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 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 26
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If a woman watches two men having sex, to her they loose thier masculinity, the thing that is attractive to women...


Really? Not at all, for me. Two men having sex is incredibly hot to me--if I like men and c*cks, then two is even better. Men so scared of homosexuality that they have to portray that sort of thing as "gross" is another matter entirely, and makes me think they're pretty insecure in their own masculinity.

Personally, two women together doesn't do much for me (at least in porn--watching any two people in person who have chemistry is always hot), but I love watching two men together.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 27
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/14/2010 12:44:45 PM

Really? Not at all, for me


Exactly true....not with you...but you and others like you are the exception ...there always is that, and maybe its broadening these days, but has a long way to go.

I was basically refering to the general masses. One of things man has had to maintain through the years was his image...the strong one, the provider, the hunter, etc...confidence....

Silly, because its only an image, that if he slips, and falters...the image is shattered...to some.

Silly too, is the image that all bi-sexual or gay men, don't fit this manly image...and its not just men that feel this way.

Personally, I'm not afraid of it, its just not my thing.
 VacationGuy234
Joined: 8/1/2008
Msg: 28
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/14/2010 2:00:40 PM
Troll! In the dungeons! There's a TROOOLLLLLLL in the dungeons!
Just thought you ought to know.
[faints and crumples onto the floor]
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 29
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/14/2010 9:50:40 PM
Okay....never in my life did I understand this....UNTIL I had a girlfriend who had a fantasy about it. She wanted to walk in on me with another woman and then undress herself and join in...so I set this up with a beautiful young lady. My girlfriend went out to a club with her friend. I texted her as MY date progressed. When we went to our bedroom I let her know...I left the phone on speaker so she could hear everything as she drove home...during her entire drive she said it drove her crazy with combination of jealousy... from hearing the girl moaning, knowing we were enjoying each and anticipation as the drive home was long and she had no way of shortening it (about 28 miles)... it made her incredibly horny...well by the time she got home she could barely walk...hoped in bed with us and it was incredible...

It wasn't as some have stated...them going at it and me watching...I was in the middle of the whole thing...it was very sensual. We also all slept together that night...which was nice but got a bit hot for me...I was in the middle...I should have put myself at one end.


So...I chalk that up to experience...it was GREAT, but I wouldn't ever ask to do this again with another girl. Now if another woman asked for this again I would certainly do it!
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 30
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Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/15/2010 6:15:00 AM

Okay....never in my life did I understand this....UNTIL I had a girlfriend who had a fantasy about it. She wanted to walk in on me with another woman and then undress herself and join in...so I set this up with a beautiful young lady. My girlfriend went out to a club with her friend. I texted her as MY date progressed. When we went to our bedroom I let her know...I left the phone on speaker so she could hear everything as she drove home...during her entire drive she said it drove her crazy with combination of jealousy... from hearing the girl moaning, knowing we were enjoying each and anticipation as the drive home was long and she had no way of shortening it (about 28 miles)... it made her incredibly horny...well by the time she got home she could barely walk...hoped in bed with us and it was incredible...


Gotta admit, that sounds hot. HMMM, maybe there's something to it.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 31
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/15/2010 8:54:51 AM
Again I was suggesting that with the general masses, I think this is true some what...this notion of the masculinity was brought up on a sex site I was on, and the masses seemed to agree with it, with the exception of a few who were more open minded and different like you and the other woman here...

Not, because I want to prove or disprove this notion...but it might make a good question, just to find out why its such a turn off to some women.

I know one thing that was brought up on that site as far as women getting serious with a bi-sexual man...beyond the usual worrying about dieases, not attracted to the notion, or just meerly a monogamous relation wanted...but, was its enough she has to wonder about him straying with other women, but other men too.

Of course to those who are open minded to the notion and in open mariages or relation...this did not apply.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 32
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/15/2010 2:43:44 PM
damassteel...You have no idea...well maybe you do...but that was an incredibly hot time...I've never in my life cheated so I got to feel that naughtiness without it really being cheating, plus even though the whole thing was set up so that I'd get caught...for a bit there I still didn't know how it would play out in reality...would she join in or would the jealousy be too much for her...So I was a little nervous too...not too much though because we HAD played with another woman once before.
So...even though the girl/girl thing was never a fantasy of mine...I do understand it now and have experienced it so I'm good however my next LTR wants to play it...vanilla or spiced!
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 33
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/16/2010 10:10:19 AM
Does nada, nothing, zilch for me..................but then again while I may find a woman attractive, I don't drool/want them sexually!!!!
 damassteel
Joined: 7/22/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 2/16/2010 10:13:47 AM
Interesting stuff.
Me? I'm not repulsed by girl on girl or gay stuff...I'm just Indifferent to it; big differnce. Although jc415's experience has given me pause to rethink.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 35
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/16/2010 11:23:36 AM
I'm a convert...I had actually passed up two different opportunities before the one I mentioned...simply because I wasn't into it...the one girl I was with got me to try a bunch of stuff that I never thought of and found all of it exciting.
So...I guess from my experience I'm now pretty open minded to try something new now rather than just dismiss it.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 36
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/16/2010 4:09:06 PM

Interesting stuff.
....actually it was a good question....trying to find out why the appeal....I guess the way you said...."you don't get it "..threw me off track...sorry!

I figure the first and foremost answer is simply because its hot to some men.

When I watched more porn and first saw it in porn..I admit it was very hot and I enjoyed watching it, but as time passed it sorta lost its appeal...not sure if because it became too repetitive or partially you can't tell if they really cum, or because it has just become raw, where before it was more sensual.

Really all porn has become repetitive, and unless the people really appear into it, and its something different...it doesn't do as much for me....I never really got into watching a lot of porn.

I've been with two women, but they were straight and it was sensual and fun....if with two gay women...I think I would feel like a by-stander, and because they aren't into men..I doubt I could get into that...

But, I will admit if unattached, and the opportunity to join in with two bi-sexual women came up....I'm sure I would join in.
 PrinceCharmingsCousin
Joined: 9/1/2009
Msg: 37
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/17/2010 12:24:54 AM
CallMeJen: maybe you should leave the girl/girl porn alone and watch some girl/boy porn to get some tips on how to tell your guy you want sex lol (from your other thread)
It might help.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 38
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 2/17/2010 3:16:25 AM

Having not had sex,


Oh God....my point exactly, porn portrays men as the pumping robots and don't show the passionate, sensual side of men....and why is that?

Because most porn was designed for the male viewer....he doesn't want to see passionate and sensual men...

But thank you for your post, it re affirms the underlying reason I think some men get off on watching two women...not necessarily what you think either.

Enjoy your porn honey, just remember, they are actors, itys scripted for the male viewer, and in real life, its much different....
 eagerbeaver69
Joined: 10/3/2011
Msg: 39
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/19/2011 11:46:17 AM
I like it too..women are just so soft and sensual and beautiful..seeing them caress and lick eachother is totally hot..plus they care about giving eachother orgasms..where as some guys just care about their own orgasm and not about ours.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 40
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/19/2011 11:50:17 AM
I have barely a passing interest in girl on girl. (Though seeing two hot women is better than one.) I get bored with watching lesbian porn very quickly... Unless they break out the strap-on. That's kind of hot.

 Sportsfreak89
Joined: 12/28/2010
Msg: 41
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/19/2011 11:55:06 AM
I cannot explain why, but I do find it quite sexy and exciting to watch.
 cherryyblossom
Joined: 7/19/2009
Msg: 42
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/21/2011 6:16:53 AM
girl-on-girl: super hot!
 jade2784
Joined: 10/1/2011
Msg: 43
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/21/2011 8:05:38 AM
whats not to like?? Best of both worlds
 karawrrrr87
Joined: 10/11/2011
Msg: 44
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/22/2011 8:07:44 PM
what's not to get?
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 45
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/22/2011 8:29:31 PM
FMF threesomes are always more appealing to me than MFM (which really does NOT appeal to me)...


and while, hey - ya...its kinda novel seeing two girls eating each other out....I'm more interested in the 2 girls on me....


call me selfish...


some guys however are MAD CRAZY for it - It's cool seeing it at a live sex show if you ever get the chance...


much better than sword play for my buck.
 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 46
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/23/2011 3:13:47 AM
I like it. For me it's about aesthetics and, to a much lesser extent, knowledge.
Aestheticly, the naked female form is more pleasing than that of a naked male. Studies have shown this to be true for both men and women. People would just rather look at naked women than naked guys.
Also a woman is more attuned to what is pleasurable to other woman, so it becomes a good resource for ideas.
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 47
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/23/2011 3:57:56 AM
Hey, the only thing that looks better in the driveway than a nice sports car is TWO nice sports cars!
 angel344
Joined: 10/16/2010
Msg: 48
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/23/2011 4:42:52 PM
I agree. I think it is hot either way. Whether it is girl on girl or guy on guy or both. It is still hot!
 wildlifelover1979
Joined: 2/11/2011
Msg: 49
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/23/2011 5:15:21 PM
I used to think it was cool and awesome and a turn on. Now I don't understand the appeal maybe because I don't understand why I am still single and why I can't get any from a woman. But lots of women are doing each other which means less options for me.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 50
Girl on girl??/I don't get it.
Posted: 10/24/2011 8:40:46 PM

qtbabez87:

what's not to get?


I just followed the link to her profile, and then started checking out the women in her area who were also only looking for women... They are much better looking on average than the women just looking for men. No wonder guys turn to porn.
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