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 Mister0Independent
Joined: 7/2/2017
Msg: 276
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If men were intended to have small harems, sexual birth ratios would be 1 t0 2 or 1 to 2.5 or higher.


In those cultures where men marry multiple women it's usually because men died in war; hence, a lack of men and a surplus of women with children who needed to be provided for.
 spanking_dolphin
Joined: 8/10/2017
Msg: 277
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/17/2017 8:18:13 AM
I hope op reads this.. but here goes. What stops a man from cheating? Nothing. We got nothing to slow us up.. so what it comes down to is how valuable you become to him. If your the greatest woman he's ever known- meaning you learn the skills necessary to keep him around, then he's less likely to cheat and even then, there is no guarentee because he's human. Women gotta get this idea of "cheating" out of their heads. He doesnt own your body and you dont own his. Your free to do what you like with it as is he, so if you dont want him to go be with other women he wouldnt give a shit about emotionally anyways, be better than just pu$$y, because thats all they would be to him anyways. Privates are expendable ****s. You want to be a general in his army or a partner in his corporation. No guy cares about the mailroom hoe- which is no disrespecf but thats where you all start off until you sell to him the idea that you are more than that and he gives you a promotion.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 8/17/2017 8:26:01 AM

I hope op reads this.. but here goes.

An OP that is no longer here and made this post in 2011? Doubtful.

*you're
 Inicia
Joined: 4/12/2015
Msg: 279
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 5:03:46 AM
And cheating is a women's issue. too funny how many men I have heard crying in their beer or over their eggs about the woman they love cheating , many love songs lamenting about women's cheating hearts and black souls~ songs r&R R&b C/W just too many.
 forumfishonly
Joined: 8/6/2017
Msg: 280
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 6:21:18 AM
Lorena Bobbitt had the only sure way to stop a man from cheating, but then Johnny found his dinky in a ditch to reattach it. :D
 junipermusk
Joined: 3/20/2016
Msg: 281
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 7:48:13 AM
Ummmm women are the new Michael Jordans of cheating. I'm starting to wonder if they always were.
 junipermusk
Joined: 3/20/2016
Msg: 282
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 7:50:04 AM
Also—IGNORE HIS ASS AND PLAY HARD TO GET.
These days I'm hearing women are having to beg their men for sex. Then some other guy says: I can fill in.
He does, then repeats the same pattern as their last men.
People don't appear to possess the self awareness required to make rational decisions...
 ThePigOfYourDreams
Joined: 6/30/2017
Msg: 283
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 8:34:32 AM

Lorena Bobbitt had the only sure way to stop a man from cheating, but then Johnny found his dinky in a ditch to reattach it. :D


I've always wondered if there are any stories involving a woman having her genitals mutilated by a man that are considered acceptable to joke about.
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 8/19/2017 3:11:51 PM


I've always wondered if there are any stories involving a woman having her genitals mutilated by a man that are considered acceptable to joke about.


None that I ever heard of. Everytime I've heard of something like that, It's usually met with people cringing, making faces. And wishing the perpetrator would get life in front of a firing squad.
 NewYorker58
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 8/19/2017 3:34:52 PM
Nope, genital mutilation isn't funny. They do that to women in the middle east and Aftica. After a bad breakup, men and women may wish their partner's genitals would shrivel up ☺ but it's different to facilitate mutilation.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 286
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/19/2017 5:45:32 PM
I can't remember if I've commented on this already or not.
Oh, well.
What stops a man from cheating?

He does. The end.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 287
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/20/2017 12:55:30 PM
lol forums.
Gor the hell of it Ima play devils advocate
Wanna stop a man from cheating?
Up your game and learn to recycle
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 288
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Posted: 8/20/2017 1:05:12 PM
RenissanceMan68- Lol :D
I tried recycling once. Damn near got arrested by the recycling police. Couldn't get it straight which ones belonged in which bin. :D ;)
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 289
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/20/2017 1:30:31 PM
Hahaha
Yeah ya dont wanna start throwing things where they dont belong...or maybe...
Ive always said-as a joke- if I ever married, Id buy my wife a dozen wigs and corresponding outfits.
Conversely, you never know who IM gonna be. I might come home... dressed as a plumber...looking to lay some pipe and check your system. Who knows.
As Chris Rock said on this...if it aint new its through lol
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 8/20/2017 2:21:58 PM
That's a good way of thinking RM. Variety is the spice of life, as the saying goes.
 RenissanceMan68
Joined: 12/3/2016
Msg: 291
What stops a man from cheating?
Posted: 8/20/2017 3:37:30 PM
Thanks NY..
hey... wanna wade a lil deeper into the water with me?

I was kinda wondering if ANYONE (male especially) saw this as a kinda...one sided question.
Why not ask this for women? Why not just say 'people' in general?
Well... I DONT think its 'sexist' to focus on and target men. Thats not to say its NOT a valid discussion for women... I just think its worth looking at the sexes differently HERE... because IMHO, GENERALLY SPEAKING, women and men cheat... for DIFFERENT REASONS.
Women...I think...I dunno Im hypothesizing based on a number of things... cheat due to neglect.
Men, on the other hand, GENERALLY tend to cheat...
From...boredom.
And opportunity.
So lets look at men!
As I suggested earlier? I really think recycling is a good idea.
The reason is...well...to me...a lil complex. Insomuch as we now gotta be...brutally honest.
Sigh... see...its kinda the responsibility for the woman to take control and responsibility here. I say to MYSELF "are you kidding me?"!!
Its not like women, esp in a relationship, dont have enough shit to carry? Yeah... but. But, heres the thing. Sex. Im again gonna generalize but the guy is the one who we expect, and many women want...to be the one in the drivers seat. But in REALITY? DEEP DOWN? We all know...we men are not. We NEVER wanna touch this lil reality and women dont either, but...its the real underlying truth. YOU are what drives our motors. How 'awesome' sex is between two people? Oh its a mutual accomplishment, but REALLY? it comes down to you women.

Heres an analogy that I hope illustrates what I mean, as well lead to the second reason I mentioned.
Women are houses. Men are homeless vagabonds with no shelter. IF we are lucky we find a HOME that WELCOMES us in. No matter how much we like or want a house, and no matter what we bid or offer, its ultimately up to that house to decide who gets to reside there.
Ive seen guys who had fantastic homes they loved...walk right into another house.
They...cheated.
But why? With such a nice house?!?
Well... inside and out? That house he came to every day? He started taking itt for granted. Like being sick, he forgot what it was like to be homeless...and got USED to coming to the same 'old house' day in, day out. Come 'home' to have to fix a pipe or cut the lawn...actually WORK to maintain that which he fogot how liucky he was to have. That home? never changed. Same furnature in the 'same position' (get it? lol)...same smells, same sounds, same meals, same wallpaper, same paint. All that house really needed...was a reno!
hahaha sorry I do renos. My co-beast is an ole tome homie, and we have been messing with the idea of being body renovators as we both come from a fitness background and me with my bootcamp shit. But heres why I bring that up: Body renos. That may mean getting back in shape. Or hahaha a simple wig or maids outfit lol
But even moreso? INNER renos. Sorry to burden you even more, but its still good for you as a woman to reinvent yourself.
Reno your intellect. Ha. wait til he hardly gets to get in his house for awhile because youre expanding youyr brain at night school and passing on what youre learning by communicating shit with your man. reno your inner passion...for YOURSELF. He will only see at best what you see in yourself. do your job. Manipulate him. Yeah you heard me right! Dictionary definition says that means "artfully manage"!
As Chris Rock said...recyle the pus$y!

Wanna know why? Because if you dont...he will stray. when? when hes given opportunity. See, he will be coming home to what seems like a sweeet home...but to him its the same ole same ole. he sees ANOTHER HOUSE...hell, not even as nice as his present gome...BUT...it INVITES him with an open door. And its raining out. Why not pop in? And when he does? A completely new home. Not even as nice, but...new...different. And this home? Keeps switching up the decor. And the idea of being allowed to sneak into another home? Compelling. This is why I tell men...just because you CAN do something, does it mean you should!!

Sorry that was so long!
One last thing?
What stops a man from cheating?
A tight TIGHT wedding band on his finger!
It will cut off his circulation!!
Bahahahahahahaha

Bye!
Im off to ribfest... Im finally off my diet schedule and can eat like a pig!!!
 NewYorker58
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Posted: 8/20/2017 6:57:20 PM
I can't speak to why women cheat, since I'd never do it, even after being cheated on; I just move on. I'll be dating soon enough, why stop to cheat even as a way to get back at the person? None of my friends were cheaters, to my knowledge. I can only imagine they are similar reasons to why men cheat, which would be that they are being ignored, they are bored with sex with the same person, someone shows interest in them when they are at a low point and who knows what else may be an excuse. It is one of the most hurtful things a person can do to their significant other. I could never imagine hurting someone that way.

(RM, I had the best ribs ever while in TX during a short trip to fly my dog there for surgery. They did that long smoking for half a day. It was a huge meal, but I had to repeat it the next day since I was flying home. Ribs are not bad, it's that sugary barbecue sauce that goes on them, but the ones I had in Texas were so good that they didn't even need sauce, they probably had a rub on them and had all of that smoky flavor. If I was a big meat eater, I would get a smoker. I do some excellent ribs using the oven and bbq together. I could really go for ribs now!)
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 293
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Posted: 8/20/2017 7:06:18 PM
It's interesting that ribs, and blues, can be regional. But its probably a coincidence. Some states do rubs, some put ketchup in their sauce, some tangy, some sweet...I'll take anything but spicy. My father a long time ago had found a Jamaican place that put Scotch Bonnets in its rib sauce. Ouch! I don't want to be punished for my eating habits.

I've had housewives hit on me. They typically blamed the old man for it. He just wasn't giving them the *something*. But the real reason they did it, was they could rationalize it. They could look at themselves in the mirror and say it wasn't them who was responsible. They felt they couldn't change the situation--they couldn't afford to leave, or the kids were somehow an anchor, or there was some other reason they couldn't change the situation for the better. However it was, they weren't to blame.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
Msg: 294
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Posted: 8/20/2017 7:36:27 PM
RM, reasons for cheating, IMO, are not gender specific.
Some people cheat that are serial cheaters, they can't be faithful to save their lives.
Some do it for revenge, others out of boredom, out of escape, some because the opportunity arises, as you said. Some because they aren't satisfied, at home.
The reasons are plentiful.
I could never do it and live with myself. No man is ever going to have to worry about that issue, with me. If it gets that bad, I'll leave.
 IBup4it
Joined: 6/15/2017
Msg: 295
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Posted: 8/21/2017 12:56:18 PM
It's easy knowledge first of all is key you acknowledge the problem to yourself next you take steps to protect yourself from being susceptible to doing it. Minimize contact with person you have attraction too is a good start. Distract yourself to what is good and healthy your partner, don't give room to think about the person focus more on other things other than them. If you have a strong relationship you're more immune to outside influences, if you get a thought to stray re-invest more time into the relationship and make it more stable.

It's normal to find attraction with others but it's up to the person who has feelings of straying to identify the problem and take steps to prevent it. Cheating can be debated and re-debated but it's a complex problem not just one thing causes it, as such there is no one cure fits all to each and every person.
 The_Pearl
Joined: 2/7/2017
Msg: 296
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Posted: 8/23/2017 8:19:08 AM
I think in most cases it comes down to morals and integrity...I tend to believe "once a cheater...always a cheater".
If a person is unhappy or not satisfied they will be looking for an out.....I thought about it all the time in my first marriage.
But in my case, I left....instead of cheating.
When I was happy with my partner....never crossed my mind.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 8/27/2017 4:05:00 AM

What stops a man from cheating?


Porn...lots of it!
 Dinno76
Joined: 11/2/2017
Msg: 298
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Posted: 11/14/2017 4:54:39 PM
what stops a man from cheating ? women telling him no.
 Cynderella
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Posted: 11/14/2017 5:50:33 PM
1. Castration
2. The little red pill (not blue)
3. Too much sex at home
4. Don't let him outta his cage

There is nothing that can or
will stop a man from cheating
if he is set on it.
You can only trust and hope he
won't.
Bottom line... it's all in his hands
or pants.
 Kj521
Joined: 11/16/2016
Msg: 300
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Posted: 11/14/2017 6:34:22 PM
What stops a man from cheating?


How he defines a man.
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