I've dated a guy on POF a couple of times- nothing really physical but we're getting there- or were.
And he stopped you in your tracks didn't he?
"Don't think badly of me for this but I used to sleep with a married woman. Her husband was impotent, it was okay by him, he used to pick me up and drop me home again."
He then went on to say "I'm not a fan of marriage."
He wanted you think he was a cheater and not marriage material
I really like the guy, otherwise. We get along well. Lots in common. I don't want to hurt his feelings
You can't hurt his feelings hon, he was telling you all the things women usually run from.
He knew exactly what he was doing and saying and what a normal womans response would be....... to run for the hills
He does not want you IMO...next