more people who realize, you get what you ask for.

a profile pic should help someone pick you out of a crowd when its time to meet. that's all it needs to do. your profile should do the rest to attract someone who's hoping to find someone with a great personality.

in reality, of course...we're all hoping to lay a hottie :)
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 60
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Posted: 5/28/2014 8:00:06 AM

Walt, if you like bums, I know a park in the city where some are hanging out :)


That's hilarious!!!



What girl has ever had sex with a guy because he has a nice nose?


Oh, good grief! My comment was totally ridiculous....I know that....albeit I have seen many guys who take photos upward showing the inside of their nose. Would I ever choose a man over his nose...no. But, his feet? maybe.....as you know what they say about a man who has big feet?


Even straight girls love those things


WTF?


It's no secret that having them hanging out is going to attract guys looking for sex.


While I agree for the most part with above statement for what it is.....I think there are many men out there who appreciate the shape and curves of a woman's body without automatically thinking about sex. I have seen many women's profile/pictures and I totally get what you "guys" are saying. No talk back from me on this issue.
Honestly, I am surprised at how many women do flaunt what they think they have. You get what you give....out... :P
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 61
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Posted: 5/28/2014 8:16:27 AM

I think there are many men out there who appreciate the shape and curves of a woman's body without automatically thinking about sex.


Really? In what planet?

I am sorry, but when I see an attractive woman with some delicious curves, sinuous lines, delectable cleavage, a curvaceous derriere, toned legs, chisel face all I can think is binary code.

Yes, no, yes, no, yes, no, yes, yes, yeeeessssss.
 1Fish2Catch
Joined: 5/7/2014
Msg: 62
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Posted: 5/28/2014 8:42:17 AM

I am sorry, but when I see an attractive woman with some delicious curves, sinuous lines, delectable cleavage, a curvaceous derriere, toned legs, chisel face all I can think is binary code.


I’m going to have to agree with this! I’m a straight man with a healthy appetite and my mind is creative, detailed and feral. My body does respond to stimuli and I don’t discriminate when it comes to size of “assets”.
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 63
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Posted: 5/28/2014 11:17:19 AM

I am sorry, but when I see an attractive woman with some delicious curves, sinuous lines, delectable cleavage, a curvaceous derriere, toned legs, chisel face all I can think is binary code.


Ok, perhaps I over estimated ....how about there might be ONE man out there who appreciates the shape and curves of a woman's body without AUTOMATICALLY thinking about sex. If I see a man with nice hands, I don't necessarily start undressing him for sex. I can appreciate the size of his hands, the texture of his skin, without automatically thinking about how I want his hands all over me.


My body does respond to stimuli and I don’t discriminate when it comes to size of “assets”.


If this is the case, you must always wear loose fitting pants....?
 LoneScottishBoy
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 64
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Posted: 5/28/2014 11:25:51 AM

But, his feet? maybe.....as you know what they say about a man who has big feet?


I am thinking they would say "Wow...I bet your shoes are big too."?
 Foodnmusicguy
Joined: 5/7/2014
Msg: 65
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Posted: 5/28/2014 11:26:17 AM

If I see a man with nice hands, I don't necessarily start undressing him for sex. I can appreciate the size of his hands, the texture of his skin, without automatically thinking about how I want his hands all over me.




You do understand that men and women are wired differently , right ?

Any guy who can look at a woman's curves and admire them but NOT have any sexual thoughts in there somewhere ... needs to see a DOCTOR !

LOL
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 66
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Posted: 5/28/2014 11:37:39 AM

I am thinking they would say "Wow...I bet your shoes are big too."?


Uhhh, no.....once I see big feet, I already know the shoes are big.....no need to ask. However, sometimes, I might
inquire how long does it take for his shoes to wear out....?



You do understand that men and women are wired differently , right ?


Hmmm, let me guess....men have a penis; women have a vagina, right? What kind of question is that.....GGGGGEEEZ!


Any guy who can look at a woman's curves and admire them but NOT have any sexual thoughts in there somewhere ... needs to see a DOCTOR !


So, you are saying if I go see my MAN doctor, and he happens to see my curves, he is thinking about sex versus checking out my cervix?

Note, I did not say a guy would NOT have ANY sexual thoughts somewhere, I am just saying, I don't think it's always
automatic. But see, with several guys commenting here, in support of automatic sexual thoughts, what guy is now going to come forward and admit he doesn't necessarily have automatic sexual thoughts when he sees nice assets?

Edit for below:

I suspected you were not talking about anatomy and yes, I get it :)
 Foodnmusicguy
Joined: 5/7/2014
Msg: 67
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Posted: 5/28/2014 11:40:01 AM

You do understand that men and women are wired differently , right ?




Hmmm, let me guess....men have a penis; women have a vagina, right? What kind of question is that.....GGGGGEEEZ!


I wasn't referring to anatomy

GEEEEEEZ !

... and good grief too !

LOL
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 68
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Posted: 5/28/2014 12:30:53 PM

Note, I did not say a guy would NOT have ANY sexual thoughts somewhere, I am just saying, I don't think it's always automatic.


If you say so. When I see a woman with a big rack, my first thought is "What a brilliant mind. I would love to see the results of an EEG done on her." Then a few minutes later, I'll say to myself "Oh yeah. Almost forgot. Maybe I'd like to have sex with her." That's how it works.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 5/28/2014 1:21:22 PM

drivingharmony2
So, you are saying if I go see my MAN doctor, and he happens to see my curves, he is thinking about sex versus checking out my cervix?

Actually, no. You are probably familiar with “Familiarity breeds contempt”. In this case, “Overexposure leads to _____”, or “too much is too much”.

A good friend of mine went to medical school, back a few decades ago. Whenever he got a break (which wasn’t often), he would come down to see me and we would go out drinking and chasing women. I should mention that the ladies considered my friend to be a very attractive man, and he had a track record that you would not believe.

So on this one occasion, our conversation went a little like this:

Me: I found a new hot spot, loads of gorgeous women.

Him: No, let’s go just bar hopping, get drunk.

Me: You’re not going to believe this place, the chicks will be all over you!

Him: No, I’m not in the mood, let’s just go drinking.

Me: What the hell’s the matter with you? Do you need to see a doctor? (laugh)

Him: No, we’ve just been studying gynecology and I don’t think I could look at another one.
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 70
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Posted: 5/28/2014 1:36:18 PM

When I see a woman with a big rack, my first thought is "What a brilliant mind. I would love to see the results of an EEG done on her." Then a few minutes later, I'll say to myself "Oh yeah. Almost forgot. Maybe I'd like to have sex with her." That's how it works.


Uhhh, yeah.....ok smarty pants.....can't get more original than that....


Him: No, we’ve just been studying gynecology and I don’t think I could look at another one.


There you have it....I found the one man that probably doesn't automatically think sex when he sees nice assets.....
A male GYNECOLOGIST. But.....I doubt the doctor could truly say, once you have seen one, you have seen them all....?
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