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 DudeistPriest
Joined: 3/30/2009
Msg: 137
How to cure my bad boy addiction?Page 7 of 7    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7)
Easy answer...grow up.
 rockondon
Joined: 2/21/2007
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/18/2012 8:53:53 AM
One: learn to appreciate the good qualities in those who don't fit in to your 'bad boy' definition.
Two: take an honest look at the contribution you make in the relationship. Do you make dating suggestions? If he's the one doing all the work in a relationship, that gets boring fast and also conveys the message that you aren't all that interested.
 laskoboo
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 142
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/18/2012 5:01:57 PM


I just want to know how I can stop being so enamored by the charm of the "bad boy"


date 0ne.
when he treats you like crap, you should wake up. If not, go through the drama and waste years of your
life where you could be being treated well.
Some women are hard headed and slow to learn and also have low self worth, so they waste years.

Think about your bad boy and all his "BOYISH" ( stupid immature selfish) ways... would you rather be
with someone like that?
or someone who loves and cherishes you? someone who is a man, not a boy... you can provide you with
not just trust and things of a good mans nature but also someone you can count on.

Take your pick... the choice is yours.
 RedDelPaPa
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 143
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/18/2012 5:07:21 PM


"Bad boys" are generally the ones that aren't Christian. If you're not Christian, you have no moral compass. there's no limit to the degrading acts you'll stoop to. Atheism has the most horrid track record of morality: Stalin's purge; Hitler's genocide; Pol Pot's massacres; Darwin's survival of the fittest which produced Eugenics; & on & on.... If it weren't for the church, humans would be atheist savages - eating their young if they felt like it, fondling women left right & center, imbibing of intoxicating substances all the time; defecating in the street... I'm sure some of you here are QUITE familiar with one or two of these behaviors yourself.

Horse sh*t! Being a Christian or not has absolutely nothing to do with it. I know plenty of so called Christians who will stab you in the back and cut your throat just as quickly and easily as anyone. More people have been killed in the name of God than for any other reason. I don't see many Christians refusing to fight wars for a gaggle of pencil necked lying, criminal politicians. I'm not Christian. How dare you tell me that because of it, I have no moral compass. Quite the opposite. I have a moral compass that's much more in tune than many so called Christians. I see many of them for the hypocritical bigots that they are. Be careful spreading your generalized nonsense.
 laskoboo
Joined: 2/12/2010
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/18/2012 8:12:03 PM

Horse sh*t! Being a Christian or not has absolutely nothing to do with it. I know plenty of so called Christians who will stab you in the back and cut your throat just as quickly and easily as anyone. More people have been killed in the name of God than for any other reason.


agree with this very much.
I tend to avoid anyone announcing themselves as "christians" although I am one...
I know the difference between religion and relationship.

Someone saying they are a christian does not mean you will find a nice person... you could just find a
nutcase.
 elednuw
Joined: 1/11/2011
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/19/2012 11:24:27 PM
Simple:Go out with a nice guy.
 Greatcatch12345
Joined: 5/2/2011
Msg: 147
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/20/2012 4:04:16 AM
u like drama in your life..until u can recognize the 'prob'..only then can u 'fix' the prob..
 Suzie_Hippie_Homemaker
Joined: 8/10/2012
Msg: 148
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 8:22:32 AM
Hi. My name is Suzie and I have a bad boy addiction.

Hot sex is a powerful thing.

If anyone knows of a cure, please post it. LOL
 Slinkythebadboyswife
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 149
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 10:30:48 AM
How to cure the bad boy addiction...

Find a bottle of Jose Cuervo and do a couple of shots with said bad boy.

When he walks past you, you kind of back into him.

Share one passionate kiss at the end of the bar.

Drag him to the altar.

Then wonder for the next 2 years "Oh Lord, what have I gotten into?

That will kill an addiction fast! ;)

Slinky
 Suzie_Hippie_Homemaker
Joined: 8/10/2012
Msg: 150
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 11:05:19 AM
I am not convinced you are cured. :)
 Slinkythebadboyswife
Joined: 8/17/2012
Msg: 151
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 11:37:06 AM
LOL ^^^^^

Oh I am cured all right! If I looked at another bad boy he would have my scrawny neck in his paws! Great incentive to be cured. ;)

Slinky
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
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How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 11:57:47 AM

"Bad boys" are generally the ones that aren't Christian. If you're not Christian, you have no moral compass.

as an agnostic, i have never kissed, fondled or butt-fvcked an altar boy. that tends to ruin their flavor for grilling.
 Heidi_66
Joined: 7/7/2012
Msg: 153
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 11:22:35 PM
Yeah I was with a "bad boy" for too long. It was f*****.
he's addicted to smoking cigarettes, drinking loads every day, is incredibly aggressive and abusive - massive nightmare it was, and he had no ambition for earning much money at all - wanted to be reliant on me for money. he had massive mother issues and came from a f***** family. his dad was a heroin addict and his mum and him are emotionally incestuous. he was also unpredictably aggressive and depressive.

I hope to stay clear of any bad boys in the future. they're f**** , cause stress/crying/low self esteem and they're always in drama.
 Heidi_66
Joined: 7/7/2012
Msg: 154
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/21/2012 11:25:05 PM
yeah like a previous poster said - it is f**** - the HOT ****ing SEX. F*** off.

he's a F****** A****** and I never want to see him ever again in my life. I'll make sure I get enough HOT sex without the nightmare sh*t.
 im_a_rockstar
Joined: 12/29/2011
Msg: 155
How to cure my bad boy addiction?
Posted: 8/23/2012 8:23:24 AM

Simple:Go out with a nice guy.


It really is that simple. Every look and personality out there is filled by both nice guys and bad boys. Just stop dating the jerks
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