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 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 23
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The down side is that if you get a UTI or other STD your system will be more at risk etc.... ask your doctor about it and have as few partners as possible...
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 24
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/11/2010 5:54:06 PM

It's okay for a guy to get it but the girl is a slut. That's why I ask because there is so much emphasis on how a woman "should" behave.

I disagree. If you were a guy posting this, the thread would be deleted and/or the guy bashed bigtime.

Guys get flack for sleeping around because it's assumed by many uptight women that he'd have to be using them, that he doesn't respect them, etc. That's the "slut level" label for guys who are open to having casual sex. Girls will call girls who are open for casual sex sluts -- the jealous bug fuels that term, unless they're a very close friend (and not better looking).
 3Therm0pylae0
Joined: 5/11/2009
Msg: 26
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/11/2010 8:38:08 PM
Do not ever forget that you are a valid, right-to-exist person who can have her own needs and particular wants, without having to justify them. As long as you are honest with a potential lover, and completely forthcoming, no problem. Have fun getting it!!!
 windloverr
Joined: 2/29/2008
Msg: 27
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Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/11/2010 9:50:16 PM

Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
No. Just be upfront and honest with whomever you're with.
 winteragain
Joined: 3/26/2009
Msg: 29
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/12/2010 9:55:37 AM
Do yo thang girl, let a playa play and don't you care what they think cuz they ain't nothin but haters and it's their job to hate but you keep doin what you want boo-boo it don't make no diff
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 30
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/12/2010 11:26:14 AM
No, your not wrong for just wanting sex?

Your not alone either, so are about 70% percent of the people who join dating sites.....
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 32
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/12/2010 1:43:36 PM
There are times when I just want sex, and to be frank, it was actually recently.

Just make sure the guys you decide to bang put a cap on it.
 eattoplease
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 33
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 5/26/2010 7:24:29 PM
At 52...Ive been with the ups and downs of the dating thing...very frustrating....soo I am myself on here for intimate also....but....most woman Ive chatted with have their own ideas about it....even tho they dont know me they percieve and assume....its unfortunate because I am picky and the ones that I even meet....most of the time are looking for stability....sooo Ill keep plugin and soo will you.......your a big girl and know what you want...good luck!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 34
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 5/26/2010 9:35:35 PM

The down side is that if you get a UTI or other STD your system will be more at risk etc.... ask your doctor about it and have as few partners as possible...


This is one of the best arguments FOR FWB's....just keep an honest line of communication about feelings and also be exclusive...so if either of you wants to explore another sexual relationship you tell the other before having sex again and then you can both decide whether or not to continue. Be aware though that any FWB you get can and SHOULD still be open to finding someone else where a full relationship is possible. You may wind up with a series of FWB relationships before you're ready for the real thing.
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 35
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 5/27/2010 8:24:32 AM
Ronnica: You are a grown woman. You live your life on your terms and decisions. As long as you are up front with whomever enters your life.....(don't hurt anyone)....

Good luck with your health condition.
 chefwolf94
Joined: 5/30/2009
Msg: 36
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 11/7/2011 10:32:37 AM
Its a healthy thing to want to have sex, too many people in our society have been blinded by too much sex or a high desire is a bad thing which it isn't. Thanks to the STD scares from over the years has added to this. The more orgasms you have the healthier life feels.
 CheckPrime
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 37
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 11/7/2011 11:45:51 AM
Do what you want girl, but don't go contracting aids on top of what you're already dealing with. It's not like you have to disclose to anybody how many people you're bumpin uglies with.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 38
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Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 11/7/2011 3:36:07 PM

It's not like you have to disclose to anybody how many people you're bumpin uglies with.

Failure to disclose history is a red flag for me... so yes.. you do if you want to "bump uglies" with me.
 recreator611
Joined: 1/29/2011
Msg: 39
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 11/7/2011 6:48:59 PM
Well....its a personal choice what-ever your reason may be....your a grown woman and can call your own shots...Good luck with your search!
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 40
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 2/29/2012 10:30:28 PM
I haven't disclosed this in my profile but I'm a stage 3 kidney patient. My diagnosis is Membranous Nephropothy. Mine is genetic, Grandfather died of kidney falure, and my Mother got a transplant in 1993. I'm on meds but not on dialysis, and my condition is getting better, but I'm not out of the woods yet. I've been in the hospitol twice in the last year cause of edema (the swelling) I just keep it to myself cause for the most part people really don't care and most women don't even want to date someone with my conditition cause it would just be a hinderance to thier lives. But if you need to talk feel free to mesage me, I'm fighting it too. Good luck
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 41
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 2/29/2012 11:16:29 PM
See what I mean I red the posts on here and not one of these self obsorbed narccisists on here even bothered to ask you how your health is and wish you luck, all they want to do is stick there nose in your buisiness and lecture you about your love life, what a joke. What is your diagnosis? Have you had a biopsy? Well I just wanted to tell you I hope your condition does improve.
 WinterIsComing80
Joined: 11/21/2011
Msg: 42
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 7:57:26 AM
You're an adult and you have needs. As long as you are safe and open about the situation you should have no problems finding what you are looking for. I've done the sex buddy thing before and it wasn't hard to keep it just sex for either of us. We were friends before and we are still friends after and its not even awkward. Not everyone will be able to handle that type of situation though. Feelings tend to sneak in at the worst of times. Best of luck.
 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 43
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Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 8:15:46 AM
This is a 2 year old post....

OP hope you are doing OK!
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 44
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 5:14:56 PM
Ok sorry about what I said, was having a bad night with my health, and was in a really bad mood, people on here did show some concern, I take the naccisist thing back.
 jwest12345
Joined: 11/27/2011
Msg: 45
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 5:18:09 PM
i don't think u r! i can help
 onceagain57
Joined: 11/25/2011
Msg: 46
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 5:34:54 PM
Your in a tuf spot physically and young but as for your urges...not sure what your problem is....its your life and as long as your safe....you should be able to satisfy what you want....key word would be SAFE tho....dont need any more complications....as in STDs...good luck girl!
 jasonbr
Joined: 1/25/2011
Msg: 47
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 5:39:20 PM
nothing wrong with it... u shd get to do whatever u want... have fun
 reamo59
Joined: 5/28/2011
Msg: 48
Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 3/1/2012 7:23:25 PM
Nothing wrong with that at all!Boning is lots of fun...get out there and get all you can ...just saying
 HUMHUMA
Joined: 1/14/2018
Msg: 49
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Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 9/22/2018 4:55:28 AM
NOPE....as long as your up front and to the point....and by saying that safe in your venture because of all the stuff you can get....I'm sure your Dr. would say the same....be safe and good luck with your plight....YOU look to be a great gal!
 Iredurbio2
Joined: 4/18/2013
Msg: 50
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Am I wrong for just wanting sex?
Posted: 9/25/2018 6:41:17 AM
Since this was 8 years ago,very little has changed.
Men are still believed to be sleep arounds and your
chosen word to describe women who do is embraced
much more freely!
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