at what point is it ok to ask if he is seeing/sleeping with anyone else?I say at the point he is reaching to remove your panties. It's a fair question to ask when about to become physically intimate with someone.
Is it ok to ask, I don't want to scare him away.Always treat yourself as #1; don't do something with someone if you are uncomfortable doing so.
Good luck with this dude!
My POF bf and I had been seeing each other for sometime before becoming intimate, so I guess I just figured there wasn't anyone else.Never assume exclusivity until you have had "the talk".