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Joined: 5/19/2007
Msg: 14
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What is the modus operandi at bars?Page 3 of 3    (1, 2, 3)
There is no shortage of women who want your bod (unless you are an extreme case). There is usually, however, a distinct shortage of women who want your bod whose bod in return you want.

Don't reach for the "fruit high on the tree", unless you are willing to do without for a very long time, for to them YOU are low fruit on the tree.

Guess what? Most people stand on their tippy toes reaching for the high fruit.
Joined: 8/15/2009
Msg: 15
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What is the modus operandi at bars?
Posted: 12/5/2010 1:00:04 PM
To get laid at a bar all you have to do is wait until closing time, look around and see who is left and then pick one to boink.

These won't be quality selections.

Most bar lays aren't.
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/6/2010 6:27:44 PM
When young I used to pull girls at bars.
I met my ex at one.
So don't advise it.

Basicly you gotta go in thinking you're the coolest male on the planet.
(inspite of overwhelming evidence to the contrary)
and keep buying em tequila shots till it's believable.

Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 20
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Posted: 12/7/2010 10:26:18 AM
So I don't see why bars would have any better odds?

If there are better odds at a bar it's only because a bar is one place a person with no sense of ethics can find someone who is depressed, drunk and willing to go home with someone for what little that offers. Try hitting on women you'd want to date and see if you can get them to leave for sex early in the evening to see if bars really give you better odds of having sex with a psychologically stable woman who is truly into you. For a sure thing, spend your bar money on an escort instead.
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 23
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Posted: 12/7/2010 11:23:02 AM
^^^^ damn you sure are right....he was writing it down word for word!! lol

women don't do douchebags... lol
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 28
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What is the modus operandi at bars?
Posted: 12/7/2010 1:18:20 PM

...The rest is in your hands...

You actually took the time to type all that out? That's amazing, fawking amazing.

One drawback about bar have no idea who inseminated them last night.

But rest assured, if you get to the level of drunken stupor or the level of horniness needed to grab one of them..if they fancy you again, they will be at there at the same place, same time, same level of intoxication for another may have to stand in line, if you don't get them early..but if that floats your boat..go for it.
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 31
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Posted: 12/7/2010 8:28:33 PM
As for girls in groups, come on, someone tell me a success story where one guy bought a group of 3 girls drinks and got laid. me, if you've been around a bit- you'd know how to handle chicks in groups. it ain't about buying chicks drinks. other clowns will do that.

its about having a torpedo.

jco knows about the torpedo...did Mystery ever explain the torpedo to you?

rush- I disagree with you, perhaps you should qualify your statement. its not a matter of your deciding if you "WILL" screw a guy, more of a matter of "would you"....

and just like men, I believe women make that decision at first meet.
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 33
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Posted: 12/8/2010 12:02:10 AM
lol ya, I called ya brah! on purpose!

if your ways work, then jump on it man.

ya, I agree you let other chumps by girl's drinks...

but you still don't know about the torpedo!

you ain't even ready for that lesson.
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 42
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Posted: 12/8/2010 2:18:33 PM
^^^^I'm with JC- I'm always open to learning new things about chicks and attraction, etc...

why not? why would you NOT be open to learning more?

hint: girls will come back for clowns, its not so much of a badge of honor that a chick comes back for seconds. its only bad if they do NOT come back for seconds. why do you think chicks are so suceptible to being played?

because they dont' know when to say "no" once they give it up the first time.

Torpedo is advanced technics....

Paint the fence danielson.
Joined: 12/3/2010
Msg: 50
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Posted: 12/30/2010 5:24:19 AM
rushluv, I find that blanket statement about females in bars REALLLLY offensive. I DO go to bars. And I don't even drink. I DON'T go there to pick up guys. I shoot pool. A lot. So I don't even to to a place that doesn't have at least one table. Sometimes just in the mood to be around a bunch of people in a casual atmosphere, and this would be the ticket for me. Lots of guys put quarters down on the table when I'm in the middle of a game (invitation to play when I'm done with current game), and if I'm not interested, I tell him to take his money back. or I leave it there if I'm interested.
Joined: 4/28/2011
Msg: 54
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Posted: 9/17/2011 9:29:29 PM
Dud your posted few years ago, so I wonder if you find a way ?
You are not honest at all. On your profile you are saying: " Here for the forums only"
My azz you are.
You are pathetic really.
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 56
What is the modus operandi at bars?
Posted: 9/19/2011 1:03:53 PM
The easiest place to find girls to pick up is also the hardest. The reason? Well even though bars and clubs offer a dense population of single females in a small amount of space, there is a handful of things that are working against you, such as…

1.****lockers. You think her friends are going to let you sweep her off her feet? You’ll be lucky if you can get in a ten minute conversation before the friend pulls her away.

2. Noise. Especially in the clubs, it can be very hard to have a normal conversation with a girl. So that leaves the dance option available, but talking is the best choice to build a connection. Unless she is attracted to your look she will get bored of dancing and then go on to the next guy.

3. Alcohol. Now this is a double edged sword. On one hand it makes both you and the girl you are talking to more social, but after a certain point the girls will get so drunk so at best you will get a sloppy makeout. It will be rare a drunk girl’s friend will let you take her home (see number 1), and getting her phone number will be useless since she’ll forget about you the next day.

4. Other guys. I still haven’t found a bar that regularly has more girls than guys. Chances are you will be competing against a whole lot of desperate guys and unless you approach often you will be lost in this sea of sausage. It’s not hard to separate yourself from them if you stand out from the crowd with your own style and game, but it does mean you have to put some work into it.

5. Time. Unless you live in a large metropolitan area, the only times you can find a decent number of girls in bars or clubs is on the weekends. So that means you wait the entire week to talk to a girl for a few hour window come Friday night.

Even with all those negative, there are many pick up artists getting laid at nightspots. Lucky for you that 90% of guys have absolutely no game. They just hold the wall up with their warm beer hoping girls talk to them. So..................

Play the numbers. When you are approaching girls in the daytime, it can happen that you get an email or number from each girl you approach, but at night the odds are stacked against you. To battle that you need to concentrate on quantity, especially until you build you game up. Don’t leave the house unless you have an intent to approach at least 10 girls, and actually count as you do your approaches.

Remember you are out to have fun and meet girls. There really is no reason to hesitate approaching or experimenting in a bar or club, the last place where you should be nervous or scared about anything. If you bomb, do you really think the girls are going to remember you a day from now? Even if you get a number after talking to her for 15 minutes they might forget you! Bottom line is to have fun, don’t give a shit, and keep approaching girls.

Approaching is the hardest part of the game. There is nothing natural or easy about walking up to a girl you don't know and talking to her in a way that makes her laugh, builds attraction, and ends with her giving you her phone number. So practice makes perfect. And if at first you don't succeed, there is always another bar down the strip.
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