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 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 147
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I didnt read what other posters said but, HELLS NO.

Would you buy a used car with out test driving it first? I sure as heck hope not. And thats a commitment. Not to many people buy a new car every month. typically you keep it for several years. Do you want to be stuck with a junker that has no AC? crappy breaks? a radio that doesnt work? and stalls out everytime you stop at a light?

So theres my point. Why would you commit to someone for the rest of your life with out even knowing what the sex is like. Which is the major part of any good relationship. Great sex can make a relationship as well as bad sex can break one. If the girl you marry is into gagballs and chains, and kinky stuff like i donno, asphyxiation. BUt that stuff would have you running out the door screaming for your mommy, how can you stay married to her? you wont satisfy her and she will just find what she needs some where else.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 1:21:59 AM
Hotkitty ^^^^^ GOOD ANSWER!!!!
 _eunique
Joined: 6/9/2011
Msg: 149
No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 8:32:37 AM
I'd prefer "Lease with an option to buy..."

That requires a contract and a sense of committment.

Otherwise, find a rental car with too many dings and dents from the numerous careless drivers from its past.
 poetfury
Joined: 6/16/2010
Msg: 150
No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 10:11:34 AM
wow,America (and likly the rest of the world) has really gone downhill morally. Since when do you need to"test out a car before buying"? What exactly does this really mean? If her titties are'nt big enough or his wang hangs to the wrong side are you going to not be in love with him/her? Since when does SEX mean more than LOVE? Good relationships have their intimacy,but that does'nt mean you should be out there f*cking someone as a test of how worthwhile they are. A****is a****and a **** is a ****,they all work the same way.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 151
No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 12:14:20 PM
It means exactly what i said in my post. I am extremely kinky in the bed room. If i end up with a guy who just wants to hop on top. Go at it for a few min, flip me over, and then hes finished. wtf... I will be very very unhappy in the bed room. Months of unhappiness turn to years, years turn to a life time. WHy settle? Theres no reason to when i can find a guy who makes me happy in and out of the bed room
 poetfury
Joined: 6/16/2010
Msg: 152
No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 10:12:13 PM
To each their own. I just see clearly why relationships in America are on a downward spiral and marriage does'nt last anymore.
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 153
No sex before marriage
Posted: 8/12/2011 10:33:16 PM
I dont see why they dont last. I had my High school boyfriend as one guy I dated. But the last 3 years of that relationship were going down hill. Wont bother getting into that of course. And now my current boyfriend who i have been with for almost 4 years. Ive had nothing but lasting relationships

Besides if i waited till i got married i would end up a 30 year old virgin. I dont see why I should be missing out on pleasure for half my life.

BUt you are 100% correct. To each their own. And no one can fault anyone for that.
 r3320ca
Joined: 8/18/2006
Msg: 154
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No sex before marriage
Posted: 4/30/2016 7:56:02 PM
I personally have already lost my virginity but after have been saved by Jesus I feel that I should wait till marriage before having a sexualaly active life style.. Being totally celibate. No porn, no sex, no masterbation. Hard to do? Yes, probably closer to devine because it's next to impossible but I can a asure you with the power of the holy spirit and a little faith it can be done..

I want to meet a women with same view and if she too is on same path she would be exploding inside just as much and I feel like getting to know one another before getting hitched would be so much more enhanced or intense..
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 5/3/2016 8:49:26 PM
^^^ You said "hard", heeheeheehee!
It's one of those things that is really dependant on the couple. Some people can find that they are completely sexually incompatible. It would be very unfortunate to be stuck in a marriage with someone that you are incompatible with.
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