|Christmas Cheer?Page 4 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4)|
|I generally agree with other posters here - good comments.|
I'm also thinking that isn't the point of giving a gift to be ... well ... GIVING ? And to do it without expectations of "getting one back" ?
Yes - it was thoughtful of you , though perhaps abit premature. But hey - it was YOUR choice.
I'd say relax , let things unfold at their own pace. Try not to over think all this .
While he's away - maybe he'll miss you ! You may have a great reunion then !
Posted: 11/14/2011 9:14:05 AM
|Why resurrect a thread about something that occurred or didn't occur last year? Besides that, the OP has long since exited POF stage right! |
However, gifts at Christmas, IMO, should be for someone you are in a relationship with, not following a date or two, and certainly not several months in advance! I am not referring to all those others who have entered our lives and our hearts, such as family and friends.
Posted: 11/23/2012 6:21:35 PM
|This is the reason why people should not get intimate right b4 the Holidays...it causes all kinds of situations that can lead to resentments...|
Posted: 11/23/2012 6:22:58 PM
|A true gift is given with the intention of 'giving', not 'getting. Period.|
Posted: 11/23/2012 7:47:26 PM
I am thinking about this right now.
I already know what i want to get my guy and that won't change if things change in certain areas of our relationship. Although I do not think they will.
I don't expect anything back from him.
We will be just past the 2 month mark when Christmas hits and he's going out of town. So it's a similar situation. I'm just gonna follow my heart and let him take the lead.
What else can you do?