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Joined: 10/22/2011
Msg: 211
Smooth Face or Slim Body?Page 10 of 10    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10)
Well it's all eventually going to hell anyway, so I choose the body. More control for longer over that.
And I kinda like a few wrinkles - I think it adds character. They accentuate your smile.
And I've found I get a little more respect with my new found wrinkles. Like maybe I know a thing or two. Possibly three, but that'd be it. And I sort of get the "I'd better not screw with her" thing finally happening. I plan to wield that sword for once in my life, thank you.

But to be totally honest I did get carded last week for cigarettes again. Damn it! Let me grow up will ya!
Joined: 4/3/2012
Msg: 212
Smooth Face or Slim Body?
Posted: 6/21/2012 7:43:15 AM
Body for me, please - generally speaking. Don't mind a few wrinkles if she's fit and can keep up with this old man, and that's really hard to find in an "over 50," at least in this neck-o-the-woods.

Now I have had some friends that have gotten downright scary (facial appearance-wise) preparing for figure competitions, mostly due to dehydration. Wouldn't want to wake up to that every morning! :-D
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 214
Smooth Face or Slim Body?
Posted: 6/21/2012 5:23:22 PM
What an intriguing question. Not many men have answered in the last couple pages though.

I literally don't know how to answer this from my perspective.. I don't think I care which so long as I was attracted to him. I know that sounds incredibly cliche, but it's the truth.

I remember when I was younger, wondering how older women found 'old' (to me at the time) men attractive and whether I ever would when I too was 'old', lol... now that I am, I wonder how I didn't think older men were good looking? It's neat how your perception of such things changes as you do.
Joined: 2/13/2012
Msg: 215
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Smooth Face or Slim Body?
Posted: 6/22/2012 8:39:46 AM
I need a woman who is 'fit'. No interest in anyone with 'a few extra pounds'. A fit body also usually signals healthy living and an active lifestyle.

Smooth face?...I don't mind a few wrinkles. A love the look of a mature woman as long as she keeps her hair long and dresses sexy. I found mature looking women attractive when I was younger and still find them sexy when I'm 'their' age.

Bottom line, give me a fit woman, average looking who still embraces her seductive powers any day over a wrinkle free face.

Fortunately my girlfriend says she was never into good looking guys. I'm probably a 5/10 on the 'looks' but she said I could have been a 2 as long I was toned and she couldn't pinch my belly. It's as much about lifestyle compatibility..we'd rather go down to park birdwatching than go out for a pizza.
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