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 Lionesse19
Joined: 3/30/2012
Msg: 31
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I agree, what is it with all the texting? I would not find that a turn on at all. I need to hear a voice at the very least. But then I am of the older generation. All too robotic for me. I would not sext with anyone I had serious intentions of meeting until I knew who I was actually dealing with. Dont get it.
 Brand_X73
Joined: 7/11/2012
Msg: 32
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Posted: 7/27/2012 1:36:21 AM
I say no, but I have never really gotten the whole sexting thing anyway. If it's just flirty stuff, I guess I would be fine with that, but it's the pix that are never a good idea as far as I'm concerned. imo always to be avoided unless you are in a serious LTR. So if the FWB thing is what you are looking for, and it's not clear to me how well you know this girl, honestly I would, lets say, set some tight boundaries on it. Not much to be gained, imo.
 larissan04
Joined: 8/11/2011
Msg: 33
phone sex/sexting before meeting someone
Posted: 7/30/2012 1:38:36 PM
Ted 61

yes, there may be SOME women that do this, but the VAST majority of women are not built this way. MOST women are looking for love and a real relationship, and a large number of the women that agree to the bs fwb are only going alongwith it because they are hoping, praying, and wishing that the relationship would become a serious relationship. if you don't believe me, go read all the broken hearted forum posts from women who are "in love" with their fwb, and feeling heart broken. if you think for one minute that this sort of relationship suits the average woman, then you a) don't understand women, and b) are looking at female sexuality through the prism of male sexuality.

...and as far as your male escort comment goes... uh, i am sure there are some women out there that have used male escorts... but i would opine that the number of men that use prostitutes, go to massage parlours, frequent strip clubs far exceeds the number of women who use male escorts. the typical, average women is just not built this way, and if you don't believe me, well, then i guess you'll find out the hard way next time your fwb blows up into big drama because she wanted more from the relationship and ends up feeling hurt and used.
 Jenneee
Joined: 4/5/2012
Msg: 34
phone sex/sexting before meeting someone
Posted: 8/14/2012 7:32:42 AM
Wow. I thought I thought that only men texed dirty. Personally, I don't get it.
 _shakti_
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 35
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Posted: 8/14/2012 2:28:26 PM
Some people prefer fantasy to reality..
 valerie555
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 36
phone sex/sexting before meeting someone
Posted: 8/14/2012 9:39:46 PM
Spot on - Abelian. I agree with you.
 Oncetwice57
Joined: 7/4/2012
Msg: 37
phone sex/sexting before meeting someone
Posted: 8/15/2012 3:54:09 AM
Ive had some woman ask me about what I like....as for actual sexting thing.....waste of time unless your some snot nosed kid who as most do dont know how to communicate without a keyboard...pretty sad!
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 38
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Posted: 8/15/2012 4:48:26 AM
personally, i never start talking about sex,every woman i have chatted with does
yes it important to me
sex that is
and it will be very impoertant to any woman i have anything to do with
nothing against people that do not place much importance on it
but they are just not interesting to me
i have had two long term relationships ,both great
but one was very sexual, the second was good too
but sex trumps anything else
so yes, i respond to everything sexual, pictures fantasies and so on
 buckintenn
Joined: 7/8/2012
Msg: 39
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Posted: 1/1/2013 11:31:28 PM
It's a fluid situation. If you're uncomfortable with what sexting could result in then you shouldn't do it. Sexting flirting and steps are best when desire meets communication. :)
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