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 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 426
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??Page 11 of 30    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, 30)

in other words, if you consider a woman as a LTR partner, the information about how many sexual partners she had in past would make a difference for you


there will be the few people who will answer this question HONESTLY

and the majority who will give the politically correct/'expected' answer.....

I seriously doubt that it would not be a consideration to MOST men, OR women, if their partner had previously had 1,000 previous, or 10,000 partners..or 20,000 previous

Wilt Chamberlain claimed 40,000 I believe? also Earvin 'Magic' Johnson had numbers in the thousands..he did get AIDS too though..most of Wilt's were prior to the AIDS era I think.

probably many rock stars & pro athletes could claim numbers in the hundreds if not thousands; lots of women too especially former or current escorts/prostitutes..

If you can HONESTLY claim you would not bat an eye/care at all if your prospective partner had had sex with 10,000 people before you..kudos to you!
 RockyMountainThunder
Joined: 12/2/2010
Msg: 427
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/1/2011 2:05:58 PM
If I like her it doesn't matter who she was with, it only matters who she is with at the moment. Hopefully that would be me.
 sexyisback!
Joined: 9/14/2010
Msg: 428
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/1/2011 2:10:29 PM
^^

but if she'd been with ten thousand before it might not even CROSS your mind that she might soon get bored/tired of you and move on to # 10,002 (you being # 10,001?)

OK , well some people are optimists :)

good for you

VVVVV

err so was there a good reason why you divorced? having vast sexual experience doesn't always make up for everything I guess?

VVVV
 RockyMountainThunder
Joined: 12/2/2010
Msg: 431
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/1/2011 2:26:04 PM

but if she'd been with ten thousand before it might not even CROSS your mind that she might soon get bored/tired of you and move on to # 10,002 (you being # 10,001?)

OK , well some people are optimists :)

good for you


IF she had been with 10,000 guys the echo might bother me for sure.
 OSUguy99
Joined: 4/8/2009
Msg: 434
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/1/2011 5:41:56 PM
on this whole virgin thing and someone commenting about too few partners could be worse????? really. is that the level of disconnect with intimacy for some people. shouldn't the level of admiration and respect and love you have for a person determine the level of fulfillment from intimacy, not said persons experience level. jesus. some of my worst experiences were with women i didnt think 12 guys a bag of coke and a sybian sex machine could satisfy. haha, but seriously i guess im in a minority who thinks it depends how i feel about the person. being inexperienced would not be a problem for me. it would also make me respect them all the more. id rather be in a healthy communicative relationship with a virgin who wants to learn how to please ME and me HER, than have her think this is what matt, tim, darryl and steve liked so you will too. if you love someone you learn to please them, and enjoy the journey.
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 435
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/2/2011 6:47:26 AM
GeeeeeEEEeeeeeze! Get the Frikk over it Man! Most of the women I go out with have had LOTS & LOTS of partners (I like experienced ) Those one's with no miles on them have to be broke in like a new car,. keep the RPM's low and no heavy braking or performance cornering 'till after the first oil change,. Hell with that,.. I wanna jump in throw it in gear and leave rubber on the highway (there's a pun in there somewhere) Tell you what,. you break them in,.. and I'll wring them out to see what they have under the hood, and what they'll do.. ok?
 Time_For_Two
Joined: 1/11/2011
Msg: 436
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/2/2011 6:56:51 AM

Those one's with no miles on them have to be broke in like a new car,.


How do you figure that the number of men a woman has been with indicates her sexual experience?

I have been with very few men intimately, but that does not mean I don't know what i'm doing or what I like.
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 437
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/2/2011 3:24:15 PM
"How do you figure that the number of men a woman has been with indicates her sexual experience? I have been with very few men intimately, but that does not mean I don't know what i'm doing or what I like"


Well,.. GOOD for you!! ,.. I'm lad you caught on quick! Now.. get out there & set some track-records!
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 438
GIRLFRIEND
Posted: 3/2/2011 4:23:14 PM

(igorfrankensteen) By all rights, if one believes in looking down one's nose at someone...


... then, that person is a normal, functioning human bean. ALL people look down on SOMEONE; anyone who says different is just a low-down dirty liar...

Arlo...

(Personally, I look down on liars...)
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 439
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/2/2011 4:26:30 PM

(FortyFine44122) This is don't ask - don't tell" subject
Why ask the question if you can't handle the answer???


Because the answer you GET, may not be the answer you EXPECT.

C'mon: don't sit there with a straight face and tell me you'd react the same way to the answer to "Ever been in a Tijuana donkey show?", whether the answer was "Yes" or "No"...

Arlo...
 DebiDuzDishes
Joined: 4/9/2009
Msg: 440
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/2/2011 5:53:12 PM
Well.. i think Charlie Sheen would consider her a virgin.. its all perception!!
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 442
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/3/2011 1:56:10 AM
i don't agree with OP about being worried about his girlfriend dating too many men prior to him.

if it were my girlfriend it would be an issue if she is seeing alot of these men while IN a relationship with me.if she was unfaithful to several men in her past and i knew this information prior to dating her i possibly would change my mind.that would depend on what i was looking for out of a relationship at that time.

i know if i'm really crazy about someone and theres a connection between us her prior dating history won't keep me from asking her out of a date and starting a relationship with her.those kinds of relationships don't come around too often.
 thetrick123
Joined: 7/16/2010
Msg: 443
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/3/2011 7:48:49 AM
Under no circumstances is the number of partners either I or anyone I am involved with going to be discussed, not happening. Its nobodys business, neither mine nor theirs.

We all had lives and loves prior to meeting one another, some of us had more than relationship than others, what of it?

End of story
 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
Msg: 445
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Posted: 3/3/2011 11:49:07 AM

That's perfectly within your rights...
Equally it's perfectly within the other person's rights to NOT date you if he feels a need to know...

And despite it not being politically correct,some people do feel they need to know...

1...They may have their own views on sex and intimacy that are very important to them...
2...Maybe they've only slept with one or two other people and simply don't want a partner that's slept with dozens, hundreds or whatever...
3...There are STI's that people can get that while no longer being infectious may have affected your long term health... ie HPV leading to Cervical cancer, Hepatitis leading to liver problems, other STI's causing infertility..(not an isue for older people but it is for the young)... Less partners can substantially reduce the risk... and condoms don't protect against everything...


If someone told me t wasn't my business then I'ddecide they weren't the person for me... End of story...



I see most people don't agree with you m church but that's how I feel too. It's a question I always ask. One guy told me 30 or 40 then said it could be as many as 100 he doesn't keep track. I figured he was exaggerating and it didn't completely make me lose interest but it did make me wonder.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 446
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HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/3/2011 4:16:36 PM
My ex gf was one of those thin big boobs bubble rear 10's that was with alot of guys she would tell me if she liked him she did him , it was a daily thing, yes women do compare, I have alot of female friends and they talk about that stuff in front of me about every detail from size, stamina, technique and all . It does intimidate me to know but I do try to ignore it as much as possible but the outcome is always to my favor, they compare me favoreably , if I did not get good reviews that would really put me down .
 thetrick123
Joined: 7/16/2010
Msg: 448
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/3/2011 7:05:32 PM
Are we talking about comparing the man we're with to men we've been with? Or are we discussing how many partners we have been with?

Would I openly compare the man I was currently dating with some guy I had dated in the past...oh hell no! Would I talk to my g/fs about men I have dated, without a doubt.

Can somebody tell me please whats the magic number of past suitors that most men would find acceptable in order for us gals to be consider dating material? Is it 10? 15?, less than 5?

I can honestly say that no one has ever asked me that question. Hmmm, I wonder what that means?
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 449
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/5/2011 8:15:17 AM
(sddude) My ex gf was one of those thin big boobs bubble rear 10's that was with alot of guys she would tell me if she liked him she did him , it was a daily thing, yes women do compare, I have alot of female friends and they talk about that stuff in front of me about every detail from size, stamina, technique and all . It does intimidate me to know but I do try to ignore it as much as possible...


Bad idea, IMHANHO. Every time a woman talks about stuff like this, it's a learning point. You should be taking (mental) notes.

If it's your GF, that's one thing; but, if it's your friends, it's a whole 'nuther ball of wax...

Arlo...
 nothemommy
Joined: 2/26/2011
Msg: 450
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/5/2011 11:12:13 AM

Dear Hugo

Get over your ego!


 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 451
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Posted: 3/5/2011 11:19:07 AM
Dear marcus#18181
I was playing my violin in a sad tune while reading your posted problem regarding your present girlfriend with exciting past, that she has been with too many men,(gee, I am green envious how did she manage that????). If she was a man we'd say she was just sowing some oats on the big wide field,no biggie,,,, but since she was a woman,we stoned her to death for being such a cute Sl*t...I mean we the moral police do that. ...


<div class="quote"> HELP- GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN

I can help you by sending some DINERO for your Gf to go to a physician to make the tunnel new like a Virgin... And do yourself a favor don't ask your Gf again rating you on going in her tunnel if you are the best than the rest, it is not polite....
Vannili//// writing like Miss Abby.



 sharptack
Joined: 9/25/2010
Msg: 452
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/5/2011 2:16:30 PM
Oh grow up Hugo.
You'd better get some confidence and class about yourself REAL quick or she'll be better off to break up with you.
If you can't get over yourself, then you'd be doing her a favor by breaking up with her.

Sheesh! Make her wish she'd have never told you anything! I guess it's your right to worry about STD's. They can be a beeyatch.
She's probably wishing she'd just kept her mouth shut about now.
I repeat...Grow up.
 Cdn_Iceman
Joined: 12/1/2010
Msg: 453
HELP ME - GIRLFRIEND HAS BEEN WITH TOO MANY MEN??
Posted: 3/5/2011 2:19:38 PM
Most of you hasn't noticed but Hugo is gone, like moonshine at a hillbillies house
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 454
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Posted: 3/5/2011 4:26:34 PM
^^^^^^^^ I know that and he has three threads history , It beats me what is his problem about a woman sexuality in his three threads.
 heynow63
Joined: 12/21/2010
Msg: 455
GIRLFRIEND
Posted: 3/8/2011 11:31:28 AM
but all you guys know dudes look down on "easy girls"...that's a lot of what they talk about. none of them wanted to be with her, she was just known as a sure thing because she was.
 Whatisnewwithyou
Joined: 1/25/2011
Msg: 456
GIRLFRIEND
Posted: 3/8/2011 12:25:05 PM
Just be thankful that she is only into humans, there is worse out there you know.
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
Msg: 457
GIRLFRIEND
Posted: 3/8/2011 3:51:40 PM

but all you guys know dudes look down on "easy girls"...that's a lot of what they talk about. none of them wanted to be with her, she was just known as a sure thing because she was.


Little do these men realize that women talk too and the term manslut is alive and kicking ..
after all, it is 2011.

Whatever happened to looking beyond the number to who the person is, how do they treat you, treat themselves and others. Should that be the bigger focus?
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