He went to his doctor and his doctor said 'he has too much on his mind, otherwise he is perfectly healthy.' My boyfriend says he's not stressed and that he doesn't know why he can't maintain an erection because he`d love to have sex with me.
My boyfriend is 26, is this common for a man his age? I'll admit i'm getting sexually frustrated as it's been a few weeks since i've gotten some. I'm trying not to be selfish either.
Also, what do if this happens next time? What do I say?
How did you react the first time? Honestly...did you think it was because of you? If you did...he most likely picked up on it. Believe me he has plenty on his mind. He has probably psyched himself out. All the time thinking...OMG...what if it happens again. And then it does.
Just like a baseball player in a slump. The whole time at back thinking...OMG...don't strike out again......don't strike out again...until he has stuck out. He needs to blast one out of the park again to prove he still has it. And that pressure just adds to the problem.
Whatever you can do to turn down the heat...is what will help the most. You have to convince him that you're in it for the package and not the performance.
What should you do. Let him take control of the pace. Even if it means skipping foreplay. If you do talk about it...do it outside the bedroom.