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 HappyRocker
Joined: 8/13/2011
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ATM Machine ... heh heh ... Good one!
 crustyold
Joined: 4/25/2011
Msg: 27
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Posted: 9/19/2011 4:18:05 AM
think i have been on this one before


answer still the same.......nothing

you are out together, thats what its about, & having the exit sign in sight, just in case
 HappyRocker
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Posted: 9/20/2011 4:56:28 AM
Everything dies ... If "the departed" is a relationship the trick is not to be the last one to hear about it.
 Jewel_Of_Denial
Joined: 8/9/2011
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Posted: 10/1/2011 11:58:46 AM
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 HappyRocker
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Posted: 10/2/2011 3:19:23 AM

Cupcake_Warrior on 10/1/2011 746 PM
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(in reverse order of course) .


So THAT is whyI'm not impressing the girls! I don't have a Platinum Credit Card.
 dboot407
Joined: 8/3/2011
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Posted: 10/3/2011 1:49:34 AM
I have read this forum with interest and I am about to make myself unpopular with some of the guys here,, Have a read of what some of you have written and ask yourselves whether if you met a woman with so many negative thoughts,,, would you want to go out with them and form a relationship.
The ladies here have offered some really good advice,
Be yourself,,, That.s all you have to do,,

Try opening a door,, that cost nothing
A $5 bunch of flowers does as much as a more expensive arrangement
Pack a picnic lunch, bottle of wine (don't forget the glasses), blanket and find a river, park or the local botanical gardens and spend time talking and getting to know them , It is a hell of a lot cheaper than dinner for 2 at Silks

Then if you like what you find out about the person you have met, maybe you will know whether they are there for you or your wallet.

if I analyse the times that I have done exactly what you are saying you have done,, the gifts and the help ect ect , it has been me that has willingly given and only once was i asked for money in a deliberate attempt to rip me off, i gave it willingly and my solicitor got it back with costs, so I have had to learn my lessons as well.

It means i gave it to the wrong person, it does not mean i stop giving
 lok
Joined: 7/6/2006
Msg: 32
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Posted: 10/4/2011 12:11:10 AM

"What Does it Take to impress a Girl?"


Everything i dont have!!!!
 Russ87_
Joined: 8/31/2011
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Posted: 10/10/2011 3:55:38 PM
there are alot of ways to impress a girl, it depends on the girl and the situation you are in, what you are trying to do is one of the way to impress a girl, i mean make her feel like you care about her. So dont feel like you did something wrong, its just, she is not the one what you are looking for.
its not that she doesn't deserve you, its just she is not ready for what you were expecting (girlfriend-relationship)
i can clearly see that she is still at playmate stage, (some girls does that, not only girls, boys as well, they are actually not ready for a relationship, but on the other hand, they dont wanna be a single, so what they do is, keep one person as a boy friend- GF , while keep searching for better one, or more or for something special , like something maybe more serious, i duno, but thats how its, Im sorry.
 Lyxe
Joined: 5/7/2011
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Posted: 10/10/2011 4:02:28 PM
That is one of the world's mysteries!....
It would be nice to know what really impress us girls in general...not all ladies think and are made equal...we all have different expectations and needs that a partner or prospect may be able to demonstrate when we date...this has nothing to do with money...property...how handsome you are or how timid...it does not matter if you are well equipped physically or not...
To impress a girl...you must fill the incomplete puzzle and create a beautiful masterpiece together...you balance and support each other...Be genuine...you'll find its easier than you think. Sometimes you can impress someone without even knowing. Happy fishing!
I'm still a single Siren! :)
 Frau Chilliknickers
Joined: 12/5/2008
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Posted: 10/15/2011 12:23:14 AM
What would I find impressive? Farting in tune to My Sharona. Apart from that being mute works.
 tie_me_up81
Joined: 3/30/2010
Msg: 36
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Posted: 10/15/2011 4:48:19 AM

What Does it Take to impress a Girl?


Be someone better than they are as for offering something better than them. That seems to be the way in many cases these days, unfortunately.
 Pete2205
Joined: 3/18/2011
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Posted: 10/20/2011 3:31:04 AM
I have yet to meet a girl who does not value some old fashioned romance ..Your first date should always be with a rose in hand. Yes if it pees down with rain then stick your coat over her,. If you go into a restaurant or bar open and hold the door open for her.

Most of the time if its a first date she is as nervous as you are but relax, dont hog the conversation . If she has mailed you a few times and told you her likes and dislikes then be interested enough to discuss them. Don't assume anything, you dont need to over impress - If you try to be something your not then when the real you emerges will only lower her opinion of you and make you look silly.

One girl has said that every one is different, no two guys are the same and no two girls are the same. Everyone has different wants, desires and ideas about a relationship.

There is no guarantee that whoever you date wont ever cheat on you (There are I suspect more than a few married people on this site) But If you are having a great time with the girl and she seems happy then why would she ?

Don't worry if she dont text you or call you 10 times a day, dont even worry if she looks at another guy when shes out with you - WE ALL look but it dont mean were about to go ask for their number.

Don't go into a relationship 90 miles an hour - Get to know the person first. A relationship isn't a sprint its a bloody marathon and if it ends up long term then great. If it doesn't than take the experience put it in a box and leave it behind - Everyone we meet has an effect on us and we take that learning forward.

We all fall in love, we all get hurt and we all experience the highs and lows in a relationship. If you cant date someone without realising that then dont date>
 jypsee_soul
Joined: 10/14/2011
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Posted: 10/20/2011 7:17:25 PM
Well my friend,

Take it from me...you don't want to be too nice. It seems sad to say, but woman
always want what they can't have. If you are a bit indifferent..they love the
challenge. Take it from a former ****. I don't know your age, but i know that
the younger girls like a challange....and anyone who is too nice...will always be
around..in their minds. But even an average guy..who has self confidence, and a
bit of****ness....is a bit of an intrigue. She is wondering....how can HE possibly
not like me???

But if you are older.....drop these pretentious ****es. You know your worthiness,
and unless you want to play games the rest of your life....you will find a girl who is
looking for you!! Self conficence is the number one attraction. Be patient, and
look indifferent. Dont get too excited..and she will chase you...If she doesn't..
consider yourself spared/.
 melty1
Joined: 1/15/2009
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Posted: 10/25/2011 3:07:44 AM
Gee! I wish someone would spoilt me!

I got a bunch of spring onions once. I guess thats as good as it gets!
 tie_me_up81
Joined: 3/30/2010
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Posted: 10/28/2011 3:02:47 AM

It just simply doesn't matter what it takes too impress a girl, there all different !! but there is ONE thing that is the same with the lot of 'em

what ever impress's them today will completely change tomorrow.

you could bring home a crocodile head that you sawed of with a oyster shell after killing it with your bare hands and she might fall over with her nickers in the air
and the next day she would call you a brutus !!


Haha there is an element of truth in this when speaking of many women. Especially the ones in dating sites as they are likely to be more picky than others as any woman can easily get attention from men in the real world.

The problem I see often is that many women expect men to offer something mind blowing while these women think they don’t have to themselves. They believe just being a woman is all they need to do while the man is expected to offer something above the norm.

I really wish many women looked in the mirror more when they reject the average guy.
 tie_me_up81
Joined: 3/30/2010
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Posted: 10/28/2011 3:09:45 AM
As OK Cupid has demonstrated, women rate 80 percent of men below average.

http://blog..com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/

It cannot be stressed enough that female dating advice is aimed at ALPHAS and concerns how women wish ALPHAS would behave. It isn’t aimed at the majority of men, because to women, the majority of men simply don’t figure into their calculations at all. As OK Cupid has demonstrated, women rate 80 percent of men below average.

“Females of , we site founders say to you: ouch! Paradoxically, it seems it’s women, not men, who have unrealistic standards for the “average” member of the opposite sex.”

This is why all of the myths so cherished by deltas and gammas are precisely that, myths. Women aren’t attracted to a man who is a gentleman, they are attracted to an Alpha and they would like him to behave like a gentleman.
 The_Grey_Fringe
Joined: 11/11/2011
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Posted: 11/15/2011 4:21:01 AM
Steer clear of love is my advice!! Love it too heavy, it's an anchor that drowns a man!!
 Hilly02
Joined: 10/7/2011
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Posted: 11/15/2011 4:31:10 AM
I have to agree....the Alpha will get the girl everytime......and if he is a kind, sweet Alpha...its a done deal in my book
 The_Grey_Fringe
Joined: 11/11/2011
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Posted: 11/16/2011 3:08:56 AM
Come on Hilly, surely you girls have realised the Alpha may look good and sweet talk but deep down he is always a jerk, who just wants to lay you then move on to the next girl!! The lovey dovey kind sweet alpha is a fairytale aimed at keeping the majority of men sexless!! I'm sure it's some kind of conspiricy!!
 ladyleopard
Joined: 11/12/2011
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Posted: 11/16/2011 12:36:35 PM
Ah...this is a compicated question with no easy one-size-fits-all answer.

The easiest (and best) advice is, just be yourself. A gift for a birthday or for Christmas is awesome....but you don't need to go overboard or bend over backwards.

And yes, we females are complicated. If someone ever manages to write a manual analyzing what makes us tick, they'll make a mint! But it sounds like she just wasn't the right one for you....besides....if she felt the need to cheat on you, she wasn't worth your time, effort or attention anyway!

There are a lot of fish in the sea...just keep casting the line until you find the right one for you!

-L.
 usernameme2
Joined: 9/13/2011
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Posted: 11/25/2011 12:54:01 AM
i am starting to believe this one too .. am the nicest guy .. u get nowhere . money talks i think .. they want to know they can stop work and u will support em forever ..
i work 2 decent jobs , have time to spend .. am genunely nice ..
i have had one date turn up with the mother , another stand me up , and thats all so far .. i dont think the gals are genuinely serious .. just cause we aint spending a bundle on other sites .. mmm and barely get a response from ones when i do send a msg .. lol. must just be me .. or u cant contact them even though u really think u match what they are sort of looking for .. u just cant win .. well i cant ..
 gingerosity
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Posted: 12/16/2011 4:51:03 AM
Guys, guys, guys. You've turned yourselves all upside-down and inside-out!

'What Does it Take to impress a Girl?' The answer of course is always more than you can produce, or else it wouldn't be much of a test would it? So what do you do? Change the question.

'What Does it Take to impress a WOMAN?' Completely different question, with a completely different (and paradoxical) answer. With an emotionally mature woman, you must NOT try to impress her. If you do nothing out of the ordinary to impress her, and you are still nice because you are a genuinely nice person, then that will impress her. You must gradually develop yourself into a complete, stable, fun, nice person who isn't trying to be something he is not and who doesn't need her, but loves to be with her.

Then you can ask yourself: What does it take to impress ME?

Good luck!
 Pete2205
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Posted: 12/17/2011 8:21:02 AM
Why bother?
Why go into a date trying to impress? Why not just go into a date and be yourself? If that girl or woman does not like you for the person you are then is she really someone you want to see again?

Ginger hit it on the head in my view - If you come across sincere and you get on well then there is no need at all to try and impress her. Do not make a rod for your own back by trying to be someone you are not.
 Akizzej
Joined: 5/1/2009
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Posted: 12/17/2011 3:46:23 PM
Such sage wisdom Mr Ginger...

for me, I find it simple.. Be nice, to your self, to others and to nature...

and as for the woman, call her when you want to and be happy to be in her company. If you cannot be pleasant, don't waste her time. {a true woman will not demand more time, attention or needs from you than you can truly give}
 rbjustme
Joined: 9/19/2012
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Posted: 9/29/2012 5:13:35 AM
Mostly Money, If your income is low and barely any assets your response to chat ,message or any form of contact reduces to a bare zero, hey it's a material world now and the important things in life don't seem to matter anymore. Expectations are extremely high these days and I don't see that changing. If I had money and big assets nice home fancy cars, I would probably not be on this site. Maybe I've been really burned by past experiences, but that's the way I find it these days
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