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 dreamer1984
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 101
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Ok so clearly it is a matter of opinion with this here, some girls are flattered by it but some are uncomfortable with it. I guess in the end guys just TRY to maybe do it where the girl just doesn't see ha or if you do it be sorta quick about it you know? Cos ya I don't mind it if they look quick I am usually flattered ha n if they look like they like it or whatever then I just downright like that ha so it doesn't bug me but I think usually what girls don't like too is if say you're talkin to them or they are talking to you and you just STARE there the whole time n NEVER look in their eyes you know? THEN we don't like that so ya if you look make sure it's a glance n for god sake plz whether you like them or not at least TRY to have a look on your face like you do but not in some strange creepy way but like an appreciation kind of way you know? I dunno I mean I'd be the same w/ any guy for sure if I was like that n looked there but I'm not ha so ya and it's a bit diff w/ guys anyway cos of the egos n all that we gotta be careful how much we let on we like them or whatever lol...
 66swoosh
Joined: 1/24/2006
Msg: 102
Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 4/30/2006 2:08:24 PM
Ladies.... good answers one and all.

Blastkist: +1 for you. I'd certainly like to find you in a bar. LOL


As for the rest of it, I agree with what you're saying, and yes I'm a gentleman, but I'm going to play Devil's advocate for a minute.

1) You wear low tops to attract a guys attention
2) You want him to look
3) You don't want him to stare because that's just wrong

So essentially you're saying, I like my breasts, I want you to like them to, but I only want you to like them long enough to talk to me, and then forget I have them.

If a guy stares, and I'm not condoning it by any means because it's just sociably unacceptable to glare, you should be flattered.

Haley's comet comes every 75 years. If I saw it, I would watch it until it was totally gone. I wouldn't take my eyes off it til I had to.

Women's breasts, of all sizes, exposed for viewing... are like car accidents on the highway. You don't want to look, but you find you have to.
 soulblaze
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 103
Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 4/30/2006 2:41:24 PM
Looking at a woman's breast is fun but it also depends where. If you are at work and look at a woman's breast (whether or not she is dressed appropriately) is considered sexual harassment.

If you are looking at a woman's breasts outside of the workplace, in British Columbia, she can legally charge you for Leering at her and press charges under the Criminal Code.

As much fun as it is, just LOOKING at a woman can be INTERPRETED as something criminal whether or not it is intended to be.
 EarthnCirciuts
Joined: 2/26/2003
Msg: 104
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Posted: 4/30/2006 2:46:15 PM

If you are looking at a woman's breasts outside of the workplace, in British Columbia, she can legally charge you for Leering at her and press charges under the Criminal Code.


Care to tell us what Part, Section, and Article that is? I've never heard of it.
 dreamer1984
Joined: 3/18/2006
Msg: 105
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Posted: 4/30/2006 2:47:11 PM
^^ O..m..g...seriously? I didn't really know that then the guys at my work look all the time n I don't always really like it but I just thought well what the heck can I do bout somethin like looking as long as it's not touchin (not the case w/ my boss but he's just a sneaky dirty old man so ya) n ya the leerin thing happens all the time but I always just dunno what to do bout that either cos people are gonna think whatever they want so how can they really be charged for something like looking or thoughts? I dunno...
 soulblaze
Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 106
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Posted: 4/30/2006 2:53:18 PM
I don't have a "part" or a "section". It is a law that can be interpreted by someone and if there is a "feeling" about it, the burden of proof falls on the man. It falls under the sexual harassment policy and, at least in Canada, women are considered "vulnerable" therefore a woman, could say she was threatened by a man staring at her chest and the man is resposible for the "leering" act.

It is unlikely that someone would ever charge someone but it is an option that a woman has if she doesn't like a man. In a court of law I dubt it would get very far, however it is something that a woman can use if she wanted to.

Does it stop me? No, of course not.
 Strawberri_Max
Joined: 10/9/2005
Msg: 107
Looking at a womans breasts...
Posted: 4/30/2006 3:26:52 PM

if im showing some clevage..then duh yea i want them looked at...but dont oogle over em...and told stare at em while telling me i have beautiful green eyes...they are blue ;)...yes look at them....but dont make it so obvious...and look at my eyes once in awhile too :) .


Thanks for your response SweetKristine...I enjoyed reading it. Rah rah rah

Anyone out there with freckled cleavage who love to show it off, I am totally yours
and in fact just for the thought have just melted now and am in a puddle on the floor

Beauty spots are what they are called and my throat goes dry, my eyes gape wide
as my draw drops, my speech stutters, my fingers tremble and the tumblers inside seem to get matched and line up and I feel like I have struck a jackpot at a slot machine and scored an extra ball in a pinbaLL GAME ALL AT ONCE ...plus the pitter patter in my heart and butterflies in my stomach to boot...

and then usually after all of this chain reaction like in some movie some guy with a bucket comes out of no where and throws this big bucket of cold water all over me

compose your self he seems to say -lol


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 Thrill069
Joined: 1/29/2004
Msg: 108
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Posted: 4/30/2006 3:44:42 PM

and if you don't want us to look then cover up!
it's like the girls with the thongs stickin out of their pants, if you don't care your hanging out you can't say shit for a man looking at what he finds attractive, prudes!


Amen brother! I know of women who say the don't like men staring at their breasts or ass, yet they wear clothing that shows cleavage or hugs their ass. If a woman is the type of person that doesn't like men looking and they wear that type of clothing, then it's pretty simple... stop wearing it!
 horny_in_calgary
Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 109
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:13:18 PM
It's quite simple actually.....

Right from the time we come out of our mother's womb we are cradled and held close to her
boobs...We feed from her boobs...we take comfort from her boobs....

Are ya getting the picture yet....

 WyldChyld
Joined: 2/22/2006
Msg: 110
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:30:30 PM
Looking at womens breasts actually increase men's health and longevity. No joke. They have done study's. I can't qoute sources for you guys to go show your wives, but I know I read it awhile back.
Psychology today maybe......????
 BCKitsguy
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 111
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:50:48 PM
I once read in a man's mag.. can't remember which one right now, but it was one of those advice columns for men written by women. The topic was exactly about this. The bottom lline was... push up bras don't put themselves on. Myself i have to glance.. i simply cannot not look. Discreetly of course... me being shy.
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 112
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Posted: 4/30/2006 4:54:38 PM

If mens penis were 3 feet higher on their body and we wore shirts that exposed it the way some women wear their tops, you would be looking at that area too I would think!


All is fair in love and war. I look at it anyway!
 Halfevl333
Joined: 3/26/2006
Msg: 113
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Posted: 4/30/2006 8:01:02 PM
Well, I will look at the breasts just to see how large they are. I do not like large breasts so when I see a woman with large ones I am turned off somewhat... Now a woman with small breasts who show them off is very seductive...

 sayonara7
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 4/30/2006 8:20:04 PM
No, its not flattering, I wouldn't date a guy that looks at my breasts instead of my face or eyes.Jeez, am I the only girl to disagree??
 redhead22
Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 5/1/2006 4:19:38 AM
Nah I agree with ya..Sorry but if I was starring a guy lap like some guys look at my chest I would probably be in trouble...Now the other thing is guys ya tell us we are asking for it by dressing sexy? So if you guys wore tight ass hugging jeans and wife beater tops ya be asking for it?
 Hezron
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 116
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Posted: 5/1/2006 5:29:58 AM
Looking is fine if you are attractive...If you are not it can lose you your job...hehehehehehe. what always makes me laugh is wehn you see a women in the summer who is obviously putting everyhting on display in an almost pornographic fashion and then when guys look (unnattractive guys) they get all huffy. If you don't want us looking cover up. I think it is sad that here in Cansada you can go topless and nobody does.
 buzzingbee
Joined: 3/25/2005
Msg: 117
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Posted: 5/1/2006 5:30:28 AM
It takes time until I let his eyes slip lower
 sayonara7
Joined: 3/13/2006
Msg: 118
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Posted: 5/1/2006 8:02:38 AM
Hey, hezron, in summer you dont exactly wear overcoats and jeans and long skirts.Its hot, so as little as possible should be worn, that does not mean you want guys to look at you in a sexual way, jeez thats offensive to me atleast.Oh and I'm not going to cover myself up fully when its like 80 degrees fahrenheit, just so that guys wouldn't look at me that way.I wish they stopped, but their looking at me won't stop me from wearing clothes that makes me comfortable.I dress up for me not for men.I'm not sure what other women think but thats just how I think.
 LiveWyre
Joined: 4/27/2005
Msg: 119
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Posted: 5/1/2006 8:14:02 AM
I don't think women mind when I look at their breasts.....it's the drool running down my bag that sets them off!
 carpaccio
Joined: 4/20/2006
Msg: 120
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Posted: 5/1/2006 8:19:56 AM
It depends on the situation. If I'm having a conversation with a man, and he won't look above my neck, it's very irritating. If I have worn a low-cut top and feel sexy, I don't mind some looks, but there are other parts to my body!
 Hezron
Joined: 12/15/2005
Msg: 121
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Posted: 5/1/2006 8:54:00 AM
Sayanora....that was not what I was talking about. I was talking when they are making a deliberate effort to put everything on display...whoring it up as it were. I in no way meant that women should have to hide themselves....if I wanted that I could move to Iran. The neat thing is if everyboy just went around naked when it was nice out it would not be an issue.
 emtchicky
Joined: 4/17/2003
Msg: 122
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Posted: 5/1/2006 9:02:54 AM
I don't mind if you look! That's why I've dressed to flatter my cleavage, so you silly boys can LOOK! But don't purposely spill your drink on me to offer to 'lick it up' for me.... BAH! I hate that!
 xneo19
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 123
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Posted: 5/1/2006 9:12:17 AM
Great !!! I feel releived now !!!

I do look, but I can also look elsewhere and talk intelligently too.
 BCKitsguy
Joined: 2/24/2006
Msg: 124
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Posted: 5/1/2006 10:30:45 AM
If a woman i find sexy is showing a little cleavage, unfortunately i don't have much intelligent to say anyway. There's usually just a lot of drooling involved as well as some incoherent off topic blather about the space program or kidney stones or something....lol. Yeah for a fairly intelligent guy, i can be counted on to lose some concentration....lol. Until i look into their eyes and speak like a normal man... All i can say is... ladies, please... don't change a thing. Keep being feminine.
 Montreal_Guy
Joined: 3/8/2004
Msg: 125
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Posted: 5/1/2006 10:38:29 AM
I'm not really a breast man, and have never pulled that "hyp-no-tiiiized" look on a woman in my entire life.

A quick glance is normally enough, and mirror sunglasses are one possible solution - under the right circumstances.
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