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 panama91
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 463
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no u can feel it right it from man or wowan 49th post
 SlightlyUsedBF
Joined: 3/3/2011
Msg: 464
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/20/2012 8:20:30 PM
I once knew a girl that did not get laid very often, it was my ex-wife =/
 ~breathlesshush~
Joined: 4/25/2006
Msg: 465
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Posted: 5/20/2012 10:41:23 PM

Women control the gates to heaven and are the gatekeepers...sex only happens if they say so.


I see post after post of men going on and on about how women have all the power and men only get laid
if they settle for women they don't find attractive. Women can go out anytime they want and find a willing
partner but men have to beg borrow and plead to even be in the running.

Women have the power because men give it to them .

It's simple supply and demand: the higher the demand the higher the cost becomes. The supplier knows there's a demand for what they are offering and they also know that they can charge whatever the hell they want because the buyer will pay it.

The solution is simple but I doubt it will ever change. Men need to refuse to give women this power over them.
A woman can try and use sex as a weapon against a man but if he refuses to go along with it he renders her power
impotent.

I can't use sex to get what I want from a guy unless he lets me. If he doesn't give me that power the dynamic
changes and we both have equal standing. It really is that simple. Sex isn't a necessity like food and water but men place a similar value on it, thus justifying the lengths they will go to get it. Control your libido and stop letting it control you.

JMO
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 466
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/21/2012 4:19:55 AM

Women have the power because men give it to them .

That's absolutely true.

Men need to refuse to give women this power over them.

That's also absolutely true and in addition, by being able to say no and taking that power away from a woman, a guy can get laid much more easily.
 JerseyGirl2008
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 468
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/21/2012 6:25:32 AM

women **** up this whole sex game because of their pickiness,

Yes - amazingly enough, unlike most young guys who'd bang a knot-hole in a fence if they were sure they wouldn't get splinters (and there are probably many who would overlook the splinters and bang it anyway) most ladies have a little more decency and dignity and will be more selective. Too bad, so sad.
 SONNI100
Joined: 12/24/2010
Msg: 470
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/21/2012 12:09:36 PM
I will answer the question directly....yes.
 TD625
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 472
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/21/2012 7:10:21 PM
YUP !!!!!!!!!!
 tilark99
Joined: 1/21/2012
Msg: 473
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/26/2012 8:06:04 AM
Yes, I do think women-- and men-- can get laid whenever they want. Maybe not by the exact partner they want, but amyone who is willing to lower their standards far enough, can get laid. Just like every house/car is sellable, as long as the price is low enough.
 monty336
Joined: 12/29/2008
Msg: 474
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Posted: 5/27/2012 2:20:39 PM
ive always wondered if you said to a woman go into a pub or similar and you have got a hour to get laid could it be done, would the male feel something was wrong and back off.
 forums1
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 476
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/27/2012 4:13:42 PM
Hollywood Madam Heidi Fleiss wanted to open a male "Stud Ranch" in NV, to cater to women just like the "Bunny Ranch's" do in the state where prostitution is legal. She decided not to because there wasn't enough interest for it to be profitable.

Enough said.
 Acehonestlady
Joined: 4/16/2012
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Posted: 5/27/2012 10:28:08 PM
I remember years ago in a night-club with my boyfriend of the time and some friends as it was ending and the dance floor emptying. We were discussing the subject of women being able to get sex almost whenever they want.. My theory was that that a woman could pull if she not previously made herself available that night as she was with her boyfriend (or whatever) if she simply made herself appear available and looking even at the last moment. Wanting to put the theory to the test. I stepped out onto the dance floor in stance (getting tangled up in the strap of a shoulder bag that had been left on the floor and trying to get my foot out). When I looked up it was into the face of a man that had been in my eyeline as I had scanned the club for prey! He had beaten to me another that had also been making his approach and I’d only left the table having said ‘watch this’ about 40 seconds previously! Not 100% definate that they would have wanted sex but highly likley.

Many women could do the stance and look thing in almost any place.
If a woman gives men a certain look she can quite easily find the opportunity for sex. I know that can’t be done with every man but I do think that many women can get sex every day with a different man if she looks for it enough in certain ways.
 BrockLee74
Joined: 9/9/2011
Msg: 478
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/27/2012 10:57:09 PM
Guys, you can get laid whenever you want as well. Just find the nearest trailer park or low income housing complex. Sure, she may not have all her teeth and weigh as much as your car, but its available. What, you wont lower your standards? Well, women have standards too. Just because they can get it doesn't mean they want whats available.
 RD2112
Joined: 8/7/2010
Msg: 480
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 5/28/2012 12:06:58 AM
message 610: please help me sell my truck. lol

Most women can get laid whenever they want. Maybe just not by who they want. There are many horny guys out there that will do it with any woman no matter what. Men are less picky than women. There are a few women and I mean just a handful out there that will do this and for free.

I don't know any women that are even close to that level. Yrs ago I knew a few but I never would even kiss them. Just hangout and laugh at their exploits. THey were funny too.
 NotyouraverageD
Joined: 5/15/2012
Msg: 481
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Posted: 5/28/2012 5:29:15 AM
Any of us can get laid any time we want - well most of us...
Dating and hooking is easy.
Dating and hooking up with someone you actually desire is where it starts to get tricky.
 vestaceres
Joined: 6/13/2012
Msg: 482
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 6/17/2012 3:51:43 AM
Yes, I can. I choose not to, however. I don't want to be used nor will I allow it.
 aliveandfresh
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 483
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 6/17/2012 7:46:16 AM
hi i am alive and fresh,
id like to make a comment here, not sure where to put it. so here i go. i have been married 3 x my last husband passed 6 years ago. u c i am used to having sex.i enjoy it very much. because of my experiences meeting men on pof. i have changed my attitude and do not jump in bed as fast as i used to. here the deal. when some men find out the woman wants a relationship. oh wow, they say thats what they want too. so the women gives them sex, also and when they get what they want, oh they give u promises, oh i will call u, believe me they say i will be back. but guess what u never hear from them again. so u know what, all depending how horney i am,lol!!, i am being honest here. if i am really interested, i may hold back and get to know the guy,and if he is really serious about a relationship, and doesnt get sex for a while, he will be back, lol!! no u know, it seems,being honest here, it has happened to me and i have wised up in my old age, lol. oh well i had to say what i have experienced PEACE
 tygerpawn
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 485
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Posted: 6/17/2012 2:24:15 PM
most women can get laid if they want but most of us has standards, getting laid is the easy part, most guys will screw anything the question is do we want to lower our standards, not this chick.
 RangerMan321
Joined: 6/20/2011
Msg: 486
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/25/2012 9:13:36 PM
Women can get sex whenever!!!!! There is no work for a women to get laid! Fat ugly 400lb women can get d ick whenever! Most women are stuck up picky b itches! Women have all the power and choice! I f ucking hate it! It's f ucking ridiculous!
 1bellanella
Joined: 1/24/2010
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Posted: 10/25/2012 9:32:35 PM

Women can get sex whenever!!!!! There is no work for a women to get laid! Fat ugly 400lb women can get d ick whenever! Most women are stuck up picky b itches! Women have all the power and choice! I f ucking hate it! It's f ucking ridiculous!

Being bitter and angry about it isn't going to get you what you want. Learn to accept reality without the anger and you stand a much better chance of making a real connection with someone.
 VolcanoKing
Joined: 8/6/2012
Msg: 488
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/25/2012 9:42:57 PM
Do you mean in general, like just walking into a bar or singles party and ending up with at least *someone* to have sex with?

Absolutely!

Do you mean having sex with a certain someone you are actually really hot for but he's not into you?

Absolutely not!
 funandfloating
Joined: 10/12/2012
Msg: 489
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/25/2012 10:16:49 PM
I agree with Rushluv in that women can get sex anytime, but who with?? Men typically are up for it when they can get it and are not so fussy especially after a couple of drinks. Most women dont want casual sex for the sake of it and it is just empty and meaningless. I would prefer to be sexually inactive rather than just settle for someone available.
 livingwithadog
Joined: 7/11/2011
Msg: 490
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Posted: 10/26/2012 6:23:20 AM

Most women can get laid whenever they want. Maybe just not by who they want.

Now, this statement makes some sense.
 orange_hill
Joined: 9/8/2012
Msg: 491
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/26/2012 7:56:08 AM
Yes. Most women can find a man that is willing to have with sex with her. However if my only options were having sex with unattractive man and not having sex, I would choose the later.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 492
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/26/2012 8:14:29 AM
In general sure most women can get laid almost anytime of the day,,

BUT only if the individual woman did NOT care what the person looked like,acted like,smelled like an talked like,if a woman was on board for anything that walks by or sends a message saying let f uck,sure she could get all the sex she liked whether it was good or not..

however realisticly since life is not a porno an every woman is NOT ready to open their legs to anything that has a pulse more then likely the average woman with even a bit of common sense an standards for what she really wants out of a mate, friendship/dating and SEX..

more then likely she will choose not to get "laid" just cause a random guy says he's horny or claims to have a big d ick an has pleased many women dam LOL hate them braggers their the worst..

as for the guy who said that ALL women are picky stuck up b itches an even the fat 400 pound b itches can get d ick..
he is the prime example of somebody who is NOT getting laid regularly if at all an is probably wondering why he keeps scaring the ladies off even the ugly 400 pound b itches obviously must be turning him down as well..

sorry bro maybe its you an not all of us..
 RangerMan321
Joined: 6/20/2011
Msg: 493
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 10/26/2012 10:23:11 AM
Iam not angry, women just dont care, cause they can get sex whenever!!! Thats why its not important to you!!!!
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