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 DemonLeather
Joined: 8/10/2007
Msg: 67
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"When you trust to soon, are you a fool??

YES YOU ARE!!!! and you are even more foolish when you say .." I thought they would change"

But... I can change,.. TRUST me!
 Redlance71
Joined: 2/2/2009
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When you trust too soon, are you the fool?
Posted: 9/29/2010 7:45:25 PM
I totally agree OP. Trust is earned. Have been guilty of handing too much trust over early on in my past.
The flip side though is when they don't trust you based on experiences with thier exes. Last wife was certain I was going to be like her ex hubby and do sneaky online activities and porn and stuff. I have no room for porn in my life, and all of my accounts are click and open. I had and still have nothing to hide but her habit of "checking" on me irritated me, felt she had no cause. I felt no need to do the same thing. I met her on PoF and took her awhile of spying on my forum comments to realize my pof posts were normal activities for me. One of my favorite movie quotes is "Assumption is the mother of all F-ups" and if someone wants to go around expecting the worst they lower they quality of life for both themselves and thier S.O.
 treselle
Joined: 6/16/2005
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When you trust too soon, are you the fool?
Posted: 9/29/2010 8:35:58 PM
Dishonest people are the ones with issues. The ones who pretend to be someone they are not, who lie, manipulate, use and abuse others. Just because there are such people, the honest ones should not blame themselves for trusting easily or anything else that could be prevented if only they were questioning everything. Yes, honest people can become victims. It's life. You risk every moment and you do not know what will happen to you.
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