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 eroch
Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 17
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Playing games is a game you will lose. Just don't. Communication and honesty is the key for a long lasting relationship. Just figure out exactly what the problem is for you and talk to him about it.

How often do you see each other? Maybe he needs a tad more space? Either way, just talking to him is probably the best thing you can do.
 ChildGoddess
Joined: 1/11/2010
Msg: 18
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Posted: 2/24/2010 12:32:05 PM
I don't plan on marrying on him for awhile. I have many stuff I want to do before I marry him. I've deciciding I want to be engaged for awhile. Too me its already marriage in its own way.
 migivadamsbusted
Joined: 4/30/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 2/24/2010 12:45:50 PM
you need to appreciate and respect him more, getting off this SINGLE and DATING site would be a good start.
 girlwPriOriTies
Joined: 9/30/2009
Msg: 20
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Posted: 2/24/2010 8:48:00 PM
These days, guys just want to be the princess. Do you really want that? Are you sure you want to marry this person? Doesnt sound like he's making you happy.

Me, I'm old fashioned. Guys need to show that they care. When you love someone, they are your world...not basketball..not damn football games...not strip clubs...not friends...IT IS YOU THAT MAKES HIM HAPPY.

someone else said lead by example...i tried this once, and where did it get me? kicked me in the ass..he took advantage.

be true to you, and don't sugar coat the situation.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 2/25/2010 9:09:05 AM
i am going to get bashed for this, but history and life has taught me that women who are feminine, and very sexual, get treated well, never get abused, cheated on, they become everything to there men, my advice is for you to develop your sexuality,if you want to really ,really be loved and appreiciated, do anything and everything for him sexually
 Delete_Me_Please
Joined: 11/10/2009
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/25/2010 9:18:07 AM

women who are feminine, and very sexual, get treated well, never get abused, cheated on,

Never? I want to laugh at that comment but I have the scary suspicion you're being serious.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 2/25/2010 11:59:45 PM
Put a spell, curse, hex, encantation on him.


Or care less about trying to control / manipulate somebody elses display of affection and level of devotion to 'missing' you.

Its the I miss you this much..... But I miss you more arguement.

or give me his address I a will fed-ex him a gallon of MissU, so he always has some handy.
 curiousaboutu77
Joined: 12/28/2007
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Posted: 2/26/2010 2:33:56 AM
If he is the same age as you are then he probably isn't all that interested in the finer points of a relationship, he is probably trying to find his feet in the world, understand himself better and that type of stuff. I think the emphasis of his life in terms of relationships would be enjoying it and having fun as i don't think he would know what to appreciate yet or what is important to him or what he wants in a person. I think appreciation will come through experience as that is when you really learn that stuff rather then straight away. Maybe as the relationship goes along and you experience more things together that he will appreciate what you have together or life itself may teach it but i don't think it can be rushed.
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 2/26/2010 3:07:19 AM
Simple: Withhold sex! Can't believe I just said that...

Focus on exercise, and other physical and mental activities that bring you pleasure, and try not to consume yourself with thoughts of him (it's hard, I know).
 ChildGoddess
Joined: 1/11/2010
Msg: 26
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Posted: 3/1/2010 6:31:56 PM
I have told him about how I feel about being romantic, spontaneous and he is slowly coming around to it :).
 Dare to
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 27
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Posted: 4/5/2010 12:32:45 PM
He won't miss you/appreciate you if you are "always" there.. ie..If he knows that you are going to call him at 8oc every night and every morning at breakfast then he won't bother calling you.. You have to give him space to miss you.. Stop handing everything to him on a platter.. Many people don't appreciate/value things unless they have to put in some effort to get them...
 cooldude
Joined: 4/26/2004
Msg: 28
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Posted: 4/5/2010 12:42:18 PM

someone else said lead by example...i tried this once, and where did it get me? kicked me in the ass..he took advantage.


If somebody took advantage in this way was probably not a good choice to begin with. Everybody wants to be appreciated. It should not be about who does it first, in a way that sounds a bit selfish to me.
 Arabianangel
Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 29
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Posted: 4/9/2010 5:06:48 PM

Why? We manage it on christmas somehow.


Offcourse we do! Because the materialistic society we live in needs "christmas" to be the reason to give, and the rest of the 11 months is all about paying off the debts of these gifts.

Back on topic...OP, no one likes to be smothered with too much attention...I still stand with my earlier comment...

"Give room for others to give back, they can’t do that when they’re too busy receiving."
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 30
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Posted: 4/10/2010 12:20:04 AM
calling all the time to tell me you miss me....
um, if you quit doing THAT, and leave me alone for a while, I will indeed genuinely miss you.

it is the equivelant of if you never leave, we cant talk about you behind your back .
 Vannili
Joined: 7/8/2008
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Posted: 4/10/2010 8:38:44 AM
Msg:1,
Whatever a person does, with sincerity and passion with herself or someone and s/he appreciate herself, others will will follow to appreciate her................



Vannili
 Argentum Crinis Philogus
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 32
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Posted: 4/11/2010 6:22:35 AM
How is your relationship with your father...that makes you yearn for your bf to show love to you? Maybe, get some counselling to look into the depths of your issue. When you are able to sort this will your love life would improve especially in the area you seem to yearn for


You're kidding? Please say your kidding? Huge, huge assumption. Practicing as psychotherapist without a mastery of theories of change, models, and evidence is very dangerous.

The OP might have issues as all humans do of varying intensity and levels. To assert that she has daddy issues based on her post is beyond the pale.

Regards,

ACP
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