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 MikeWM
Joined: 2/7/2011
Msg: 51
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Its a bit "childish" though isnt it?

Stick your face in it and pop a finger up her arse yeah. But "fingering"? Are you 13?

Its a bit of fun in situations where you cant really do much else, and VERY hot when a woman slips her own fingers in here then brushes your mouth when out socialising or in other scenarios where you cant respond

But other than that it seems a bit "drab" by itself and getting too "up there" takes away the initial tightness on first penetration
 nikkisenko
Joined: 9/5/2011
Msg: 52
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/6/2011 6:26:59 PM
I've only met one guy like that. And, even when I positioned myself in ways that would make it almost impossible to avoid, he still seems to skirt around and not actually stick his fingers inside me. He was pretty adventurous over all. But, after awhile, I just kinda figured he didn't really care for it. He made up for it in other ways. :)
 SweetLilGTP
Joined: 10/22/2010
Msg: 53
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/6/2011 8:00:06 PM
If she's lying down and facing the other way; he may picking his nose, or cleaning his teeth,

Man's only got so many fingers.

Since the remote control requires a few of em; that leaves less......for her.


, he still seems to skirt around and not actually stick his fingers inside me.


Do wet willies count?


Really!!!????? If my date wears a skirt, that's a "green light"/go fer it signal??!! Who knew? I gotta write this down somewhere. I can't thank you enough!!


If she's willing to tease you, and herself, under the skirt while you drive to where you're going; it's usuallya real good sign. (Note: You may spend a bit more on gas that week)


 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 54
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/6/2011 9:25:15 PM
good....let these losers...these men who are LESS than great lovers NOT give women the finger...



i always do...


even and always when eating that pootie....
 TopGun4U79
Joined: 11/7/2010
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Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/6/2011 9:30:15 PM
Always use the finger if the opportunity is possible. Not for her pleasure, but to preform a sniff test to see if this is something worth persuing.

It's gotten me out of some F'ed up situations where I least expected it.
 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 56
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/7/2011 4:34:17 AM
Hmmmm...was always a part of my forte.....specially the finger...or two!...lol
 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 57
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/7/2011 4:38:56 AM
Op,
Sorry, at 41yo, i find it very odd for you to be asking these questions. In fact it borders on perversion...Sorry...
 BountyHunterMike
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 58
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/7/2011 5:52:49 AM
AGAIN their is a lack of communication on the woman part...if she wants something she should have the guts to tell the man what she wants....Im not sure if you know but men can't read minds..neither can woman....lack of commincation is not a excuess for complaining...so stop complaining and communicate..
 Capn_America
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 59
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/7/2011 6:38:15 AM

even and always when eating that pootie....


LMAO Pootie...pardon me for being French from Quebec, but I never even HEARD that word before, what part of the female anatomy is it, the front or the back??
That one definately hit the "word of the day" status in my book

Anyways, this whole thread is "Finger-licking good"
 Linda136
Joined: 5/3/2011
Msg: 60
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/8/2011 5:47:09 PM
Just ask. I'll tell. It's not rocket science. We aren't in high school any more fumbling around in the dark (so to speak) Ha, reminds me of the movie, Porky's. I'm not your last girlfriend and I'm not your former wife. You're nobody I've been before either. We've all been around the block a few times, (some of us a few more times than others), what works with one doesn't necessarily work for another. But, having said that, chances are you, I, have learned a few tricks that will work.

Yes, fingers. The top of my head blows off.
 Songwriter1944
Joined: 11/24/2011
Msg: 61
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/8/2011 9:32:03 PM
A MEN BROTHER! I'm 67 and never have been able to figgure out women. Why don't they just say what they want. The man is expected to know everything! WOW!
Come on Ladies! We're not born with sixth sence like you are. We tell you what we want and get a big "NO" What a matter? You afraid if you ask we'll say no. I think that's a big problem. NO TALKIE ,NO ASKIE
 --Zen--
Joined: 6/29/2011
Msg: 62
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/9/2011 3:30:42 AM
Perhaps a justified fear of introducing a pathogen to delicate environment?
Subtle hints like "Digital kitty" or "Vulvafingeritis" might get a message across. Clean hands or latex gloves are strongly recommended.
 FyrKrakn
Joined: 11/1/2011
Msg: 63
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/9/2011 4:04:10 AM
One of the things I am a bit noisy about is telling the teens to inspect for cleanliness. It's a good thing to encourage, the non-bumpin uglies forms of sex as an option, but, all the same, the hands and mouth need to be as clean as possible.

What do women want? Not to put too fine a point on it but a man's hands and how he moves can be every bit as different as one man's package from another's and how he uses that. So what I want from one man, might be quite different from my next lover.
 PassingThru44
Joined: 6/17/2011
Msg: 64
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/29/2011 5:32:24 AM
All I want to say is that skillfully using your fingers inside a lady is the surest way of giving her a g-spot orgasm. Reason right there to get those fingers in shape.
 parageneric47
Joined: 10/1/2011
Msg: 65
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/29/2011 6:37:40 AM
I agree using one's fingers can lead to many fantastic orgasms. I hav e always enjoyed extended fore play. Using tongue, fingers, ever lightly blowing has increased the pleasure for both of us
 SymphonynRain
Joined: 11/10/2011
Msg: 66
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/29/2011 9:18:18 AM
They are most likely afraid of doing it wrong. Similar reason to why most women are reluctant to give head if they are a "virgin" at it. Or the much more common reason being, he wants his****pleasured for a good 10 minutes then bye bye sleep time, and see you tomorrow night.
 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 67
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/29/2011 10:39:58 AM
While I appreciate your question, I find it a bit odd that you are not direct in saying what you mean. You use euphemisms for clitoris, labia, vaginal entrance, anal passage etc: 'man in the boat,' 'brush .. on the outside,' 'up their alley'. Say what you mean and then you wont sound like the guys who don't give the finger, wont pleasure their women friends.

Now to your question. Though not a man, I think the reluctance some guys have about pleasuring a woman is two-fold, maybe more-fold: lack of knowledge about female anatomy and disgust (I know, wtf!). The first can easily be remedied with a bit of research (which some guys don't want to do [an ex-partner just wouldn't do any reading, despite me pushing lots of books and websites his way]), while the second is more a psychological issue ("it feels icky in there") which is even less likely to be addressed.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 68
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/30/2011 9:49:10 PM
I use the Spocker.
 cjcgirl
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 69
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/30/2011 9:55:45 PM
Seriously I love getting fingered.. it gets me off so good.
 KingofSnuggles
Joined: 5/17/2011
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Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/30/2011 10:57:07 PM
For me if they are not forthcuming with what they like or how they like it, I try it all but if I get no reaction then I move on. Definitely starts with fingering tho, but why tickle it when I SOOOOOO wanna eat it!!!
 southernbabe03
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 71
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 12/30/2011 11:10:41 PM
I personally love to be fingered! MMM, it feels really good when he is performing oral sex on me. It will bring me to an awesome climax!!!
I like it because if he goes in deep enough it creates a great sensation on the inside.
I haven't been with a man who didn't use his fingers during or before oral sex! I have been blessed!
 woodsaw
Joined: 9/11/2010
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Posted: 1/1/2012 12:03:25 PM
well i cant belive that men dont like to play down ther that is what i live for play with it touche it an put my finger way up inside an move it around an take it out tesat it yumyum
 deere rancher
Joined: 7/9/2008
Msg: 73
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 1/1/2012 12:18:50 PM
this is so ridiculous , its funny ....... whats wrong with her finger , or a batery operated device ....try those options , instead of lying on your back ,pouting because you want something different ...........? when taken into context of SERIOUS relationship issues ,
 Allan Anger
Joined: 7/17/2008
Msg: 74
Guys not giving the finger
Posted: 1/2/2012 6:46:17 PM
K, finger me up and call me stupid,,,BUT,,,any lady I have been with,,,,use 2 fingers, very gentley, and caress the TOP side of the Vagina, inside, .. Not sure if is the infamous "G" spot, but I just know it works. And if the lady cums, I am as happy as she is..
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 1/6/2012 11:11:10 AM
Really, some women like it, some do not,Men are not mind readers
we need to be told, what a woman likes.....
my last woman friend loved it, but did not like penetration ......
everybody is different .....
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