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 AquanGold
Joined: 11/22/2010
Msg: 10
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Tough question. I wouldn`t want to experience a lover,who has no clue what to do!
If your BF doesn`t know "X" marks the spot and isn`t able to please you orally, than its really hard to lead him to the finish line.
For a man, not to want to tease and please you orally, than, i would have to question how sexual this person really is,and how good a lover he is for you!If a man doesn`t realize your motor needs to be jump started orally so that it purrs,not much to say or tell him. It does appear he`s either scared or selfish... Either way, its not fun for you!
 wantn2playwitu
Joined: 9/10/2008
Msg: 11
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Posted: 4/18/2011 3:23:31 PM
If he doesn't worship your **** with his tongue then he may be a closet homo

The amount of texts I have had 30mins to an hour out from knock off from work saying, "my kitten is smooth and needs a lashing" OR "simba is waiting to be eaten" haha

That used to give me an instant bar!

OR my personal favourite was when I worked afternoon shift, I would hide her favourite vibe or better yet leave it there but take the battery pack out They were even funnier and dirtier texts

Anyways I would leave work sick at a moments notice if there was "desert" on offer ;)
 jasonsgt
Joined: 1/30/2011
Msg: 12
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Posted: 4/22/2011 7:48:59 PM
If he hasnt already went down on his own, then theres probally something about it he doesnt like, or he wasnt sure how you'd react so he decided not to take the chance. Maybe he thought about it before, but an odor turned him off. Maybe he was turned off by its appearance. Who knows but if everythings looking and smelling fine, Id dive right in!
Id just ask his opinion of performing/recieving oral sex and that will open the door for more questions.
 Halcyon_Skies
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 13
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Posted: 4/22/2011 10:18:08 PM

If you need to ask him to go downtown you need another boyfriend.


Absolutely---and a good place to start would be to look for one with the number 69 at the end of his username. There are plenty of those in the pond.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 4/23/2011 5:59:36 PM

Aye but the central point is not the nipple or the anus. The orgasm would usually come from the clitoris in the case of both unless the anal is angled well.


I absolutely love it when a man tells me about my orgasms!
Some of us women are lucky enough to have more that just the 2 orgasms you speak of......and even luckier to have had men in our lives that know about more than these 2!

btw......Men can have more than 1 type of orgasm. The prostate can be stimulated
and bring a man to orgasm without ever touching his penis!
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 15
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Posted: 4/23/2011 8:42:43 PM

This is true... a good NY Cheesecake almost had me going once, but a slight drool is all I could muster in public. Get me behind closed doors though... lookout!


I felt the same way about the Black Raspberry Cobbler I made today!
 jblack187
Joined: 8/28/2010
Msg: 16
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Posted: 4/27/2011 7:23:36 PM
Quid-pro-quo

Tell him that if he does it for you, you'll do it for him. Or you'll do something else for him that he really wants. Learn to deep throat, you'll be able to get whatever you want then
 jblack187
Joined: 8/28/2010
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Posted: 4/27/2011 8:31:31 PM
"I totally disagree w/quid pro quo, btw. Sex isn't about "you only get what I get". Sex is about mutual pleasure, and giving your partner the best sex you can."

Hey, I'm with you there. But some people might need a little extra motivation to get things done is all I'm saying.
 wayfarer4you
Joined: 3/24/2009
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Posted: 5/2/2011 1:10:52 PM
Op. heres the way to get what you want/need act as if you are going to go mouth to the south and look up all sexie like and remind him that this act your about to do needs to be done to you first and then he gets his ! and if he's not willing then I do believe its time to go on strike ,or a good donkey punch? whatever you feel is best !!!J.m.O '
 jaybird1921
Joined: 10/11/2006
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Posted: 5/2/2011 7:43:41 PM
Sweetie, he speaks only for himself. Can't believe a man would enjoy it.
Don't think you can enjoy an orgasm better than the old fashion way. A little oral helps. MMMM
 Trat18
Joined: 1/3/2011
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Posted: 6/15/2011 11:23:02 AM
Put taco seasoning on your pooter
 MisterEd0950
Joined: 4/19/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 6/15/2011 11:45:59 AM
I guess I may be a little selfish when it comes to oral sex. I enjoy receiving it a lot more than I do giving it. I love it when its spontaneous and not rushed. The ultimate for me is when its done with the possibility of others watching.
 Cadillac D
Joined: 1/14/2010
Msg: 22
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Posted: 6/16/2011 4:13:52 PM
how about you go down on him till he has an orgasm and then tell him he need to return that favor
 whileiwait
Joined: 6/23/2011
Msg: 23
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Posted: 7/28/2011 4:09:17 PM
I would say lots of moaning screaming and grinding you're peach in his face will make him hott enouh to stay down and finish the job ... know it works for me
 bigdck4u
Joined: 7/25/2011
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/28/2011 7:15:47 PM
well i love going down on a woman after we both get out of the shower nice and clean and are driping wet. I will throw her on the bed and devour her clit then stick my tongue deep inside her. Always tastes so sweet and the shower for to is amazing forplay
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/30/2011 6:23:23 AM
He hasnt done it yet? dump him
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Posted: 8/5/2011 12:48:49 PM
34.... and you have no idea how to ask him.....wow
that is funny....!
ask!
 biganthick46
Joined: 4/12/2011
Msg: 27
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Posted: 8/6/2011 12:01:09 AM
i love a women to let me go down on her and tell me when i am doing it right and i love to make them beg me to stop
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 8/7/2011 9:36:37 AM
^^^ sorry..can't help it.. ^^^
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