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 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 64
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Post 1: Other than being a poor birth control protection method, is there any reason you would do this? As a woman on birth control, do you find it sexy or just the opposite, a turn off? I am talking about a trusting relationship. Where you know the woman is taking the pill.


Why include the issues of TRUST and BIRTH CONTROL if that's not what you are asking about?
 Dave of Indiana
Joined: 3/18/2009
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Posted: 1/17/2011 7:39:09 PM

Personally I didn't care for it. I like to feel the moment, not have the moment happen on me. I just didn't get it.


4ums: I have never understood this myself. The sensation of an orgasm inside of a woman is to amazing to loose on doing by hand outside. I wonder if this is a trend that first started in porn movies and now is the in thing.
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 66
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/17/2011 11:58:39 PM

I wonder if this is a trend that first started in porn movies and now is the in thing.


Are you serious? Really?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 67
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Posted: 1/18/2011 5:37:07 AM

I don't know about anyone else but mud wrestling with a man sounds pretty erotic...


The stuff they usually slop around in isn't real, like, Woodstock mud-slidin' mud. It looks more like latex wall paint, only brown, and a little more viscous, maybe the stuff ladies immerse themselves in at the spas. Bathed in latex as foreplay? Kinda fetishy, like clad in it, with metal buttons and buckles and sometimes spikes, with a protruding faux male member! Yikes!


If you people want to spray on the walls and ceiling while your at it that's fine go for it...


I think that's pretty much where latex belongs. lol


I prefer the explosion to happen joined as one... shrugs... mutual explosions well thats talent...


More fortuitous than by design, despite my best efforts, if that means simultaneously, lol, but I'm with you, totally, about the Waves cresting, breaking internally.
I'm mostly a free spirit, but joined truly as one, on the same "side", plane(s), reaching for mutual explosions, seems a rare, but wonderful, experience, and what defines true partnership.


guy in goo.


Well, there's goo, and then there's that other goo; not all goo is created equal. lol
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 68
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/19/2011 9:29:26 AM

I think that's pretty much where latex belongs. lol

It would take a hell of a shot to blast a condom onto the wall.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 69
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Posted: 1/19/2011 10:43:50 AM
^^^^^^ Lol, no, the paint! Latex paint!
But I'd rather fill a condom with helium and send it aloft than use it as an accoutrement for sex. I mean, I'll use them, but with the same relish with which I eat brussel sprouts and kale.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 1/19/2011 5:39:41 PM


I wonder if this is a trend that first started in porn movies and now is the in thing.


Are you serious? Really?

Really. It's called a money shot. Consumers of porn wanted to see the guy finishing so that there was no mistaking it as being faked... because otherwise he could stay inside and none of us would know if it was real or not. Kind of like 95%+ of female orgasms in porn probably aren't real.

I didn't read the first post so not entirely sure what it's about, but I can guess. Meh.. maybe I'll go and read it...


As a man that knows your SO is on birth control, is there anything you find sensual etc. about ejaculating on the woman? Other than being a poor birth control protection method, is there any reason you would do this?

As a woman on birth control, do you find it sexy or just the opposite, a turn off?

I am talking about a trusting relationship. Where you know the woman is taking the pill.

I can't answer from the male perspective because I'm not one.

As a woman on birthcontrol, and even when I wasn't, withdrawal can be fun. Keep it off my face and out of my hair and I'm ok with it going pretty much anywhere. Sometimes it's not done on purpose... sometimes it is.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 71
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Posted: 1/19/2011 5:57:43 PM

Kind of like 95%+ of female orgasms in porn probably aren't real.


Saw an interview of some porn star, a woman, think it was Jenna Haze, on tv last year. The one part I recall, when asked whether she faked her on-screen orgasms, was her answer that she O'd more than half the time, because it wasn't possible to have a dyk(s) inside you all day long without having some strong physical responses. Sounded reasonable to me. Whether those real O's coincided with the climaxes on screen was neither asked nor volunteered.


Sometimes it's not done on purpose... sometimes it is.


Just guessing, but probably those oopses are a real disappointment. lol
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 72
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Posted: 1/19/2011 6:23:43 PM

Really. It's called a money shot. Consumers of porn wanted to see the guy finishing so that there was no mistaking it as being faked... because otherwise he could stay inside and none of us would know if it was real or not. Kind of like 95%+ of female orgasms in porn probably aren't real.


Oh, I have no doubt, that is why it is done this way in the porn movies. But what I was responding to , when I asked the poster if he was serious, was his statement that cumming this was was a trend, and porn is where it started. C'mon. This is not something new. I am sure men have been squirting elsewhere, other than inside the woman, looonnnnggg before porn, or tv existed. ;)
 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 73
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/19/2011 9:33:08 PM

C'mon. This is not something new. I am sure men have been squirting elsewhere, other than inside the woman, looonnnnggg before porn, or tv existed. ;)


[*** Insert one liner here ***]
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 1/20/2011 7:56:08 AM
and they are notorious for their "editing" abilities.....making the money shot
last far longer and have more volume than any normal man could produce.

But I still love the real life version
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/20/2011 1:45:33 PM
Wait now..some of us don't need 'editing' for volume..
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 78
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/20/2011 2:07:12 PM

The underwear section of the JC Penny's catalogs was one of my favorite targets.


I knew there was a reason those pages were always stuck together. I grew up with a bunch of brothers, lol.

and Pingshooter...

 happybunny8
Joined: 4/16/2010
Msg: 79
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/20/2011 4:15:14 PM
I just find it amazing how some men do not trust women to take the pill, yet will not wear a condom and then think that the withdrawal method is safe?

Sheesh.

And yes, variety is fun.
 dare2c4yourself
Joined: 11/9/2010
Msg: 80
Man withdrawling to ejaculate on you.
Posted: 1/20/2011 4:20:31 PM
I agree it's most a porn thing, visual, to glorify the man's orgasm but it's a lousy way to ejaculate unless I am made to ejaculate that way, with her hands, between the breasts, something my partner is okay with. That's me, then if someone is turned on by it, that's your thing, what can I say.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 1/22/2011 1:42:08 AM
I would NEVER tolerate this. Sometimes the best part of sex is feeling that hot ejaculation inside the vaginal. I can't get pregnant. I think it is disrespectful and sloppy and messy, for a man to ejaculate ON the woman on the outside. If people are using this unrealiable method for birth control, the man could at least ejact in a towel or something. This a stupid method for birth control. If birth control is the issue, use a comdon. I heard Catholics don't approve of birth control, and use this method, but this disrespectful method for birth control , is actually birth control to the ill informed.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
Msg: 82
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Posted: 1/22/2011 2:00:14 AM
^^^Calm down Cat*Eyes, nobody here is going to hose you down. How's that oral sex phobia going? Has anybody talked you into a good old 69 yet?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 83
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Posted: 1/22/2011 4:20:02 AM

Has anybody talked you into a good old 69 yet?


Highly unlikely, Lion; CE is one of those, kinda like by ex-wife, who just transmits, never receives. But she does urinate in public, at least on these forums- check out the thread about the Creepy Guy who masturbates through walls.
 Cat*Eyes
Joined: 9/13/2006
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Posted: 1/22/2011 4:38:22 AM
Secondhand Lion, no one is going to talked me into "oral." The thought of that makes me gag.
Secondhand Lion, the "Secondhand" in your user name makes me laugh, because I think, with humor of what you use your "Secondhand" for. When you have threesomes, you use your second hand and your first hand on yourself.
Secondhand Lion, you always disrupt a forum and get off subject just to be critical in regards to me.
I do remember a post where you replied about the females , that you have been with, that spoke in a different language than you, and the language you were referring to was BAH BAH, as in sheep. / I hope you did not engage in so called oral sex with them.
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/22/2011 6:30:41 AM

________(fill in a name) you always disrupt a forum and get off subject just to be critical in regards to me.


Relax..anytime someone disagrees with you, you cry foul, "you're picking on me"..if you are not old enough to realize you bring on your own problems..it's a pity.

We know you have a sense of humor, we can see that in your profile pictures. Have you found Conan the Barbarian yet? Apply that humor to some of the posts made by people. Okay?
 AintNoDeal
Joined: 2/3/2010
Msg: 86
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Posted: 1/22/2011 10:15:30 AM

and the language you were referring to was BAH BAH, as in sheep. / I hope you did not engage in so called oral sex with them.


Wondering if it's OK to ejaculate outside the sheep into their wool, or if it's more appropriate to ejaculate inside, since pregnancy is not an issue. Guessing oral is out, but again, that's just a guess....
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 1/22/2011 3:00:42 PM

Wondering if it's OK to ejaculate outside the sheep into their wool


Definitely a Conan moment..WWCD? hhhmmm
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 88
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Posted: 2/6/2011 8:14:13 AM

I would NEVER tolerate this. Sometimes the best part of sex is feeling that hot ejaculation inside the vaginal. I can't get pregnant. I think it is disrespectful and sloppy and messy, for a man to ejaculate ON the woman on the outside.

Comments such as this really do make me wonder all sorts of things. You don't mind it being inside of you ~ were it is going to stick around for a while, become odoriferous, and has the potential to give you some pretty serious crawlies, but you don't want it on the outside where it can be immediately and effectively wiped clean in a matter of a second? At least on the outside, it leaves the inside clean for round two, three, four or six. Good sex is messy ~ great sex is flat out dirty.

If people are using this unrealiable method for birth control, the man could at least ejact in a towel or something.

There is a real live woman there ~ why on earth would a man need or want to use a towel? He could do that all by himself without worrying about someone being creeped out that he has sperm that may land on her skin.

This a stupid method for birth control. If birth control is the issue, use a comdon. I heard Catholics don't approve of birth control, and use this method, but this disrespectful method for birth control , is actually birth control to the ill informed.

Yes, it's a ridiculous birth control method.

 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 89
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Posted: 2/6/2011 8:48:33 AM
Comments such as this really do make me wonder all sorts of things. You don't mind it being inside of you ~ were it is going to stick around for a while, become odoriferous, and has the potential to give you some pretty serious crawlies, but you don't want it on the outside where it can be immediately and effectively wiped clean in a matter of a second?

Note to self... Stop reading forum the while having breakfast...

Good sex is messy ~ great sex is flat out dirty.

And is most enjoyable on an empty stomach...
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 90
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Posted: 2/6/2011 11:07:29 AM

And is most enjoyable on an empty stomach...

You mean to tell me you don't like raw, sweaty, body fluids here and there sex?
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