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 AutumnAmbers
Joined: 10/12/2012
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Have you ever contacted a person in the last 30 days that that had on their profile that they where either looking to for Casual Dating / No Commitment or I want to date nothing serious in their profile if you have that is why you are blocked from contacting these Ladies you want to contact. You have to wait till 30 days after you have sent those messages before that block will be lifted. Hope this helps it happened to me too.



THIS IS FALSE INFORMATION.
In fact, I don't think you could add anymore false facts in there if you tried.

 AutumnAmbers
Joined: 10/12/2012
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Posted: 11/13/2013 8:37:48 PM
You are right " Other Relationship " is one of the blocks ... wait 30 days when those messages are deleted by POF and you will be able to contact any lady you want you make sure when you send a message they do not have any of these listings .... [1] I want to date but nothing serious [2] I am looking for Casual Dating / Nothing Serious. [3] Looking for Intimate Encounter { has been remove} but those are the listings that will trip that filter and keep you from contacting the Ladies you prefer to contact.



THIS IS FALSE INFORMATION.
In fact, I don't think you could add anymore false facts in there if you tried.

 Sonic98
Joined: 6/7/2006
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Keeps telling me I'm not allowed to contact this member
Posted: 2/24/2014 2:47:45 PM
I don't have any restrictions on who can message me. I'm trying to message someone who is showing no restrictions, and it's still telling me I'm not allowed to message them.
 Sonic98
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Posted: 2/24/2014 2:48:51 PM
Wow, I just realized that two of the people I am able to message. When I tried to message them from the POF website instead of the iPad app, the message went through. Seriously these restrictions do need to have a reset on them.
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Keeps telling me I'm not allowed to contact this member
Posted: 2/24/2014 3:26:07 PM

When you messaged them through the iPad app, did you

a) get a message saying you couldn't contact them?
or
b) no message at all and your sent box did not register those sent emails?

This is just to help debug, but in any case, if this is correct - i'd email csr@pof.com and detail your issue along with either the a) or b) scenario.


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