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 SilentInk
Joined: 3/20/2010
Msg: 26
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actually I usually go for "papi" over daddy...but that's just me.


Sorry not to be rude, but I imagine a hot Latin stud saying 'papi'. It would just come off as very weird coming from a white guy’s mouth. Might be just me though.
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 27
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 7:26:06 PM

Sorry not to be rude, but I imagine a hot Latin stud saying 'papi'. It would just come off as very weird coming from a white guy’s mouth. Might be just me though.


No straight man regardless what his ethnicity is going to say "Papi". Unless, it's a Latino male referring to his Father. The woman refers to the man as "Papi". It's a term of endearment for one's man or during the heat of the moment.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 28
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 8:55:55 PM
sabrosura is correct.

also- I would NEVER expect or even be turned on by a white girl calling me papi.

nor would I be turned on by her calling me "daddy"....it would be odd...


but then again, I have not dated white women in this milenium...


its a language and cultural thing.

The English language is defintely lacking when it comes to "terms of endearment" as compared to the romantic languages.


ex- I can be with a latin girl and call her "ay mi Morena"...and if we're in bed- it'll turn her on...yet in English that means literally "oh my brown girl"

same with latin black women "oh negra" which means "oh black girl"



but white ladies here- if you are ever with a latin dude, you might be safe in calling him Papi, (daddy) if he calls you "Mami"....

just be leery if he wants you to refer to him as "Papi chulo"
 pandusvenator
Joined: 11/17/2009
Msg: 29
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:01:23 PM
The English language is defintely lacking when it comes to "terms of endearment" as compared to the romantic languages.


Boondock. There are more words in the english language than any other. That got me to thinking...is it the words or how you say them? I love to hear spanish in my ear while engaged in passion. It's tough for me not to loose it . But I also think its how its being said to me.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 30
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/17/2010 9:11:46 PM
pandus...

where do you think the word "romantic" comes from?

"Romance"

talking romantically, etc....

Its from the Romance Languages, ie..roman based languages....Italian, French, Spanish, Portuguese, Romanian, etc...etc...



we might have more "words" in English- yet that does not mean we have more terms of love/endearment....
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 31
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 3:17:53 AM

And for the love of God, DON'T cry. I'll stop and leave.


I just got another monitor and keyboard..Now you have done it.

Lights dim or off..TV off ,music Off.
No external distractions.
I want to hear his breath and sounds.



It also depends if you are "new" lovers.
Some dialog can be constructive until you learn the others body and sound language.
Affirmation of pleasure is a big turn on.
Just don't fake it.

Screamers are IMO faking it..or you just did something extra ordinarily FABULOUS or painful.


On the other hand "call me daddy" is NEVER cool in my book.

LOL.

Oh speaking of SPANISH!!!!!!!

My ex husband spoke Spanish most of the time and was trying how to tell me to "kiss my neck" in Spanish during an interlude of passion....weeeeeell it seems..........

I said "There is a record stuck in my neck".

You can imagine.."The outcome" so to speak.

Dang boon..Always gotta advertise you are not into white women?



 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 32
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 3:46:14 AM
just be leery if he wants you to refer to him as "Papi chulo"


Boon, you shouldn't feel leery. It's also a term of endearment/compliment to a Latino man. It means they are sexy/cool man...............


Wouldn't call any man "Daddy".....ewww....lol
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 33
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 5:49:39 AM
peppermint- no I was baited and you deduced....





Boon, you shouldn't feel leery. It's also a term of endearment/compliment to a Latino man. It means they are sexy/cool man....



oh sabrosura- I'd never feel leery, again- i'm the man, I was suggesting that the woman feel leery.

to me- papi chulo, chulo meaning pimp....not necessarily a pimp who is running putas on the street for money- but also guys who when he is with a girl or girls that he has them buying his clothes, car, giving him money, etc....all the while he's got at least one other girl on the side.
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 34
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 6:57:07 AM

oh sabrosura- I'd never feel leery, again- i'm the man, I was suggesting that the woman feel leery.

to me- papi chulo, chulo meaning pimp....not necessarily a pimp who is running putas on the street for money- but also guys who when he is with a girl or girls that he has them buying his clothes, car, giving him money, etc....all the while he's got at least one other girl on the side.


^^^The definition you use may be for a different part of Latin America. We (PRicans & Dominicans) don't use in that context. Never even heard of it being used in that setting.

Also, keep in mind that one word and/or phrase means many things depending on the part of the country.
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 35
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Posted: 10/18/2010 7:32:12 AM
I wanna hear real down low dirty words like
"put your weewee in my map of tasmania" (for the unshaven)

"Ooooh your mungrel feels good...... faster"

"yeah baby groovey baby fab!"
slap my whiskers yee haw!
Ooooooh very blue!
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 36
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 8:11:10 AM
I always thought that being called daddy by a lover would be strange ..But then WE met a couple that did this regularly even in public ..so me got to thinking after all he is her kids
daddy .. now I no longer think that term has incestuous overtures ...after all I call my woman baby that don't mean I am a pedophile ..I still haven't been called daddy but I no longer would read anything into it ..and after all I have called a woman sexy moma with no ill effects
and my woman seams to take pride when I call her my dirty little slut or my whore or my sexy bytch ..she has even said (that's right I'm your private little whore/slut /bytch



I am married to a screamer ...(whats not to love ) she only screams at orgasm and even if you gagged her she would find some way to squeal so I know its not contrived ..I have been with one woman who was very vocal with the obscenities when the time got near (again whats not to like )I guess the only thing that would bother me is if she made no sound at all might have to turn on the light to make sure she wasn't dead

one of the funniest thing that ever happened to me ...well its funny now ...when I was a teen I dated this girl no one ever prepared me or told me about her condition ...we were having sex in the back seat of my car and she had a seizure...when it started I thought I was doing some good ..but it soon became evident something was wrong... .then I thought I had killed her ...finally she came conscious enough for me to carry her home ...never could get her completely dressed ..sure was glad when her mom said it was not unusual for her to tear her clothes off during a seizure ..the next day I had a talk with someone who explained epilepsy to me ... sure wish I had had a clue what was happening before it happened ..I still liked her but sorry there was no way I could bring myself to date her again and I feel bad about it I know it was not her fault
 peppermint petunias
Joined: 9/2/2009
Msg: 37
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 8:39:21 AM

one of the funniest thing that ever happened to me ...well its funny now ...when I was a teen I dated this girl no one ever prepared me or told me about her condition ...we were having sex in the back seat of my car and she had a seizure...when it started I thought I was doing some good ..but it soon became evident something was wrong... .then I thought I had killed her

OMG NO SHHET???????????????????



peppermint- no I was baited and you deduced....
OP!! boon..Sir fibsalotitseems.........
Now, I SO know you have said that before..numerous times..and I just am sick of it. You cad!!!!
I got a noise for ya ..bring your ear over here.

 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 38
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Posted: 10/18/2010 8:45:51 AM
who is yo daddy?

kool
could always say something nasty when goin doggy style like "Geeeeee you're not as 'tight as yo sister biatch," and hold on to those haunches with a tight grip..." Hoo Whee more fun than a mechanical bull during a lightning storm!"

otherwise gutteral grunts bom both of us, go F@#$ingg Neanderthallic on each other it was more than awsome ....we got very primeval with each other
 Big_fun_wave
Joined: 2/28/2009
Msg: 39
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 10:08:02 AM
It should be mentioned that theres a difference between sounds/screams of ecstacy and screams of pain. At times it can be a little confusing at first. But I don't like if a woman is experiencing lots of pain. It's weard as I've heard that sexual pleasure often includes a little pain. But I can't even tolerate it while watching porn anymore if the womans in obvious excrutiating pain.
 justwant2no
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 40
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 10:29:46 AM
I dated a screamer once - it startled the hell out of me! I was afraid to have sex late at night for fear he'd wake the neighbors. That was a short lived affair.
I prefer moans and the occassional direction - I wish I could get my guy to tell me what he wanted me to do - I find that very sexy...
 Sabrosura089
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 41
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 11:15:28 AM
That whole Papi thing sounds kiddish. I wouldn't even want a spanish or latino chick to call me that ...sheesh.

As long as the dirty words aren't childish i'm ok with it.

I don't want to hear her kiddish phrases during sex like "Put your ding-ding-dong in my tra-la-la" or else i'm putting my clothers back on and going to the candy store to get some mars bars and pop rocks... and she can rub her goo-goo button all by herself.


It's a term of endearment that is foreign (of a different language) to you. So it may appear to be "kiddish", but believe me it is not....................
 deerdog1
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 42
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Posted: 10/18/2010 11:28:02 AM
maybe its a symptom of getting old ...like I have said many times of late ....call me anything except... late for dinner ...and if we are having sex you can even call me that
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 43
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 12:11:42 PM

It should be mentioned that theres a difference between sounds/screams of ecstacy and screams of pain


do tell....
 RushLuv
Joined: 4/16/2009
Msg: 44
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 12:13:32 PM
I don't talk and I for damn sure won't be referring to a man I'm having sex with as "daddy" nor "papi." Get the hell out of here.

I think talking is unnecessary, talk about a distraction. Just my own opinion, of course.
 scenesoflife
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 45
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 12:27:45 PM

When it comes to my satisfaction, I do what I have to do to get there. That's separate and apart from the sex I am having with the person in the room. Not sad at all, both of us live through it just fine. : )


:O

that IS sad!!! unless your partner's fantasy is to fvck an emotional unavailable corpse...

now I can see how you made a guy cry!!

to topic.. well.. talking during sex...
I think its nice, if its genuine..
the hottest thing a woman can say is "is it in yet?"


I once was with this girl.. about 8 years younger than me..being busy all of a sudden she says: "oh yeah momma likes that"
LOL!!!!
 scenesoflife
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 46
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 12:34:53 PM

we might have more "words" in English- yet that does not mean we have more terms of love/endearment


what's wrong with "awesome"..??
 foreverstacey
Joined: 11/28/2009
Msg: 47
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 1:19:47 PM
I get annoyed when someone talks.. it distracts me.. heavy breathing and occasional moaning is good enough to let me know its good. I myself am not screamer.. its evident that I enjoy it, but i'm not a porn girl sooo I guess that would make me silent?

also i HATE when someone asks after if it was good.. go away
 shakeitupbaby2012
Joined: 8/12/2010
Msg: 48
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 1:38:52 PM

also i HATE when someone asks after if it was good.. go away


or if they feel the need to say how good it was- I know- I was there lol...

communication is huge- in all things. It's good to talk during sex to let each other know what's good, great, etc. If a guy likes it when I moan in his ear--I will definitely enjoy that for his sake, as well as a way of expressing my own enjoyment. I really don't think about these things I just enjoy the time together.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 49
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 1:45:08 PM

that IS sad!!! unless your partner's fantasy is to fvck an emotional unavailable corpse...

LOL...that's awfully dramatic. As someone who can multitask, I can both have my fantasy AND enjoy the person there. Trust me, he's got no complaints.

now I can see how you made a guy cry!!

What, are you over sensitive too? Ick.
 scenesoflife
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 50
sex noises and talking
Posted: 10/18/2010 1:52:43 PM

LOL...that's awfully dramatic. As someone who can multitask, I can both have my fantasy AND enjoy the person there. Trust me, he's got no complaints.


hehehehe thats cute...
yeah I usually multitask too.. at least I get things done that way...
filling in tax forms, dishes, folding laundry etc.


What, are you over sensitive too? Ick.

does such a thing even exsist?? "overly" sensitive...
I guess with razorburn..
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