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 letsgocanes11
Joined: 6/4/2010
Msg: 55
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Angie,

I fantasize about my SO because do you know why? Unlike a lot of people here I refuse to just settle. I know exactly the type if girl I want and I always find her.
 sunnysideoflife44
Joined: 3/4/2011
Msg: 56
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 6/14/2011 1:24:17 AM
Yes I did and I was foolish enough to loose her. She was sthe stars rising in the sky, The cool wind blowing on my face on a warm day. I loved her more than a beautiful sunset, or the most beauriful sunrise in the Grand Teton Mountians. Or the beaches of Cape Cod. Did I fantasize about her?
 happy2flirt
Joined: 10/18/2010
Msg: 57
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 6/16/2011 5:08:52 AM
Completely agree! I have what I want right in front of me so why fantasize about someone else? Men just want what they can't have and no offense, but it's pathetic.
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 58
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 6/16/2011 8:38:01 AM
I fantasize that she can make a good Philly Cheese-steak sandwich.

 MisterEd0950
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 59
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 6/16/2011 8:44:17 AM
I fantasize about the person I am involved with all the time when we are apart.
 phil2847
Joined: 8/10/2006
Msg: 60
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/6/2012 8:22:11 PM
I do all the time, but it is usually about me watching her and another girl together!
 optimismfirst
Joined: 2/29/2012
Msg: 61
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/6/2012 9:35:17 PM
obviously. when i am in a relationship with a guy i like and we are having sex, I will be thinking of him and no one else.
why be with that person if your going to think of anyone else? or some cheap whore?
dont bother than! only me and him.
 Mr.B3D
Joined: 5/1/2009
Msg: 62
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/6/2012 11:04:31 PM
Have you tried a strap on?

Just saying not my thing, but you never no.
 Hopkinss
Joined: 2/17/2012
Msg: 63
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/8/2012 8:32:36 AM
Definitely!

Sexual attraction is key to any relationship I'm involved in. If I can't fantasize about the person I'm with, something is very wrong. ;)
 DragonBits
Joined: 1/6/2012
Msg: 64
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/10/2012 3:08:20 PM
90% of the time I fantasize about my partner. Most of the time it is not so much fantasy as it is imagining in a very detailed way what I plan for us to do next, and how it will play out. Then I will mention aspects about the fantasy to my partner over the phone or Skype, get suggestions, see what she thinks, etc. Usually won't go over the whole fantasy, usually it is long and detailed.

Most of the time the fantasy won't play out in reality exactly the way it plays in my mind, and most of the time we only get part of the way through when events of the moment take over and the end stage isn't part of any plan.

When I am physically with anyone, I am in the moment and only pay attention to that person and what is happening. And playing out any fantasy I may have had in mind, but tailoring my actions to what sort of feedback I am getting. I never fantasize about anything when I am with someone.

About 10% of the time I fantasize about my partner and include 1 or 2 other women in the fantasy. This is a pure fantasy and not likely to happen, none of the partners I have had in my life were into sharing. The other women are also real women I know who are possibility willing to join in, but who knows, this is a fantasy.

When I don't have a partner, then I fantasize about past partners. Before I was dating when I was a virgin, I would fantasize about fictional women I made up. I never fantasize about celebrities or real people that I have never met.
 FishOwl
Joined: 12/13/2008
Msg: 65
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/10/2012 6:29:32 PM
While with someone I'm usually to busy to fantasize about anything. Otherwise why be with them?
 josdar
Joined: 6/24/2011
Msg: 66
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/12/2012 9:31:14 AM
No, I just fantasize about myself...
 russell5417
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 67
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 4/12/2012 3:09:15 PM
I always fantasize about the one woman I am seeing...........it is hard not to think about the most recent sex you have had, and then there is the anticipation of the next time.
 Out_of_the_Ash
Joined: 3/1/2009
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Posted: 11/19/2012 1:09:57 PM
All the time.
I don't like fantasizing about anybody else but him. It would make me sick.

My exes, though, I never really did fantasize about. It was too depressing... probably because, looking back, the relationships were not very healthy.

My man is a scorpio, too, and he really knows how to get me going.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 69
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/19/2012 1:26:07 PM
I tend to fantasize about my current gf. Half the time all I am doing is remembering something we did together, the other time is coming up with new scenarios that we can play out. The really, really crazy thing is that I had this one fantasy that she was wearing this particular type of dress, with a particular type of lingerie. Low an behold she was wearing that when I went to pick her up for a night at the Opera. And low and behold we did that fantasy that night.
 1TwoThreeFour567
Joined: 11/9/2012
Msg: 70
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/19/2012 1:52:08 PM
The last serious relationship I was in... She was a very beautiful looking woman. But, she was horrible in bed. In my private moments I thought about others. And the unfortunate thing about it was I couldn't and wouldn't dare mention the quality of sex with her--she wouldn't believe she was anything but the best in bed.
 LiliMarleen
Joined: 5/24/2009
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Posted: 11/19/2012 1:56:09 PM
I do. I dream about him, too.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 11/20/2012 11:21:42 AM
My late wife was both Beautiful and a _Fabulous_ lover..!!
(A great teacher, too!)
She was all the fantasy I needed!
That's why I have doubts about finding someone new....
...wondering if I'm even _Allowed_ Two such chances in the same lifetime!!
 Brodigy
Joined: 10/26/2012
Msg: 73
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 11:32:33 AM
If you're with someone and there's something they aren't doing sexually THAT is what you fantasize about them actually doing !

With one ex I had no choice but fantasize about her doing things WHILE we had sex in order to make the sex more stimulating !

Yeah, not exactly sexually compatible, lol
 wolftxusa1966
Joined: 11/2/2012
Msg: 74
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 12:02:57 PM
Why would I fantasize about my right hand?
 HeartOn64
Joined: 5/31/2012
Msg: 75
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 12:57:59 PM
Does that mean .....you're a lefty?

Man....I have tried using my left hand.....to no avail.

I don't need to fantasize about who I am with....I just have sex when I am horny.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
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Posted: 11/20/2012 1:18:55 PM
If it weren't for typing...and my Golf game....
I'd have no use for my Left Hand......At ALL..!!
Fantasize...??
Only when I'm not Directly in contact with her...!
A good *77*...3 or 4 times a day would be nice!!!
...unless she needs More!!...
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 77
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 2:23:16 PM
I fantasize about myself all the time when i'm with me..........
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 78
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 3:46:05 PM
Usually the person I'm with, sometimes this unknown person I've had in my fantasies for years. I've never fantasized about someone else while with someone. Hearing most people say they same is kinda odd, isn't it? I would have expected different.
 wolftxusa1966
Joined: 11/2/2012
Msg: 79
Does ANYONE out there actually fantasize about the person they're with?
Posted: 11/20/2012 4:06:01 PM
I will admit to sometimes having visions of faceless genitalia engaged in sexual acts while I'm at it, but that's only because of where the TV is that shows the porn.
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