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 MsMicki
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My "friend" just turned 53 a couple weeks ago.
We also dated almost 25 years ago.
His penis doesn't look a day older now than it did then.
But boy did it learn a few things since then
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 3/10/2010 10:33:40 PM
^^^You tell em MsMicki....It's about time we got some experience on the subject.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 53
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Posted: 3/11/2010 4:27:59 AM
^^^^^^Montainlover....your responce at the top of the page is spot on, and well put....couldn't agree more
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2010 4:33:15 AM
I guess there's one thing we didn't consider here.....In one of the OP's responces...she mentioned he is a Urologist....

Hey, they make lots of money don't they? Maybe this penis concern is she is considering this nice life$tyle and potential of all the benefit$....but has this little issue that popped up in her head....is a possible wrinkled D**K worth all tho$e benefit$?

 BentonHarbor
Joined: 3/2/2010
Msg: 55
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Posted: 3/11/2010 5:12:17 AM
OP I've not (yet) read each and every reply to your post but the last few seem to make me think I need to return a bit later and enjoy it all! Until then here's the scoop on ONE older guy who knows first hand the answer to your question..........

Soon to be 59, quite sexually active since the age of 17 and still going as well as the first times with a very very few exceptions. Honestly I'm a bit of a genetic freak in this area but I can't be the only one----Google Anthony Quinn who fathered children into his 80's.

Just as turgid, stamina is still somewhat impressive without much of a loss in anything---well except the time in my life to continue enjoy you wonderful women. I currently have three women with whom I "keep company" ages 33, 50 and 55 and they all seem quite satisfied. Naturally the older two are somewhat fascinated by my remaining abilities. "It" still looks just fine, no unremovable wrinkles, hair is mostly still dark as original equipment---compliments about it standing straight up, feeling full, quite warm and coloration much as you'd expect or fantasize with the so called "younger" men. It's pretty in other words!

I will also say my gal pals also have quite lovely wedding tackle and age hasn't seemed to unpretty them "down there" one iota! Having shared a bed with more than afew "older women" in my life once we get to the things 'twixt the legs things don't seem to turn monsterous at all.

I have to say though at 39 I've seen some women who are downright very unappealing in many aspects of their figures with a toll being taken on their bits. If it were only genetics causing those unfortunate changes it would be one thing---most seem to have abused or ignored their health which does affect them "down there".

Also, there is a way to basically test or pre-assume a man's "fire" and it's an unmistakable gleem in their eyes no matter the lighting conditions. It tends to appear in the iris, greatly resembles a relected half moon and seems to have no real origination other than completely internal. Look at the most virile and sexually oriented man you know (or have known) and see if its not present----you'll be amazed. FWIW this very quality is how animal husbandry people would choose their prized stud bulls, stallions and other breeding stock!! Kinda ironic huh?

Hope you've either enjoyed this "older guy" already and that it was spectacular!!
 kpooks
Joined: 12/23/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2010 8:56:12 AM
A few more wrinkles in the penis, lolanac, but, if his blood circulation is great and your older man keeps himself in great shape with lots of exercise, his penis should get long and hard, no problem. Our phermones probably have an "older" smell too. That's about it!

Ask Calista Flockhart. She's 30 years Harrison Ford's junior, and I'm sure she has no complaints. The man's 66, is getting ready to be Indiana Jones again, and is a physical animal! And, yes, I'm sure spoils her rottenly with his money (which is why he needs to do another Indiana Jones film).

(sigh) Sex for money...classic tradeoff.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 3/11/2010 9:20:39 AM

Ask Calista Flockhart. She's 30 years Harrison Ford's junior, and I'm sure she has no complaints. The man's 66, is getting ready to be Indiana Jones again, and is a physical animal! And, yes, I'm sure spoils her rottenly with his money (which is why he needs to do another Indiana Jones film).

(sigh) Sex for money...classic tradeoff.


Oh good lord......these assumptions are friggen ridiculous.
I'm pretty sure Calista has more than enough money of her own.
Are you really so jaded you can't imagine someone actually just loving a man for who he is.....and not what he has?
Real nice of ya to label a woman you don't know from Adam.
 startre1
Joined: 12/5/2009
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Posted: 3/11/2010 9:24:19 AM
If the chemistry is there, the penis is a non issue.
I am 54 and have been with woman 43. no complaints in that department.
Enjoy!!!
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2010 12:02:02 PM
Yeah, I think all these BS drug pushers on TV, with their Enzyte, Viagra and who know's what else, have gotten people to think that if you're a man over 30, you're over the hill. I just wish my body could keep up with my organ. I'm retired and would rather spend my time and money on the outdoors and forget about dating or the ladies, but Mr. Meat stick reminds me at least daily that he want's no part of my plans. I'm actually amazed myself at how this thing holds up. I always thought that when I got older, maybe it wouldn't get as hard, stay that way as long or wouldn't be as frequent in doing so. I was dead wrong....still solid wood and just doesn't want to go away, the last time I thumped it for bothering me...it turned my fingernail black. I have to carry a photo of Rosie O'Donnell in my wallet to keep it under control. I honestly don't remember things being this bad at seventeen. Now, if I could just find a horny middle age woman that just wanted to use me without changing my life or wanting to get married...I could add another hobby to the list.
 el lagarto
Joined: 4/29/2009
Msg: 60
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Posted: 3/11/2010 1:00:20 PM

(increase the drama if read with an English accent)

OOOOH ! Beware the OLD penises lass !!!!!!!

Scary , and hairy , and covered with stiff gray bristles . With warts, sores and scabs - and maybe even bloody open wounds from all those many years of twisted sexual activity . Perish the very thought of letting one touch you without a VERY, very thick condom.

That is of course if this VERY ANCIENT penis can even still become erect ..... if not , you may have to take things into your own hand - and mouth even (aargh! gag! choke!), and help the old thing up !

Careful girl ..... you may.... not..... survive it !
 Tim_in_NPR
Joined: 8/19/2007
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Posted: 3/11/2010 1:14:58 PM
LMAO with this one ... as an "older man" I will say that I have learned to appreciate what I used to just hit and run ... still lQQks the same to me
 Secondhand_Lion
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Posted: 3/11/2010 1:27:43 PM
Letson....you mean old woman! After your post, I'll have to carry this Rosie O'donnell penis softener photo to my grave. If you have one ounce of honor, I think it would be moral and just that you come here and make good the collateral damage you have caused. ......nice legs!!
 Cicciolina
Joined: 7/4/2009
Msg: 63
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Posted: 3/11/2010 2:32:06 PM

I guess there's one thing we didn't consider here.....In one of the OP's responces...she mentioned he is a Urologist....
Hey, they make lots of money don't they? Maybe this penis concern is she is considering this nice life$tyle and potential of all the benefit$....but has this little issue that popped up in her head....is a possible wrinkled D**K worth all tho$e benefit$?
First, he contacted me and told me that he was a surgeon specializing in urology. I don't believe everything people tell me...He directed me to his practice website. What about his lifestyle do you think attracts me?? Me and him like the same things, visited almost the same amount of countries, like the same foods and we email each other 7 or 8 times a day. I don't think there are any benefits of dating him, except the fact he may be able to practice lifesaving tactics if something happens to me. I am not married to the man or anything..The penis is always a concern for me with any guy. His penis is a part of him and if we decide to take things further... I will have to see the penis... I just want to know...what to expect..
 YZ_Guy
Joined: 1/22/2010
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Posted: 3/11/2010 7:09:11 PM
Going to the bathroom and pulling my wanker now. I was so confused why everyone was callin' me tripod I thought 182 inches was normal
 YZ_Guy
Joined: 1/22/2010
Msg: 65
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Posted: 3/11/2010 7:12:05 PM
Sheet, my measuring tape only goes to 176.
 52404 newbie
Joined: 8/1/2009
Msg: 66
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Posted: 3/11/2010 7:34:12 PM
Souad - I can only hope that I fit into you "attractive looks"category

oh, never mind, the drive is too long.
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
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Posted: 3/11/2010 10:05:25 PM

Souad - I can only hope that I fit into you "attractive looks"category
I know you meant "your", Freud would be so proud right now.
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 3/12/2010 8:46:07 AM
Whytwater -


But, there is considerable charm in this question, posed by an attractive 39-year old woman. I suspect that if she poses the same query to her suitor, she will get a, uh, positive response, probably a photo opportunity, and maybe even more probably, a touching zoo experience, but expanded to utilize all her senses. lol It's kinda refreshing that there are 39-year old women out there who are curious about what an over 50 dyk looks like, rather than what it does or doesn't do. Lol

Now.. see... this is a classic example of how men and women see and interpret things differently. I have no patience for someone who is of a certain age who should know better asking a simple common sense question. YOU see this as charming and amusing.

Obviously everyone is going to age differently. OP you can ask the question... and as has been shown here, you're going to get many different answers. Bottom line is no matter what we tell you as far as what you can expect, you won't really know what's there until you ARE THERE!

I'd just like to point out one other thing... can't remember who said it, so forgive me for not going back to check... but about beautiful penii... I have yet to come across an ugly penis in person. All that I have been blessed to see and interact with have been beautiful in their own way.
 Helen0426
Joined: 6/2/2009
Msg: 69
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Posted: 3/12/2010 9:23:33 AM

go on a porn/webcam site and see for yourself

That is a really good idea. I mean, I can tell you men's junk basically doesn't change, having dated considerably older myself, but there's nothing like actually viewing.

As for whether or not he might have gray or white pubic hair, that varies, and taking a look at slightly older men on-line will show you that, too. I think YouPorn has a "mature" section. Or you can just search for "free porn mature" and you'll find tons.

Editing to add:
That will do no good, because not every person of a certain age look the same ...

Overall? No, of course they don't. Which is not the point; I'm not advising that she go there to see how they look in general. This was a very specific question! And she will be able to see that the range of appearance in the personal candy tray is (occasional white or gray pubes aside) just the same as it is among younger people.
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
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Posted: 3/12/2010 9:41:18 AM

I think YouPorn has a "mature" section. Or you can just search for "free porn mature" and you'll find tons


That will do no good, because not every person of a certain age look the same and on a porn site like that....they don't give the ages, but meerly say, older people...they could be 65 .

Out of 100 people 40 years old...100 people 50 yaers old...there will be variations with how they all look.

The best way for her to find out on this man is just to see.

I'm that age and my goods look like they did 25 years ago.
 PregnantLady
Joined: 3/1/2010
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Posted: 3/12/2010 11:41:35 AM
My husband is 49 and the sex is amazing
 Cape Sunshine
Joined: 8/11/2009
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Posted: 3/12/2010 2:49:06 PM

My husband is 49 and the sex is amazing


You don't know anything else.. So that doesn't count...
 migivadamsbusted
Joined: 4/30/2007
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Posted: 3/12/2010 3:12:34 PM
I didn't think 49 is being older...
 RD Mo
Joined: 12/27/2009
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Posted: 3/12/2010 8:48:00 PM

I have been corresponding with this older man and he seems great in every way. I am 39 and he is 53.


Geebus, maybe it's way to many viagra ads on TV that's giving us old guys a bad name.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 3/12/2010 10:07:31 PM

Geebus, maybe it's way to many viagra ads on TV that's giving us old guys a bad name.


I think you're actually right!
I've seen so many misconceptions spouted in these forums about age that I've given up being outraged....and have went straight to amused!
I honestly wish I could speak to some of these people in 20-30 years and see how their opinions have changed!
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