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 maxoutracer
Joined: 11/9/2009
Msg: 24
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Never drank, never smoked, still a virgin...am i missing out on life?Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
i got friends who work and making tons of money... but once they come out to the real world, they don't know how to use it even they have all the money in the world... sometimes when im around them, im like having fun and there like standing there... im like come, get loose and enjoy life... but the so used to work and home, dunno how society works!
 wvwaterfall
Joined: 1/17/2007
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Never drank, never smoked, still a virgin...am i missing out on life?
Posted: 2/12/2010 4:42:11 PM
Nobody here can be the judge of whether you're missing out or not.

It's up to you to decide what matters to you, and lead your life accordingly.

Other than smoking, there can be benefits to responsible pursuit of the other activities you mention, but also many risks associated with irresponsible practices.

Forget about this substance or that, which base you've been to. Just spend some quality time with yourself and ask yourself what you value most in life, what intrigues you most, what life goals mean the most to you, then make the best decisions for you.

What we think or anyone else thinks just doesn't matter. It's your life to live, and decades from now it'll be you who will look back with sadness or joy on how it all turned out.

Dave
 BlueEyes1712
Joined: 4/24/2008
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Never drank, never smoked, still a virgin...am i missing out on life?
Posted: 2/12/2010 10:38:16 PM
Don't think what other people think, ask yourself what you want for your own life. Sometimes I think we as people judge ourselves by what we see others have in their lifes. I guess the thing is you have take the route that lead to the life you want for yourself what ever that may be. All I know is life is a journey, we work to earn a living to support the remainder of what ever the journey may be.
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