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 sex_cee_bbw
Joined: 4/10/2011
Msg: 225
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here's the deal, there are more women than men! so they have the upper hand here in getting laid whenever they want to. there is always some despaate love starved woman in need. ha ha ha ha
 FatBottomGirI
Joined: 6/28/2011
Msg: 230
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Posted: 7/5/2011 4:54:11 PM
He's right. A woman can always find a willing man if she wants to get laid. Whether or not he'd tell his friends about it is another story.
 ekw1234
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 231
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Posted: 7/6/2011 9:28:18 AM
Let me think about this for a minute, Uumm, YES!!!!!
 The_Song
Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 233
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Posted: 7/16/2011 10:53:08 AM
Lol its not just woman, anyone can get laid whenever they want if they drop there standards and aren't picky. In this day and age its not very hard to find someone that's willing to have sex as long as they don't have to be your type.

You can pretty much go tell your friend that if he "stop being picky" he can pretty much have sex whenever he wants too

"4. Learn how to dance(I have never seen a man that was a good dancer go home solo
unless he wanted to), or tell a funny, non-insulting joke or have an interesting
conversation about something other than sports, your ex, your glory days, etc
(that all has a time and a place but not all the time)"

- number 4 works in my experience despite what they movies would otherwise tell you, plus its fun as hell too
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 238
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/16/2011 3:18:44 PM
^^So if they pay for it, they can get it whenever they want. The fact that some may not want to pay for it is irrelevant as it's still an option. Therefore, both women and men can get laid whenever they want, unless they don't want to do what it takes.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 239
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/16/2011 3:54:05 PM
^^I didn't see the word "legally" in the OP...so the legality of it isn't relevant and wasn't the main question (not that it matters). And if you're going to highlight "average", make sure you add it to both sides. So you mean "average" women as well.
 Lowtones84
Joined: 9/9/2008
Msg: 240
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/16/2011 4:09:01 PM
The answer is YES, for this reason; Sex does not always mean sex. It may mean the opportunity to date, it may mean obviously getting off. A woman has a much higher chance of getting a date on with a guy in the spur of the moment than a guy does with a woman because its her approval. Its never really the guy's decision. AT ALL. If it were there wouldn't be things like sexual harassment in our culture.

Men ask if women want to date, the yes or no comes from the women. The most decision making the guy has after that is where to go on the dates and whether or not he wants to end the relationship.
 ekw1234
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 241
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Posted: 7/17/2011 5:54:36 AM
^^^^sowrite..........when you said "finally!" are you agreeing with what i said about a woman's vagina being her goldmine or no?^^^


Oh my goodness man!! All women are not prostitutes or porn stars. We have jobs and don't need our vaginas to be gold mines. And if you are going to pose that silly argument, then a man's penis could also be a gold mine if he learned to use it properly. And yes even without needing a single penny from a guy, we can still have sex any time we want. It is the way it is.
 MR_AWESOMEEE
Joined: 10/23/2010
Msg: 242
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/17/2011 6:28:08 AM
Seriously! Anyone can get LAID if they want. Depends on if your paying for it or not. lol!

Any woman can go out to a bar and pick up a fool anytime simply because they have a hole between their legs. There are a s lot of men who have NO standards in this world anyways.

Now as far as finding anything else... who knows. I've met some gorgeous women who suck in bed and who cant carry a good conversation to save their life. Why would I keep them if they cant make me happy.
 DR1124
Joined: 12/2/2010
Msg: 245
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Posted: 7/17/2011 1:20:14 PM
OP: I don't feel like an attractive man, physically. I have an extreme ectomorphic body, which is further "enhanced" by my career as a peace officer. The face I got makes doves cry (Prince hehe)! If I wanted to have sex, I would have to dip my standards way down. Now, I am not very sexually active (by choice). I won't have sex with anyone unless I see something more beyond it. There are plenty of pretty faces out there, but almost none (in my experience) have a mind to go with it.

As most people have said here, we are attracted to those who are [usually] higher up than us on the scale in some way, usually physically (I.E. a 5 wanting to date a 9). That example sums me up unfortuantely. I would rate myself a 6-7 on the body, but a 4 on the face. Intelligence would be an 11/10, but that's because of my constant desire to chase advanced knowledge (I will be a lifetime student). To further clarify, I have 3 Bachelor's degrees, and will continue to advance myself. On topic, I seem to only have any physical desire for [in my opinion] 8's and higher. I know that those women (and ladies, the same is true for men) are 95% vain, 5% real. I have been blown off more times than I can count by these types, only to later watch them with their "partner" - usually a Jersey Shore reject that only knows 5-8 words in the American-English language. I find that I can offer them more in almost every way that counts, but in the end I just feel bad for them. It's their loss.

TL;DR - Girls will ALWAYS have an easier time getting 'laid' than men because men are known to be sexual hounds. Also, women have much more say in who/what they will be with than men at any level of attractiveness. The world has always worked that way. Look at the animal kingdom; the animals put effort into attracting mates by showing off colorful plumage and etcetera. Therefore, the "survival of the sexiest" (Darwin's TRUE theory) remains in full effect.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 246
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/18/2011 1:19:02 PM
Prostitution is a risk. Being willing to pay for it doesn't always mean they can get laid when tey want.

I'm not sure why it doesn't mean that. I've seen escorts before meeting my fiancee and I assure you that I could have gotten laid within a few hours after making a phone call or three.

Sometimes a man can get arrested as a part of an undercover operation sting in the streets or some websites.

OK, then let's restrict the guys to guys with some basic intelligence who see independent escorts, not streetwalkers. Then the chances are slim to none for a guy who does a little research and knows how to find one.

On the other hand, if too many guys (and potentially even girls) were doing this, I wonder what effect it would have on personal relationships between men and women in general?!!

Well, from first hand experience, I can tell you that it makes dating a snap. Being able to get laid with a phone call made it far easier to not let sex cloud my judgment in dating. You also can't be manipulated with sex when you don't really care if it's being offered and you won't ever be tempted to put up with GPS.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 248
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/19/2011 1:48:21 AM
It's not just men being arrested for trying to use streetwalkers. Some cops have placed ads on websites or magazines pretending to be a prostitute.

Well, calling a number in an ad isn't very smart either. The smart way is to find boards similar to pof, except for escorts and clients and to use a verification service that requires references to book appointments.

But I still think it's possible.

Lots of things are possible. What matters is accurately assessing risk and weighing the risks and benefits - no matter what the endeavor. You coud contract HIV having sex, yet I'll bet you've had sex.

I'm not sure whether the concept of 'Escorting' is widely understood in the US. In the UK, an Escort is a member of the public who offers their company and their time for a price - anything that happens during that time is private between two consenting adults. I don't know all the legal ins and outs of it, but I don't think it's seen in legal terms to be the same as prostitution.

Yeah - lots of escorts use that disclaimer, but from a legal standpoint, that disclaimer is irrelvant. A jury is going to see it a thinly veiled attempt to disguise an offer of sex for money, i.e., prostitution. What matters is what a jury believes.

This is just my vague (and possibly inaccurate) understanding and I'm happy to be corrected if someone knows the facts.

Prostitution is sex in exchange for something of value. It doesn't have to be money. Offering to buy dinner in exchange for sex would qualify.
 xeot
Joined: 10/25/2007
Msg: 251
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Posted: 7/26/2011 8:36:04 PM

Well, from first hand experience, I can tell you that it makes dating a snap. Being able to get laid with a phone call made it far easier to not let sex cloud my judgment in dating. You also can't be manipulated with sex when you don't really care if it's being offered and you won't ever be tempted to put up with GPS.


When sex does not work as a tool of manipulation or even seem to be something that is sought as a primary reason for dating the result is confusion or assumed lack of interest IME.
 jerrick1962
Joined: 6/22/2011
Msg: 253
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 7/26/2011 11:44:54 PM
Any woman not capable of finding some man to sleep with her has not left her home since puberty.
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 254
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Posted: 7/27/2011 1:38:21 PM
I think it depends on the women..I can..if I choose too,
When Im not in a serious committment, there are friends with benefits.
 jblack187
Joined: 8/28/2010
Msg: 256
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Posted: 7/27/2011 9:29:48 PM
I thoroughly believe that an attractive woman could get laid at damn near any time, they would just have to compromise their own morals/values/or whatever.

Picture this scenario. An attractive lady goes to a bar. Sits down next to a guy that's by himself and says "Hi, I'm Allison. Let's ****". If it doesn't work the first time, it would work after the 2nd or 3rd time.

Obviously no sane woman is going to be desperate enough to take that approach, but still. Imagine another scenario. Hot chick on the college campus. How hard would it really be for her to strike up a conversation with some random guy and end up with a date for Friday night? And after that date, how hard would it be for her to end up in his bed?

I could be waaay off base, but I really feel like any moderately attractive woman could get laid if they wanted to. But like I said, they would either have to compromise when it comes to looks, or compromise when it comes to their own promiscuity. A moderately attractive guy on the other hand doesn't have as much of a choice. We have to worry about being too direct, or not being confident enough, or not sounding like a creep, etc. Hell, they write books just to teach guys how to get women. Are there books like that for women? If they are, I doubt anybody is buying them.
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 7/29/2011 1:21:26 PM
^^^^wow! one whole week?

gee, that's TERRIBLE!

i notice you're talking about the "pretty" girls. how about trying some of the average girls and see where that gets you.

and none of this has anything to do with the topic at hand.

flat-out - NO!

those "pretty girls" who are under the age of 40 might be able to get laid whenever they want. but if you wear a double-digit size or have a plain face or are over 40 - forget it.
 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 260
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Posted: 7/29/2011 7:18:50 PM
Gawd I loved this thread! So much uselful information, so many viewpoints, so many egos! Hahahahaha!!

This makes a good primer for men and should be required reading by ALL men joining POF. It gives such clarity to the mind and emotional state of women. A guide to the best and worst of our species.

First let's look at the response of guys, so many looked like dogs in heat, panting at the aspect of carnal desire. Then we have those who's cup hardly runs over, more like dry! Then the angry, this ain't fair, they have all the luck, all they gotta do is..., and finally my favorite tha's why their never answering my emails their gettin laid! Hahaha! Of course let's not for get Mr. suave and debonair,I'm the man, I can get me somes anytime.. cause I go all night, it's bigger than a bread box, say when and all the rest.

But far more telling to me, and frankly much more surprising, considering ones I'm familiar with their postings, and definitely those who rail about treating us with respect. Yes, I mean the women!

Vast number of them smugly smiling, yeah I can get it when I want. A far cry from their usual posts of he screwed me once and left or why can't they respect our gender, or women think about feelings first, sex maybe later. Hahahahaha!

The age old problem is man for thousands of years has allowed women to lead them around by their d1ck. Women love this sh1t, it gives them the power to control the relationship, the money and even the dynamic of revenge. All she has to do, is wiggle it once at most guys friends, or neighbors and instant karma or satisfaction cause you guy have been screwed, not in the right sense, but the gotcha sense.

Just pick any 2 pages, review the women and see how they revel in the power of the pvssy! How about the 3 blond barbies on this page alone, each says virtually the same thing, posed in their photo to excite, they purr "sure we can" or words to that effect.

Now don't get me wrong, I've done some stupid sh1t to get a woman into bed. At some point I learned, at least to me, if your being led around by your d1ck, by a woman, your gonna get screwed and I ain't talking laid.

So reread this thread, remember it, next time she bats those baby blues at you, wonder is it REALLY for you, or just to get off or some other ulterior motive? As long as they look at this as power, please,please don't buy that bullsh1t about love their sellin.

There maybe times you'd be better off to use your hand, than to give them that power, or maybe you enjoy being ****ed at, or paying alimony, or for the kid who may not be yours.

Remember if she can get laid anytime she wants, she can probaly hang a paternity rap on you, while she leads you around by the d1ck.

just sayin...
 looknseek
Joined: 8/25/2010
Msg: 261
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Posted: 7/29/2011 10:01:55 PM
"Pretty much, we just walk into any bar and have our pick. but who wants sloppy 2nds"

^^^^^So a female finally had to go admit and tell the real truth.


As one female told me the other day, if a female is average in looks, attractive in looks, or pretty in looks with at least an average figure of how a woman SHOULD look, not being overweight, she can get laid anywhere, anytime.


But "she", and "they" NEVER go for the "average" male! Imagine that.

So they keep picking and choosing the above average, the rich and well to do, abusive, druggie, alcoholic jerks with egos as big as the houses they live in.........and that have a different female in their bed each week! I hear the SAME complaint of each female that communicates with me. Read their profiles.


This same one that touted a female could get laid anywhere, anytime, was complaining to me about her bodybuilder boyfriend that told her to get plastic surgery, so she said she left him and then got with the corporate jerk that told her she was a few pounds overweight, (which judgeing by her pics on her profile she wasn't overweight), so she then left him for the druggie with the four bedroom house, big new four wheel drive, and a HARLEY but she said the schmuck turned out to be MARRIED!!! Pretty typical examples of who they continually pick and choose.

Oh well......SHE did the picking.

These types of males are continually tradeing around the females. Kind of like the ole' merry-go-round.

Wonder how the sloppy seconds are working for ya???
 fnshrly
Joined: 1/13/2011
Msg: 264
Can women REALLY get laid whenever they want?
Posted: 8/14/2011 10:23:11 AM
Well I must be a real dog I havn't had any action
 redfox21
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 268
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Posted: 8/15/2011 5:45:18 AM
Yes but when they do it it is okay, when men do it we are players, pigs and womanizers.
 Dare to
Joined: 2/11/2009
Msg: 271
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Posted: 8/16/2011 2:11:56 AM
Yes... Because many men will fvck anything with a vagina if it's on offer.. So yep.. Nothing hard about finding a horny man to do the deed..... If that's what you want...

Can't say i'd be proud to be a guy who WOULD fvck anything just to get his c0ck wet.. Or the woman he has reduced to being a cum dumpster for his use...
 NSH71
Joined: 8/8/2011
Msg: 272
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Posted: 8/16/2011 9:22:18 AM
*Hand raises*...Um..um...I have to admit that it does seem that women can get laid whenever they want, at least in my city. The reason I say that is because I've seen some of the most atrocious, disgusted women, not only walking around with someone you would never guess she could pull, but has about 4-5 kids to boot. There seems to be a double standard with this: if a man is not on point(raggedy shoes, jacked up grill, badly in need of a haircut), he might as well make this a Blockbuster/Jergins weekend, whereas, a woman with chipped toenails, two toned hair(half colored, half grey), and a potbelly with stretchmarks can not only get laid when she wants, she can actually pencil it in. Just my observation.
 ForRumOnly
Joined: 3/16/2009
Msg: 275
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Posted: 8/17/2011 7:15:20 AM
No, they can't - at least not with me. They have to meet my minimum standards of attraction. I've turned down several propositions this summer, even if it meant no action at all for me.
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