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 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 70
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When I see a woman with a big rack, my first thought is "What a brilliant mind. I would love to see the results of an EEG done on her." Then a few minutes later, I'll say to myself "Oh yeah. Almost forgot. Maybe I'd like to have sex with her." That's how it works.


Uhhh, yeah.....ok smarty pants.....can't get more original than that....


Him: No, we’ve just been studying gynecology and I don’t think I could look at another one.


There you have it....I found the one man that probably doesn't automatically think sex when he sees nice assets.....
A male GYNECOLOGIST. But.....I doubt the doctor could truly say, once you have seen one, you have seen them all....?
 Foodnmusicguy
Joined: 5/7/2014
Msg: 71
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Posted: 5/28/2014 1:36:38 PM

When I see a woman with a big rack, my first thought is "What a brilliant mind. I would love to see the results of an EEG done on her." Then a few minutes later, I'll say to myself "Oh yeah. Almost forgot. Maybe I'd like to have sex with her." That's how it works.


LOL - Good one !
 1Fish2Catch
Joined: 5/7/2014
Msg: 72
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Posted: 5/28/2014 4:34:25 PM
There you have it....I found the one man that probably doesn't automatically think sex when he sees nice assets.....


Include a homosexual male who would probably admire the curves but not be aroused and a man who views a woman as a sister (well for most of us).

I might have an initial response of excitement to assets, smile and eyes but a crappy attitude will kill it will quick. A bad attitude is like Kryptonite and can/will/has always deflated the situation. Every date I drive up bumping “If only for one night” by Luther and most of the time drive away singing, dancing and bumping “Stayn’ Alive” (key part are the words "Stayn Alive") by the Bee Gees :)
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 73
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Posted: 5/28/2014 10:31:54 PM

Note, I did not say a guy would NOT have ANY sexual thoughts somewhere, I am just saying, I don't think it's always
automatic. But see, with several guys commenting here, in support of automatic sexual thoughts, what guy is now going to come forward and admit he doesn't necessarily have automatic sexual thoughts when he sees nice assets?


I knew a guy that loved the female body. He thought it was a very beautiful thing. But sexually, he was attracted to guys. It's going to be hard to find that one guy, because we have an instinct to reproduce.

Some of us just have more control of what we say and do than others, but we're ALL thinking the same thing.
 ozsealady1
Joined: 6/13/2013
Msg: 74
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Posted: 5/29/2014 4:08:40 AM
Speaking as a woman with 'huge assets'

53 inch bust - as measured by a dress maker with a FF-G cup bra, all supplied by Mother Nature, I feel for your friend.

Even when wearing business suits, some men will look you straight in the mammaries.
Last year whilst wearing clothing that in my opinion hid everything a man walked up to me at 3pm (afternoon) in public and had a grope whilst uttering incomprehensible gibberish. I was completely shocked. (If you look at my pics I was wearing the same clothing when I was on board the Tall Ship)
I do generally try to choose clothing that tones it all down a tad.

If I make the gross error of showing some cleavage, it is not unusual to receive comments about my 'tits'.

When I get these sorts of on line comments it depends on my mood... I either block immediately or try and change the topic of conversation. Complimenting him on his nose hair or something.

If in real life I break out the filthy look. And sadly sometimes get scared... as with the 3pm grope.

Buying clothing, bras, swimsuits etc is an interesting challenge as well.
Don't get me started on running, tennis, horse riding, especially a trot, 4WD on bumpy roads, trampolines, skipping rope, exercise classes.... you get my drift.

Did once win a prize for having the best/largest cleavage at a Melbourne Cup Lunch.
So there are advantages. lol
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 5/29/2014 9:11:21 AM
Alright, I'll hide my mancard from confiscation while admitting...EVERY time I see a "great pair of love pillows", I'm not always thinking about taking a nipple betwixt my lips and tugging gently. And I really doubt I'm the only fellow. It may be 70% of the time, just not 100%. and some of that time, it might be like looking at a big stack of cash--I'm not contemplating exactly what I would do with either, just feeling what it would feel like to be allowed access.

and yes, I've had bikers tell me, go to a party where the girls are topless ,and after awhile, its just another part of the anatomy. Curved like a shoulder,but bouncier. I remember going to HotImportNights, and there were so many skinny models, after a while you just ignored them.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 76
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Posted: 5/29/2014 10:34:14 AM

gtomustang in msg 85
EVERY time I see a "great pair of love pillows", I'm not always thinking about taking a nipple betwixt my lips and tugging gently. And I really doubt I'm the only fellow. It may be 70% of the time, just not 100%. and some of that time, it might be like looking at a big stack of cash--I'm not contemplating exactly what I would do with either, just feeling what it would feel like to be allowed access.


I’m not 100% sure of your meaning here. I would state it thusly:



Huge assets, or large breasts, do not automatically make me think that I want to play with those assets. The rest of the package has to be attractive, or I’m just not going to be “feelin’ it”.


gtomustang
and yes, I've had bikers tell me, go to a party where the girls are topless ,and after awhile, its just another part of the anatomy. Curved like a shoulder,but bouncier.

I was down at Numbers a couple of months ago, and there was a young lady who was 99% topless (pasties, if you remember those). And she had very nice assets, and was overall very attractive. The first few times I spotted her in the crowd, I was definitely oogling her. By the end of the evening, she was just another pretty face among many pretty faces.
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 77
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Posted: 5/29/2014 2:42:16 PM
I was down at Numbers a couple of months ago, and there was a young lady who was 99% topless (pasties, if you remember those). And she had very nice assets, and was overall very attractive. The first few times I spotted her in the crowd, I was definitely oogling her. By the end of the evening, she was just another pretty face among many pretty faces.


I may be the only guy who does not like strip joints. Why? I like to touch and those girls are mentally inaccessible, so they turn me off. When I've been to one, I am more attracted to the waitress showing a little cleavage working on eye contact to get a good tip, than the naked girl tworking in front of me. I was more attracted one time to a female customer that came to the strip joint in a suit from a conference, still wearing her name sticker. She had this look to her face when she looked at the strippers and when we made eye contact, it was the best moment I had at the strip joint. Go figure.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 78
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Posted: 5/29/2014 5:53:06 PM
^^^^^^^^^^
8.5 years in the Navy. Never once enjoyed a strip club or a personal entertainer for that matter. What a waste of time and money. It always amazed me that there were always a few guys that felt the dancers really did like them for more then their money. Hmmm....sure.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 79
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Posted: 5/29/2014 10:14:27 PM

Buying clothing, bras, swimsuits etc is an interesting challenge as well.
Don't get me started on running, tennis, horse riding, especially a trot, 4WD on bumpy roads, trampolines, skipping rope, exercise classes.... you get my drift.

Lol, I completely understand that.

I decided a long time ago that there is no reason to hide anything (unless I'm at work, a cardigan up to the neck seems to work), it is what it is and even when you attempt you hide it, EVERYBODY KNOWS, lol, you can't miss it.

In the era of so much plastic surgery and things of the sort, I've decided that I have what some women pay for, so I'm not gonna hide it. It's one thing to not show it off and another to be realistic and live with what you've got respectfully. So many people complain about being lied to or misrepresenting themselves, that it's only fair they see what they're gonna get in person. It might discourage some, it may encourage some, lol.

I've always wondered if the whole gawking over big boobs has to do with them scheming on them being big enough to slide their junk in between, be smothered by them, or have them slide up their back, but that's just a passing thought, lmao
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 80
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Posted: 5/29/2014 11:09:00 PM

8.5 years in the Navy. Never once enjoyed a strip club or a personal entertainer for that matter. What a waste of time and money. It always amazed me that there were always a few guys that felt the dancers really did like them for more then their money. Hmmm....sure.


Well, occasionally, they do. I've been friends with a few strippers throughout my life, and dated one for a while. It does happen. They ARE human.

But that's just how their job works. The guy that's there because he's single, hasn't been on a date for months, well, he's the one that she wishes she could have sex with him right now, but there's cameras on them, her boss wanders back a lot, laws that really do exist that make something as small as a kiss considered prostitution (no really, those laws exist. In NJ, touching boob for money can be considered prostitution, look it up) or any other excuse that keeps her JUST out of reach. Because that's what's going to make him spend money. Plus when you have a girl on top you, you're typically an idiot, like every other guy. There's always that guy because the girls learn how to put on that act. They deal with so many guys that they learn what works and what doesn't.
 ozsealady1
Joined: 6/13/2013
Msg: 81
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Posted: 5/30/2014 1:37:30 AM
Hi Belle...
Good to read you understand.

I will say I have never had a complaint when I am a motor bike pillion passenger.
So yes... some men do like boobs pressed on their back.
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 82
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Posted: 5/30/2014 9:45:45 AM

I was down at Numbers a couple of months ago, and there was a young lady who was 99% topless (pasties, if you remember those). And she had very nice assets, and was overall very attractive. The first few times I spotted her in the crowd, I was definitely oogling her. By the end of the evening, she was just another pretty face among many pretty faces.


I did not know this about New York city.

It's legal in NYC for a woman to go topless. Google Scout Willis topless, she recently posted topless pics of herself shopping in NYC as social media protest. Her hashtag is “FreeTheNipple”

I admire her bravdo and sense of humor.

I have to comment, topless Scout Willis looks sexy, but with clothes on she looks sort of plain jane. I must be influenced by the outdoor lighting.

It makes no sense for the press to censor her nipples on pics that are on the internet, all the while you can view endless graphic porn at the click of mouse. Or if you have a twitter account, she sent the pics on twitter.

My first experience with topless was when I about 28 and dating a French woman, when I took for to visit her grandmother in Cognac France, she took me on a day trip to a topless beach. After a while on the beach, from a distance it gets hard to tell for many of the men and women apart when neither of them wear a top. Some of the women were pretty thin with small breasts, some of the men were almost the same shape.

I am not overly impressed with large breasts, the second woman I slept with was about 20 years old and wore a 36J bra size. I didn’t really think about it till we were naked in bed. She was a little embarrassed by her size and complained about how they hurt her back. IMO they felt doughy, though of course I didn't say anything about it.

If you google “normal breast size gallery” there is a web site of 7 pages showing the varation in normal breast size. The website is for women that fret over their own breast size.

I know a lot of men like large breast, but plenty of men don't care about it so much.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 83
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Posted: 5/30/2014 10:40:06 AM

InnerGorilla
I may be the only guy who does not like strip joints


ClooneysMentor
Never once enjoyed a strip club


Ooops, my bad, I completely failed to make my point.

Numbers is not a strip joint. It is very unique, and most people in and around Houston will have heard of it. They bill themselves as a “dive bar / nightclub”. They have been open in the same location for 35 years. Back in the 80’s, they were THE hangout for the GOTH crowd. These days, they are only open on Friday and Saturday nights. Friday night is “80s night”, and they draw a huge crowd. People from 18 to 80 show up, and as they are in the Montrose area (wild part of town), they have a large subsection of the LGBT crowd, college kids, people in their 30’s and 40’s showing off their GOTH outfits from back in the days, and just about anything else that you could imagine.

For a “people watcher”, it is Nirvana. One night, a guy about my age (60’s) came in, wearing a G-string and dress shoes (no socks). A very gorgeous young woman was leading him around via a dog collar and leash. No one pointed, no one laughed, although everyone did look (discreetly). It is that kind of place.
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 84
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Posted: 5/30/2014 1:36:28 PM

I may be the only guy who does not like strip joints.

you're not. with its cynicism, phoniness and manipulation, the sex industry is one big splash of ice water to the crotch.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 85
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Posted: 5/30/2014 1:41:31 PM
Don't get me wrong, a topless doughnut shop is a nice way to have breakfast (Ft Lauderdale)
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 86
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Posted: 5/30/2014 1:57:58 PM

Don't get me wrong, a topless doughnut shop is a nice way to have breakfast (Ft Lauderdale)


How do they present the donuts to you? Please tell me it's exactly the way I'm thinking, because any other way is wasting being topless.
 ClooneysTutor
Joined: 3/30/2014
Msg: 87
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Posted: 5/30/2014 3:00:59 PM
Glazed side up:)

Better then a nude dude carrying 2 cups of coffee and a dozen donuts to your table...
 drivingharmony2
Joined: 3/22/2014
Msg: 88
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Posted: 5/30/2014 3:34:09 PM

the sex industry is one big splash of ice water to the crotch.


Don't you mean.....crutch?
 BeckyHT
Joined: 1/1/2013
Msg: 89
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Posted: 6/6/2014 5:43:30 AM


She has -for lack of a better term- huge boobs. She's a pretty girl, and is on here looking for an actual relationship, not fwb or hook ups etc. Almost every message quickly turns into a conversation about her chest, and it tends to be the first thing guys notice about her profile. It's not like she can hide them obviously. She's starting to hate that that's all men want to comment on, when she has other great things going for her. Bachelors degree, job, gorgeous hair lol, and she's a funny girl. I told her she should put some kind of warning on her profile, in a joking way like "i get it, my boobs are big, you don't need to tell me that". But she thinks that will come off as ****y?

Is there a way to deflect pervs from pointing out her boobs and getting sexual with her before even knowing her name? Or is she just doomed to be ogled at on this site?


The absolute best thing she should/could do, is get a breast reduction. I had mine when I was 50, and I wish I hadn't waited that long. Before that, I hated all the stares. First place the whole public looked, was at my chest, not my face. But now, I can fit into normal clothes, and my activities aren't limited because of a handicap. LOL.
 rockin-trucker82
Joined: 1/4/2014
Msg: 90
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Posted: 6/6/2014 10:00:47 AM

The absolute best thing she should/could do, is get a breast reduction. I had mine when I was 50, and I wish I hadn't waited that long. Before that, I hated all the stares. First place the whole public looked, was at my chest, not my face. But now, I can fit into normal clothes, and my activities aren't limited because of a handicap. LOL.


But just as many guys are into smaller. A lot of times proportional looks way better than big.

You can't avoid it. There's ALWAYS going to be a guy somewhere looking.
 14everBlessed2
Joined: 6/21/2012
Msg: 91
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Posted: 6/6/2014 10:41:53 AM
I am afraid someone will make a remark on her assets even if she had on a burkah. I put up a full pic taken in a summer maxi dress, I loved that dress and pic but in 2 days got so many messages about my boobs, I ended up taking it down. Yes I know that I am boobalicious but some don't see past that. What is sad is that I haven't worn that dress since.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 92
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Posted: 6/6/2014 10:54:25 AM

Yes I know that I am boobalicious but some don't see past that. What is sad is that I haven't worn that dress since.

If they can't see past my assets, I lose the ability to see past their wallet, lmao.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 93
I'm going to change this line, see who notices :)
Posted: 6/6/2014 12:40:34 PM
It is sad that there are some who won't look past appearances. Just like if you were a nerd in school, you got beat up for that instead of people looking beyond your glasses and pocket protector. Sometimes, the only "defense" is to roll with it, address the 400lb elephant in the room, and accept that its there and has to be dealt with before it can be moved past.

if someone has a phyiscal "ability" or "disability", there's no real way to hide it. I suspect the issue is with those who try to put it out in front, as if its part of their identity. If all a woman offers is a hot body...then she's set the mood for the relationship. Hopefully she does offer more, and is willing to put "it" (her humor, her intelligence, her passion, her energy, whatever it is, and hopefully its more than just one thing) out there as prominently.

I've known some stacked females I would have likely enjoyed having as (just be)friends, b/c their personality was as attractive as their body.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 94
I'm going to change this line, see who notices :)
Posted: 6/6/2014 2:01:46 PM
A fair trade-off would be if a guy doesn't care about a woman's boobs if a woman doesn't care about a guy's height or muscular build.
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