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 werewolf469
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 32
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have to reitearte that if i have be a "virgin" till the day i die...so be it
 cribplayer55
Joined: 5/5/2011
Msg: 33
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 8/15/2011 3:54:03 PM
Hi I'm Steve I"m 29 and I'm Still a Virgin also, but I'm a christian even though I dont go as often as I should, but I dont wanna regret having sex with some 1 and then the woman ends up pregnant!!

I have high confidence, but I mainly keep to myelf, I love to have sex with a sexy attractive woman but I want it too mean something, not just for the sake of having sex cause it feels good.

This is very bugging on my mind, cause I'm not a bad guy, I've tried being the nice guy that has gotten me no where, I've tried the bad boy type and get shot down for being too agressive.

I'm kind of in the middle and a little bad boy side too me, so I've been a very persuasive person, and I've got alot of stuff like that when I was going to school.

I"m lost Help!!
 chromelove08
Joined: 11/17/2008
Msg: 34
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is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/15/2012 12:09:36 PM
It is ok if you are ok with it. My best friend a really beautiful smart successful woman was a virgin til she was 25. Her choice and she was fine with it. So yeah it is fine.
 ladyseekinggent
Joined: 1/1/2009
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Posted: 1/15/2012 4:10:13 PM
Ask yourself... Why you are still a virgin at 23....comparably to what 3/4 of the us? that were not virgins at this same tender age....

And what is holding you back from having sex?

If you feel awkward about this issue....just tell people you have someone...to get them off your back for awhile until you find the right person....they should be applauding you...not antagonizing you.....
 musical_turtle
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 36
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/15/2012 7:32:32 PM
You have to do whatever if best for YOU.
If you haven't found the correct person to have sex with, then don't have sex just to have sex. Don't worry about what other people think. Also, you don't have to tell people something so private about your life...the only person that needs to know if you're a virgin or not...is the person you're dating when the topic comes up.
 dwayne88
Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 1/16/2012 6:55:15 AM

I think it's very admirable to be a virgin. Don't let anyone make you feel like less of a man for being one. If anything, I think i t makes you more of a man because it takes a great deal to remain one. Good on ya mate!


How is it admirable to be a virgin? I'm one and I sure as heck know it isn't even close to being admirable.

And it doesn't take a great deal to be a virgin. All it takes is women not wanting to have sex with you.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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Posted: 1/16/2012 6:20:17 PM
It is ok to be a virgin, whether you chose to or not.
for most people sex acts take up very little time of ones life anyway.
 PeaceT
Joined: 7/17/2011
Msg: 39
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/16/2012 6:27:40 PM
Yes, of course it's okay to be virgin at 23 and at any age honestly it's really up to when your comfortable in making that step as well as ur partner. Most people that i know wished they were still a virgin, don't let anyone peer-pressure you into having sex, when your ready you will know and make sure ur aware of the precautions and consequences. Safety first wear a condom!!!! Be urself take as much time as u need, hun. U can do it!!
 kevin.ncguy
Joined: 1/13/2012
Msg: 40
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/17/2012 6:56:57 AM
My First thought when I read your post -- maybe a matchmaker was in order.
But seriously -- good advise --
 humblegeorge22
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 41
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/17/2012 1:45:07 PM
When I was 25 i kept telling myself that.
 humblegeorge22
Joined: 1/9/2012
Msg: 42
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/17/2012 1:45:49 PM
I've been commited twice would you have sex with me?
 Inexperience
Joined: 6/15/2011
Msg: 43
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/17/2012 2:26:40 PM
If your a girl yes its okay to be a virgin. If your a guy and still a virgin later on in life then its unexceptable. no.
 Becoming_Me
Joined: 1/4/2007
Msg: 44
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/20/2012 5:28:10 PM
It’s okay if you are okay with it. If you don't mind that you are a virgin than it fine everyone has their own time line for stuff like that. If you do mind though than maybe it’s something you should think about. Why are you still a virgin? Do you want to be having sex and if so what's stopping you and how do you overcome it?
 valleyguyaz
Joined: 11/13/2008
Msg: 45
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 1/26/2012 10:50:16 AM
the original poster needs to answer this question:

are you ok with being a virgin at 23?

there is no wrong answer to this question because its a personal choice that the poster should make themself.

 Ratsrule
Joined: 9/22/2011
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Posted: 1/27/2012 11:09:59 AM
Yes it's absolutely ok to be a virgin at 23 - doesn't mean anything weird or wrong at all. It wouldn't bother me at all if a guy that age told me he was a virgin
 NJ_Phil
Joined: 10/1/2011
Msg: 47
is it ok to be a virgin at 23?
Posted: 2/2/2012 2:32:54 PM
Ha Ha... Wait till it does come, it will be over in 8-10 seconds. I was the same until 24, my 2 daughters came even later (no pun intended). Believe me, it's nothing to be ashamed of or worried about. Years from now you will be thankful you didn't screw anything that could fog a mirror.
 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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Posted: 2/2/2012 4:05:45 PM

is it ok to be a virgin at 23?


NO! It is DEFINITELY NOT OK!

You know the 99 vurgins that get promised to the Muslim suicide bombers when they blow up a bus full of people ........ WHERE do you think they get those???????????

What happens if you're riding a bus and some half wit Son of Islam decides to push the button ... You could end up through Eternity with his sweaty inept body trying to de-virginize you. OHHhhhhhh the HORROR!

So loose that virginity right away, protect yourself.

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