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 grizzelda
Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 545
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^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ Yup and its men that accuse women of having sexual issues, seems to me that waaaaay more men have issues with sex than women, most of the sexual "issues" women have are based on the above male issues surrounding sex. If you really think about it most of the things that women are trying to avoid are constructed social judgements based on men and their sexual issues and attempts to control women over the past 2000 years, oh and the very minor fact that babies often happen after sex.
 That_girl*
Joined: 9/29/2008
Msg: 546
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Posted: 11/23/2012 12:38:30 PM
^^^

I do not think larrisan04 hates men i think she is just fed up with the bull s hit in tow..which i can not blame her at all i understand what she is saying when ever i read 1 of her post....
 tygerpawn
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 547
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Posted: 11/23/2012 12:40:43 PM
Women can get laid if they really want to, but most would have to lower their standards, getting sex is the easy part, most guys will drop their pants in a heartbeat.

Even not so attractive women can get laid if they want but most do not want that we want a little more than just the physical part most men dont get that and yes its harder for men and paying for it doesnt count.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 548
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Posted: 11/24/2012 6:55:11 AM
One of my more recent dates said it felt like Meg Ryan w/ Tom Hanks & I took it as a compliment. Meg Ryan's character in Who's got Mail had a RELATIONSHIP, not a one night stand. He basically told me I WAS RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL.
If a man does NOT want a relationship, he aint gonna hang around Meg Ryan, he is gonna hang around...I dunno who plays one night stand women in the movies?
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 549
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Posted: 11/24/2012 4:26:45 PM
Captainad

"Wow larrisan04 nice attitude. You should start meeting women since you hate men so much."

I don't "hate" men at all. Where you got that impression, I do not know. I was responding to a post by a guy who had issues with a woman who "spread too soon." Just the way he worded it was rather disgusting. It's men like this that make things difficult for us all, and I do not like men like this, of course (no woman does). It's the 'ol double standard, and it's got to go! I hate the double standard.

That Girl ~

Thank you for having my back, and you are right, I do not "hate" men. It's b.s. I hate, and the men who try to control female sexuality with such manipulation.
 Sup8989
Joined: 10/9/2011
Msg: 550
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Posted: 11/24/2012 5:27:01 PM
Ok Women can do that SOOOO WHAT
 barb75254
Joined: 1/2/2011
Msg: 551
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 11/24/2012 5:50:39 PM
YES!!! It's true - I used to ponder this question when a guy would make this comment. Well I can tell you we really can. :-) YESSSSS
 15111958
Joined: 12/6/2011
Msg: 552
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Posted: 11/24/2012 5:51:12 PM
I wish I could have sex whenever I wanted it. I would have had it more than once by this point in my life.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 553
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Posted: 2/17/2013 5:34:36 PM
i unhid my ad yesterday & the emails I got were hilarious...

if i were deaf, dumb & blind...
 curviest
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 554
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Posted: 2/18/2013 12:22:47 AM
Wayward stated that: "Except for the truly fugly and/or obese and/or socially inept, ANYONE can get laid ..."

Not true. I am classed as "supermorbidly obese" AND I am "fugly", AND I am in my 50s, AND I am a stroppy, no-nonsense feminist, but I can "get laid" whenever I want. Not only do I have a long-term local friend who will oblige me when asked, but also just about every guy I have dated over the past year wanted to have sex with me and I'm still in email contact with a number of them, so I think that, if I wanted to, I could get laid over the next seven days by seven different guys.

Therefore, to answer the OP, I guess the answer is yes. If someone like me can get laid, any woman can.
 soicat
Joined: 7/16/2012
Msg: 555
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Posted: 2/19/2013 4:07:04 PM
Curviest - I really miss Wayward. He hasn't been here for a couple of years but he was an interesting guy whether you agreed with him or not. He'd probably be the first to tell you that attractiveness has many aspects, and that the men who are drawn to you aren't desperate, but rather discerning.

It's amazing that this thread has gone on so long. Yes, women can get laid whenever they want, and get $10.00 too if they insist, but what does that have to do with love?
 OC28AV99
Joined: 2/1/2013
Msg: 556
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 2/20/2013 11:25:24 PM
Um, YES. Are you seriously asking?
 1WishList
Joined: 11/22/2012
Msg: 557
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 2/20/2013 11:49:52 PM
Women have the power... Yes.
We can get laid any time, any where.
(Same as Men.)
Some have more power than others. True.
Are we, both genders, at times. sexually frustrated?? .... yes.
...**** ... I tried to follow the rest of this and I think I lost interest.
 BlokeInSydney
Joined: 5/7/2012
Msg: 558
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Posted: 2/21/2013 12:42:21 AM

Um, YES. Are you seriously asking?

Ouch! Pretty true though.

Men can get laid anytime too, they just have to be realistic in their choice of bedmate.
 THEMEPACK
Joined: 12/17/2012
Msg: 559
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Posted: 2/21/2013 5:19:13 AM
OP; I've said no thanks quite a few times....
 John255317
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 560
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Posted: 2/21/2013 7:13:25 AM
I don't think women have the power, I do think women can have sex whenever though. It isn't power, it is hard up guys and insecure low self esteem women, plain and simple. But lots of guys can have sex whenever they want also but a secure guy won't need to.
 dahlingdarling
Joined: 5/11/2012
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Posted: 2/22/2013 11:47:19 PM
In my opinion both guys and gals can get laid whenever they want due to prostitution. Gals being able to get laid easier without prostitution means shit to me as gals generally don't orgasm from sex since studies consistently show guys orgasm way more than gals do, there's only a 30% chance of female orgasm via penetration, gals tend to give more pleasure then they get, and guys prevalence for anal sex which rarely results in an orgasm for gals.
 guero77076
Joined: 3/14/2008
Msg: 562
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Posted: 2/23/2013 5:21:10 PM
i would say yes but i have a **** buddy that never squirted til we had sex one day i took her shopping for a vibrator and she really loves it she calls me every otherday and has phone se ix with me (she lives in another city) anyways she is hottt but she contracted a sexual desease a while back and now shes scared **** i **** a lot of women i do get a lot of no thanks but i just keep asking younger women are easy game the older women are all banged up and want a relationship but if you can make a women smile after sex shes your friend for life
 OC28AV99
Joined: 2/1/2013
Msg: 563
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Posted: 2/24/2013 12:45:46 AM
You're gross, Guerro, I pity the women in your world...EWW.
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 2/24/2012
Msg: 564
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Posted: 2/24/2013 8:18:30 AM
Yes, I could get "laid" any time.

But I don't want just anyone so I do not agree it's black & wite.
 Confident-Realist
Joined: 2/8/2004
Msg: 565
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Posted: 2/24/2013 9:18:34 AM
OC28AV99:

Um, YES. Are you seriously asking?

I know, right? I don't see how it's an argumentative concept. A woman is going not necessarily get an ideal guy whenever she wants -- but to merely get laid on any given day? I'd take less effort than mowing the lawn.

On_the_Edge_of_Glory:

Unless the dude's a pick up artist, a con artist, Ryan Gosling, or a perfect 10 in looks, the average guy who works for a living will have a much harder time.

Well a pickup artist or con-artist would still have more of a difficult time. That's a lot of work/scheming put in. Yeah, if you're a Ryan Gosling on the looks level, it's not going to be hard, but will still be more difficult than a nice looking woman who's goal is to get laid that night.

Cynthia:

But I don't want just anyone so I do not agree it's black & white.

But what you're willing/wanting to follow through on has nothing to do with it. :) That's a whole other subject. It is black & white -- women can really get laid whenever they want if it's as simple as merely getting laid.
 sassybaby2013
Joined: 12/31/2012
Msg: 567
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Posted: 2/24/2013 1:24:22 PM
Go to craigslist. It is filled with men trying tofind a woman to get laid. Obviously there is big demand and little supply.
 launchnretrieve
Joined: 6/7/2012
Msg: 568
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Posted: 2/24/2013 1:40:10 PM
Well, I don't know what I can ad to this monster thread, but I'm bored so I'll reply anyway.

A woman who is sexually desirable to a sexually available male can get laid when she wants to. It's that simple.
 spot4username
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 569
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Posted: 2/24/2013 1:51:02 PM
Anyone can get laid whenever they want if they are willing to lower their standards and/or pay for it.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 570
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Posted: 2/24/2013 9:28:02 PM
I think many can BUT choose not to if the caliber of man is not to their liking...it's a catch 22 situation. There are so many factors that go into people having sex besides chemistry- location, accessability, you name it.A whole plethora of mishaps to keep people from getting together.
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