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 Capitano_Blaugh
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 92
How to cure my bad boy addiction?Page 4 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)

Step 2. Establish a career.
Step 3. Find a woman worth marrying.


You forgot 2.5: Bang as many women as possible in the process of finding a woman worth marrying....

... while keeping all your sperm to yourself, of course. No sense leaving all those potential credit cards ending up in some woman's womb....

 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 93
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 7:20:09 PM

Yes, but it's clear that women, despite their protestations to the opposite, have absolutely no way of resisting us piratical, bad-ass types....

Wait a minute, wait a minute... that's yesterday's news.
 Capitano_Blaugh
Joined: 3/18/2008
Msg: 95
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 7:35:37 PM
Wait a minute, wait a minute... that's yesterday's news.


No, no... It's in today's Psycho Today. It's just been discovered. It's brand new, but they've been studying Gene Simmons, like, forever...

In the same edition, they prove that women can't be bothered with sex most of the time which is why they always insist that a man beg, grovel and titillate her noodle first....

... or something like that.


what stage are you at? Ive been trying to bang you forever. Must be the woman worth marrying stage.lol


Dreamy: I'm at the "Ah, fvck it, I'm gonna have another beer and do a bit of swashbuckling" stage....

... but, I'll tell ya what, you fly out here, spring for a really nice penthouse suite for the weekend, I'll bang you then take you out for a nice Egg McMuffin and coffee.....

 KissMyKarma
Joined: 9/9/2010
Msg: 96
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 9:06:37 PM
Well, this is how.

If you're lucky, it's one of your girlfriends that gets all meshed in with one and you get to listen to her cry every night because he treats her like crap, then he marries her, has 3 or 4 kids with her while he runs around town on her and then beats the crap outta her before he walks off, never looking back while she gets to work 3 part-time jobs to make ends meet.

If you're not so lucky, it's you he does this to.

Does that help?
 Truthisee
Joined: 5/2/2010
Msg: 97
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 9:12:25 PM

If you're lucky, it's one of your girlfriends that gets all meshed in with one and you get to listen to her cry every night because he treats her like crap, then he marries her, has 3 or 4 kids with her while he runs around town on her and then beats the crap outta her before he walks off, never looking back while she gets to work 3 part-time jobs to make ends meet.


In this scenario your talking about a clear cut piece of shit.

and they can be found in all walks of life.


 ItsMargo
Joined: 4/24/2007
Msg: 98
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Posted: 9/20/2010 9:59:27 PM

No, no... It's in today's Psycho Today.

Naw, silly pirate, yesterday was "talk like a Pirate day". You're a day late!

The excitement a bad boy brings is likely pointing to something you feel is missing inside yourself. That's as near as I can figure why someone gets hooked into something or someones they rationally know is not good for them nor what they *really* want.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 99
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 10:00:15 PM
From the 'bad-boys' you have been dating.... you might want to schedule all dates during antiques roadshow. they will be busy, problem solved.
 JRodriguez81
Joined: 2/24/2010
Msg: 100
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/20/2010 10:01:57 PM

Naw, silly pirate, yesterday was "talk like a Pirate day". You're a day late!



For me, everyday is "talk like a pirate day"
 luckyhot777s
Joined: 12/26/2008
Msg: 101
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 1:31:10 PM
Okay, how did we go from a post about bad boys....to extreme advertising!!!, and I don't see where the OP specifically said " bad boy lovers...just bad boys in general.

Just because a man acts like a bad boy in public, doesn't mean he's good in bed....the warning passed down thru the ages, is look out for the silent types. They don't have to brag.

....LOL!
 Arlo_Troutman
Joined: 9/26/2009
Msg: 102
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 4:51:44 PM

(carolann0308) Girls at 20 are a lot more mature than their male counterparts ...


I've always wondered what the exchange rate on that was... like, does one 20-year old girl equal one 35-year old guy? I'm 44: what do I get?

Dr. ES...
 spider1986
Joined: 6/28/2010
Msg: 104
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 9:18:14 PM
im the nice "creepy" guy that always gets rejected-i could cure the addiction real fast LOL
 92sc
Joined: 9/18/2010
Msg: 105
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 9:39:22 PM
I must be a bad boy ,lol, tatto, motorcycles, construction worka ,lol.........
& a drummer ..........oh gawd.............
 Hippiekinkster
Joined: 1/7/2010
Msg: 106
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 10:08:08 PM

Impune: There's only one cure, then again I know many that have been badly beaten
up and badly abused and they still go back for more, something i never fully understood.


There are a few women who are into extreme BDSM. You know, getting marked with a whip, or proudly sporting a black eye (back about 5 years ago on Bondagedotcom there were several chicks who had an informal contest to see who had the most impressive shiner ).

People do some really weird stuff. I've read where Vitter, Repub from Louisiana, is an adult baby (likes to wear diapers, and all that implies). I've seen a couple picks of women who literally had their tits nailed to a board.

IMO, many people in BDSM are high-functioning head cases, and the women who keep returning to abusers have some severe psychological problems.

The "Bad-Boy Syndrome" is a complex issue, and there is no one reason why many women pick men who are the opposite of what they claim they are looking for in a man.
 Hippiekinkster
Joined: 1/7/2010
Msg: 107
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/21/2010 10:28:03 PM
@peppermintpetunias: You look Foxy with those specs on. /flirt
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 108
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/29/2010 2:19:14 PM
Hey Now,.."Bad-Boys" aren't nessesarilly ALL bad,.. we just have our "moments" We're just like everyone else,.. except sometimes we're rude, crude, & totally socially unacceptable. not ALL the time. I suppose, there are varying degrees of "badness" as well. Like everything else, there's Good & bad in the Bad boys. We also tend to mello with age like fine wine So pass the Thunderbird and let's get on to the next subject!
 _SYN_
Joined: 9/20/2009
Msg: 109
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/30/2010 7:47:36 AM
If you do find a cure, please let me know lol I wish I could find a guy that looks like a bad boy on the outside, but on the inside is quite the opposite.
 SpecificTruths
Joined: 9/19/2009
Msg: 110
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/30/2010 10:26:18 AM

This type is the best... He's not too into himself. He will have a great career, funny to make you laugh and too keep life lighthearted. And a few close friends so that is world has more in it than just you.... therefore not too clingy....

This guy isn't usually found in a bar, he is found on a ski slope, tennis court, in the gym, or anywhere that involves an adventure....

This type knows what he has too offer, an is secure enough in himself to still put you first. And can let you have space to do what you need to do.

Take time to test the waters..... watch for the signs.... if you have to wonder when he'll call forget it.... If he calls you everyday in the beginning forget it....

Only see him a couple of times of week and when you do don't go to dinner and/or a movie go for a walk, go to a musuem, go play a sport......


Holy crap, thanks! I like to think of myself this way...
- I spend my money/time on adventure and traveling. I catch and cook a mean fish, can make even a prissy woman comfortable camping, and am patient enough to teach an uncoordinated woman to fly fish.
- My gf and I hang a couple times a week. We are both passionate about food (ethnic/strange/health) so we do eat out a lot but we hit museums, go on runs together, walk my dog together and take trips together - even shortish weekend ones.
- We both give each other space to hang with our own friends and family. Sometimes people ask me "where's your girlfriend" to which I reply "we're not attached at the hip, you know." People are sometimes envious of that trait in our relationship.

Great post, but you left out the part of him standing up for his opinions and respecting yours, even if he disagrees...
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 111
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/30/2010 2:38:09 PM
actually,.. I hope you all NEVER beat it! cause it works GREAT for me! I just need to find the right one that can't seem to "kick" me..
So far,. they all O.D. on me, and then go "cold-turkey" and life turns to crap... >sigh<
Oh PS: I CAN be found in a bar! I'll be there tonight, Thursday night is"Dollar-Nite" @ The Dog House.. nothing like cheap beer, The smell & sound of Harleys, and even cheaper women!hehehehe
 Redlance71
Joined: 2/2/2009
Msg: 112
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Posted: 9/30/2010 2:41:43 PM
A "bad boy" in the OP's case means something/someone she does not have. You want a cure for being a bad boy lover, eithe become a bad girl or grow up a little. Take a good look in the mirror. Did it ever occur to you that you may be the reason things get "uncharming" in a "nice guy" relationship. Why do you default to blaming them...

So, as an Alpha who uses his correct brain to think, there are several things I will prescribe for a bad boy cure -

A) Get knocked up by a bad boy so you can truly appreciate his bad streak when he leaves you high and dry and dodges child support payments. Oh yes, this is really sexy /sarcasm off

B) You wake up one morning and cannot believe your fuzzy memory of that orgy last night and have no idea how or why your cute little bad boy talked you into it.

C) Your bad boy starts to share things with you you'd rather not, like the VD he picked up from that 19 year old at the burger king drive through.

D) You are flat broke and cannot pay the rent because your live-in bad boy either does not work or spends all your money on the coolest newest bad boy toy/clothes/breast reduction surgery for his ex gf that, for some reason, you went along with. Yes, I knew someone in this situation...

E) You realize that your last bad boy left you for your best friend and suspect he was simply using you to get near her, it did not help that you told her all his sexy bedroom details. You are left there wondering why you were not bad girl or good girl enough.

Take this prescription or warning then realize that putting up with so called nice/sensistive/caring guy's crap may not be bungee jumping but does not have to neccesarily be cross stitching, especially if you take the lead!
 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 113
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 9/30/2010 2:48:40 PM
"Make no mistake about it though, i know all about you pirates and your piratical ways. there will be no six hrs of banging or the penthouse suite, until i get my dang
Mcmuffin and coffee "
DEAL!,.. and I'll even throw in a hash round!
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 114
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Posted: 10/1/2010 12:38:08 AM
MisterDyno, I don't know that women ever shed the attraction to the bad boy, they just learn to ignore it or potentially find the guy that looks a bit like the bad boy but is really a good guy.

OP, you're 21, unless you are really at the point where you feel like you want to find the type of guy you can settle down with, unless you find yourself walking away from the bad boy with hurt feelings, go out and have fun while it lasts. You can simultaneously keep looking for the more steady fellows and at some point you will meet a guy that will treat you well and will keep you interested.

And having been through a fairly horrendous marriage with a man I thought would be a good father based on what I saw of my stepson, at the end of the day, if you want the marriage and kids, the passion and excitement is great but it generally has a shelf life and you find yourself a virtual single parent while married to someone that knows zero about being a good husband and father because bad boys tend to be pretty narcissistic.

The getting over the bad boy thing when you are ready, which may be now, lol, you just say no. I think if you are ready to settle down, you more often recognize the guy that is comfortable around children, that is kind to people, and he doesn't have to be a bad boy to melt your heart when this big strong man is doing whatever, that the bad boy would not because it doesn't fit his image.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 115
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Posted: 10/1/2010 12:43:30 AM
Zeke, you solve that problem by going to Jack-in-the-Box. Where you can order anything on their menu at ANY time.

I think the maturity scale thing should be based on like dog years, maybe not the 7 to 1 we imagine....
 _Icon_
Joined: 5/18/2008
Msg: 116
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 10/1/2010 2:18:37 AM
I'm reading the thread, it's late and I'm seeing blah, blah, blah, poser, poser, blah, blah and then suddenly this jumps off the page.


How to cure that? Seek out a challenge within oneself. A talent that reacts to hard work.



The cure? Just challenge yourself with inner talents. Eventually you'll find merit and excitement in depth.


I like the way you think. I don't even want to look at your profile because you're probably 1500 miles away.
 RonaiSanzer
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 117
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 10/15/2010 11:09:31 PM
then you had some horrible choices in life. to me it always seems women don't want to settle down or be forth right.

"Besides, from what my old fart brain recalls of being 21, not many 21 year old boys were looking for anything long-term serious anyway."
 RonaiSanzer
Joined: 3/20/2009
Msg: 118
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 10/15/2010 11:15:05 PM
Oh how false this is.... It seems the older women get the more they revert to HS BS.

"Girls at 20 are a lot more mature than their male counterparts ... "
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