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 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 37
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There are many potential loves for each of us.
It but is only true love if we bond well.
and choose to be "true" to each other.

If it doesn't work out.
Try again.

Sometimes you have to go thru a few potentials,
to get to the true.
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 38
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 9/21/2010 5:28:06 PM
Are we really looking for that "true love"?????? Cause I don't think I am. I'm looking for a person who I can have a relationship with, communicate with, share ideas,,,and "stuff" with, along with other things. If,by chance love comes outta of it,,,,that's just a bonus,,,,is it not?????? I'm more than sure I have done that with a person or two already in my lifetime and I'm sure I could do it again,,,at least once or twice.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 39
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Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 9/21/2010 6:23:11 PM
I don't know much about this "one true love" business, but I do have one hell of a grip on the "twin flames" concept........because my azz has been burned twice.
 Irish Eyez
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 40
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/16/2011 5:16:41 PM
I am not the 'other half' of any guy. I am a whole, unique woman and embrace such.

Why would anyone want to be 'half' of another anyway?

My soul mate can be anyone. Son, grand child, grand mother, grand father - anyone!
 karma1160
Joined: 6/10/2008
Msg: 41
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/16/2011 5:44:01 PM
Actually this makes no sense to me, if you were capable of loving someone with all your heart in a unconditional way, than you are capable of doing it again.
It all depends on the persons capacity for true love, not some magical force in nature that only blesses you once.
IF you tell yourself that you are not, than you will always find something wrong and unfulfilling.
I have felt that things were meant to happen at times in my life, and I have never had evidence to prove this wrong.
There have also been times where the odds were so against me meeting the one, but yet it happened.
I still truly believe that your capacity to find love more than once has more to do with your capacity to love period.
 Dan99993
Joined: 11/29/2010
Msg: 42
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/16/2011 5:44:19 PM
We may have many 'loves' but there seem to be few who can be the type you feel could be the 'love of your life'.

There are such people with whom you have a special connection, that you don't have with others regardless of how charming the latter are.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 43
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/16/2011 7:08:50 PM
The OP should forward this question to Hugh Hefner to see what his thoughts are concerning only one true love. Does his 20 year old (or there abouts) fiance think she found her true love in him? How about Anna Nicole Smith? Did she find her one and only true love in life when she met that half-dead guy in his 80's? She used to claim she did. It was just a coincident that he happened to be a billionaire.

I guess I should be booking a flight to China or the Himalayas, or somewhere out there, go from village to village, and work my way west until I find the one and only true love that was meant for me.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 44
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Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/16/2011 10:39:49 PM
Yep...only one true love and that's it.......I know, because I've had at least a half dozen myself.
 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 45
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/17/2011 5:35:58 AM
I have meet women who have suffered the loss of their true love and who then refrain from starting a new relationship because they are waiting for a new love to come along....
Interesting. I`ve dated a few women who have been widowed and grieved for a period of time. When they`re ready to be with a man, you can tell. They act as if they haven`t had sex and its their first time. I find that very attractive.
I guess there are different stages of falling in love in one`s life as well.
But, i`m a believer in chemistry, when i feel the attraction for someone, normally, they`re feeling it as well.
As we get older, things change,we feel differently for numerous reasons,but, we still have those desires we as humans share!
 cap_n_mORGAN
Joined: 7/3/2009
Msg: 46
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/17/2011 6:44:24 AM

So have you had what you would consider to be two true complete loves in your life or do you think that this is not possible?


True love is not JUST a feeling........it has to be a give and take.

The whole fairy tale thing is a joke. Two people have to work at love and a relationship.
Yes there is way more than one person you can truly love.

The trick is finding a partner that knows how to make through the tough times as well as the good.
One that knows what a commitment is and is willing to stand by their words.

Relationships should NOT be like a bic lighter.
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 47
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 1/17/2011 6:48:04 AM

Yes there is way more than one person you can truly love.

Yes, there are. I do have to admit, I have had a "romantic love of my life" and I doubt that'll happen again. But he was not my Twin Flame or I'd not be single today.

~OT~ The Twin Flame concept is too complicated to even bother delving into here in this limited venue. It's vastly different than a "soul mate" (a highly overused term in the world today) and yet I do believe I've known one couple that truly were Twin Flames. One couple out of the many I personally know or have known? That makes the odds highly unlikely we'll ever find ours, if that's what we're looking for. JMO
 thisisit11
Joined: 7/11/2010
Msg: 48
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 2/10/2011 11:54:52 AM
i think that love is an action. we act loving, we get love. Of course both parties must be on the same page.

i dont believe in the soul mate concept, if it does happen, it hasnt happened to me
 kailania
Joined: 4/10/2008
Msg: 49
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 2/11/2011 3:12:21 PM
i believe we do have soulmates but not only one in this lifetime.
i am curious about the twinflames. verygreeneyes...can you explain more on what that is about or write to my in box about it please?
it has been coming up as a topic of conversation a few times since yesterday and in the past.
 Gwendolyn2010
Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 50
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 2/11/2011 4:06:31 PM

Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?


No.
 bcsofnc57
Joined: 11/20/2007
Msg: 51
Twin flames - is there only one true love for each of us ?
Posted: 2/12/2011 7:56:38 PM
I think that there truly is only one true love for each of us, but the sad truth is we will most likely never meet that person. The good news there are a lot of people we can meet and love to some degree, get along with and be happy with.

Not only are the odds of meeting our one true love small, but even if we do meet them, they might not be in the right state of mind to accept you as their one true love.
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