is there any value in discussing this as an issue of poor communication? or voice my experience? I agree with the posters that cited his blatant lack of consideration at every turn. At your age, there is no point in trying to help someone understand the concept of common courtesy... they either have it or they don't. He was either totally oblivious of how his behavior was coming across, in which case you'll be wasting your breath, or he was testing you out, so see how far he could push you before you stood up for yourself, in which case you'll also be wasting your breath. Dating is for having fun, not testing your threshold for tolerating inconsiderate behavior. Tell him his company wasn't worth the aggrevation, and save your effort for someone willing to offer you the same in return.