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 SeaCatcher
Joined: 9/11/2011
Msg: 76
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From my perspective, it's solely about giving him pleasure. I have no feelings for doing the pegging, nor against it. My interest is in him. What I feel in myself is a curiosity and an interest, in a fairly abstract way.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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You only hurt the ones you love!
Posted: 1/29/2012 3:40:18 PM

Back the truck up here for a second. Are you telling me there are people out there putting tobasco/cinnamon/ginger in their bungholes for pleasure???? How the heck can your arse being on fire feel sexually satisfying?

I don't recall saying anything about it feeling pleasurable.

For the people that are wired that way, it can be *fun*.. entertaining, amusing. For someone that isn't a masochist, there is no adequate way of explaining why someone would allow this to be done to them. For someone that isn't a sadist, there is no adequate way of explaining why someone would want to do this to someone else. "It's fun" doesn't really cover it.

I'm a bit maso and a bid sadistic... and I haven't done it. I don't like using things where I can't control the direction things go in. I personally would not use cinnamon oil on anyone.. I witnessed someone's reaction to having it on their hands. Wasn't pretty.

I know people that have used ginger slivers. It's called figging. Some ginger is more potent than others. There's no ability to control this at all.

I have mint tree soap that I like to use on my bits as well as on my toys. It leaves a nice tingly feeling on labia, but not anus. At least not that I've noticed. Mentholated products can have that night light tingly sensation. I wouldn't necessarily use something like Vics vaborub... petroleum based products are hard to counteract if you need to.

I'm kind of glad my partner doesn't appear interested in this because it can go from "oooooooo" to "omfg get it off me now!" very quickly.
 biinedm
Joined: 1/24/2012
Msg: 78
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 1/29/2012 6:22:44 PM
My ex-wife and I used to do it, we both enjoyed it very much
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 79
Peglegs and the men who love them
Posted: 3/11/2012 8:14:19 PM

so it was a very odd to be doing that esspecially to a man. Ever since then I havent run into a man that wanted any activity behind the counter but from what Ive seen its worth a try.


I've mostly wandered off to some other sites, and this is my first return visit in several months. I must say I'm delighted that some among the greater global nilla community seem to have dabbled in the field.
From what I've seen on other sites, there are legions of hetero men and women who are into pegging, or wanna be.
First times at most things generally are "odd", but it was kinda exciting to me the first time, at least, and stimulating. I was kinda like a deer in the headlights the first time, sorta afraid to move, lol, not sure which way to go. I have learned alot, in all modesty, since then, and am no longer a starfish fvck.


I did this for my husband when we were married.
For me, it was kinky and erotic and I loved the feeling of control. It did not make him any less masculine to me.

I was getting off at the sight of him getting off, but it was kind of hard to pump and jack at the same time. We finally had him flip over and me do it doggy style to him while he jerked himself off. I am totally jealous of guys having a penis and we do not, so it was awesome to pretend it was my schlong schtupping him.

We only did it the once-he didn't care for it . . . .


Taking a lover from behind, watching my c-ck sink into her, holding her hips, is one of most powerful mind slams I've ever experienced, visual as I, as a guy, tend to be. To enable my partner to enjoy that same visual is defly a surge for me, as the one in front. I've always been the one to supply the toy, and have always chosen the double-ended variety, cuz I wanted my partner to be as into it as possible, and that thought paid off bigtime. There's alot happening when two humans connect in this way, pegging, and the novelty is just a small part. Imho, at least 80% of the impact of any and every sexual contact and act is between the ears, not the cheeks, where all those sensations from the remote areas are processed and "spun".

Oh, and once is not enough, at least not to explore this adventure sufficiently to get a grip on it. It, as well as the participants, truly do improve with practice, different positions, angles, speeds, depths, lol. My first partner and I started out "doggy"- I really wanted to give her that visual. lol But on later occasions, we also connected face-to-face, which can be more intimate, especially when kissing is involved. I have, for a long time, searched for ever stronger ways to connect with my lover, and pegging is, so far, perhaps the most intensely intimate way I've experienced.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 80
Peglegs and the men who love them
Posted: 3/11/2012 8:35:01 PM

We only did it once. He didn't care for it . . . .


If women were as shortsighted as he, there'd no doubt be a lot fewer babies in this world. lol


There are a lot more things that I enjoy.


Ditto. At least for me. Pegging is one way to connect, among several, and almost all are good. Nor is pegging an exclusive choice on any given day; it's much better as one event in a series of same, maybe for the legendary refractory period most males experience.
There's also the bonding that comes from shared experience. I honestly believe I'm a better lover, having experienced penetration into me, than I was before, when the best I could do was to project, use my imagination, interpret her signals (not always accurately). Along those very lines, one kinda exciting way to communicate (which should be happenin' almost constantly anyway), is for the penetrator to do his/her partner the way the driver most wants to be penetrated him/herself. And then, ya switch!
 bilby886
Joined: 7/19/2007
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You only hurt the ones you love!
Posted: 3/12/2012 11:43:07 AM




Yes. People do that.


Back the truck up here for a second. Are you telling me there are people out there putting tobasco/cinnamon/ginger in their bungholes for pleasure???? How the heck can your arse being on fire feel sexually satisfying?




well if its too spicy for ya theres banana smoothie enemas! and milkshake enemas! chocolate shakes would definitely be a Fail!
I think that is also a Meatloaf moment!
 baldguy500
Joined: 2/9/2010
Msg: 82
You only hurt the ones you love!
Posted: 3/13/2012 2:27:44 PM
curtesy of my ex gf...i've been walking crooked for over 3 years......god i miss her
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 83
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/5/2012 10:15:46 PM
I've never been asked to do this act on my man or had the courage to offer. If I wanted to explore, any suggestions on how to bring it up without offending him in some manner?
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 5/5/2012 10:55:43 PM
I think asking is the best way.. you could just try rubbing his butt hole and see what he does but as I understand guys can be defensive about that. So IMO asking is your best bet.
If you do find someone I would suggest the feeldoe or feeldoe like product.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-0OwndRgdS7s/TySQTdIWSFI/AAAAAAAAAFg/djQc7m4VTh8/s1600/feeldo.jpg
It is a strapless strap on that goes inside the woman.. so you are getting alot more stimulation than with the normal strap on.
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 85
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/6/2012 3:20:57 AM
I've done prostate massages. Some guys love it but the first time for some is too intense. Ive used my vibe in a Guy while riding him he loved it. I've used my vibes & dildo in a couple guys. For a while for some odd reason guys were asking for it. Lol They all loved it. The anal virgins had been fantasizing so long that when they finally got it they screamed ecstaticly. I only asked one guy if he wanted it i could just tell he might. He said yes but loved it so much he would call.me practically begging to come over. Lol as long as a Guy makes me happy I do almost anything for him
 marie2107
Joined: 11/14/2011
Msg: 86
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/6/2012 3:38:56 AM
Hi meowkatt. Curious: when you say if a guy "makes you happy" you will do anything for him, do you mean sexually or otherwise? Also, how did you just know that the guy wanted it (the one that did not ask first)?
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/6/2012 4:21:54 PM

If you do find someone I would suggest the feeldoe or feeldoe like product.
http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-0OwndRgdS7s/TySQTdIWSFI/AAAAAAAAAFg/djQc7m4VTh8/s1600/feeldo.jpg
It is a strapless strap on that goes inside the woman.. so you are getting alot more stimulation than with the normal strap on.

So.. yeah. Feeldoe (Stout) owner here. Here's my thoughts. The *theory* of the strapless strapon is good. The reality of it is that it doesn't stay put. While it relies on strong vaginal muscles, using it on another human who is also equipped with their own set of muscles.. it gets pulled out. Before anyone comments about the tone of my muscles, chill.. they're all good. I also don't get the stimulation that Feeldoe mentions.. so perhaps it's just not for me. I find it wobbly and the insertible bulb doesn't *lock* into place like other toys I've experienced.

When we've used it, the best position for us has been with me on my back, Feeldoe in place, legs together while he rides cowboy style. The toy still gets pulled out of position because of the riding action.

There is a harness made to be used with the Feeldoe as well. There are literally 100s of different styles of harnesses and strapless toys out there. I've seen the panties that have a toy that is inserted vaginally (sometimes there's one for anal as well) and then a place for another toy to be used on another.

I've come to the conclusion that while this is a really hot activity, I'm not holding out any hope that I will get as much stimulation or direct pleasure as he does. The good news is, I know how to solve that.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 88
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/7/2012 8:27:19 PM

i've never been dunked before but
i've had female tongues there and it sure felt good so....... idk.....lol


So, you might wanna try sumthin new? It's a slippery slope, my friend, so, from one who's slid,
DON'T DO IT!
It's addictive. Lolz
Besides, from what I've seen on other sites, there are legions of "addicts" iso of a solid pegging, or "dunking", if that's your descriptor of choice. And there are only, maybe, 300 women in the world willing to administer the "drug", like those Spartans holding off all those crazed Persians trying to squeeze through that narrow pass. Lol
In fact, a cottage industry of mercenaries has sprung up- "professional" ladies who'll do ya for a fee (and that's all they do).

I started this thread to focus on those seemingly special few women who are into pegging their men. I already had a quite sufficient male perspective (he says, with all due modesty).
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 89
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/7/2012 8:30:06 PM
whytwater...I'm not that much into pegging...but I'd do you in a New York minute.

hehehe




It's a slippery slope, my friend, so, from one who's slid,
DON'T DO IT!
It's addictive. Lolz


Gotta love that sense of humor.
 Misticrythms
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 90
Pegging, from the woman's perspective
Posted: 5/8/2012 5:21:46 PM
I love to have this done..... Don't knock it ;-)
So any way I brought this up to my last gf and she was more than willing to give it a whirl, I supplied the equip and she was a natural :-D and later told me she never thought it could be so hot. She got off too and it was amazing!! So the jaguar harness is what I purchased specifically because it positioned the base of the toy at clit level. I wanted her to get off and enjoy it as much as I did, so she would of course be into doing again and again. Should've never let her go :-)

So yes a woman can get off while pegging, but you gotta find the right equip, and don't be afraid to spend some money because u get what u pay for
 Saturn5A
Joined: 11/27/2010
Msg: 91
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Posted: 5/9/2012 11:51:23 AM
Oh I was just reading the pegging thread. It's liberating to find a few women who like to pegg a guy to give him pleasure thats off th charts. Doesn't have to be that femdom power thing either. I love being pegged and have been so many times even in front of other women wanting to see what it's like to ride a mans ass.;-)
 Acehonestlady
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Posted: 5/23/2012 5:17:43 AM
I have only pegged 2 men and use a strap-on after prepping with a finger. I find that mentally it really feels like I have a penis and that it is another way to **** a man. It is like I can project what I am doing physically with the phallic onto the vagina of my mind and it can be amazing. I imagine the man getting the pleasure I get from being ****ed vaginally or anally. I like to use a position and rhythm I’d like a man to use with me. It is a good way to show a man how I like it. Though I tend to have to be gentler. I don’t know if at all the buffering indirectly stimulates my clitoris or if it is my imagination alone but I love it. Why can’t we all be hermaphrodites! Actually one of the men I've pegged I will be giving a pegging to later today or tomorrow :o)

For those that consider a man must be gay/bi to be pegged by a woman consider this.
Gay men like to kiss and caress and wank too.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 5/23/2012 6:10:53 AM
Totally didn't see this until today.


You probably already know this no 1 bby.....but they make strap-on's with a place to put a bullet-vibe (for the woman's pleasure) Can't give a personal recommendation but just letting you know. And I've seen the "strapless strapon's" before and wondered HOW they would stay in place....because some of them look pretty big and heavy.

Yup. Own one.. strapless with a vibe. Not my fave. Prefer my harness and a variety of toys. My harness has overlapping/interlocking 3" rings that will hold toys that are a variety of sizes. As long as the rings fit around the toy and it has a base, I can use it. I'm not limited to using one particular brand (Vac-u-loc), style or size. Plus it fits my big fat ass. So yay! That reminds me.. need a new toy and more lube.

Problem is I could care less about the vibe. I'm not a big fan of buzzy toys. And my Feeldoe (Stout).. meh. The end that inserts into the vagina is an odd shape and doesn't *lock* into place well. It gets pulled out, despite the fact that other toys will *lock* in place inside me. It's just not designed to fit my body very well. They do make a harness for those kind of toys. I also find it kind of wobbly.
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 94
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Posted: 10/22/2012 10:24:08 AM

I have only pegged 2 men and use a strap-on after prepping with a finger. I find that mentally it really feels like I have a penis and that it is another way to **** a man. It is like I can project what I am doing physically with the phallic onto the vagina of my mind and it can be amazing. I imagine the man getting the pleasure I get from being ****ed vaginally or anally. I like to use a position and rhythm I’d like a man to use with me. It is a good way to show a man how I like it. Though I tend to have to be gentler. I don’t know if at all the buffering indirectly stimulates my clitoris or if it is my imagination alone but I love it.


Thank you, Acehonest!! That is precisely the perspective that I was shooting for. My two peggor pards were novices, or so they said, and were as kinda dazzled by the experience as I. Repetition, I suspect, would clarify the minds of each and all of us. I also think that pegging is probly not fit for every day frequency, at least for me, but more often than not- ooooh, yeeeaaahhh.


Actually one of the men I've pegged I will be giving a pegging to later today or tomorrow :o)


Does he know that? Lolz
Since I started this thread, I've investigated some other sites (e.g., FetLife), where a clear majority of the men in that community are clamoring for either first-time experience or repeats. That site, as well as others, are fairly flooded with ISO pegging mating calls.
My take- pegging, at its best, is an intensely personal and searingly intimate act, when two humans have connected in a myriad of other ways, especially non-sexual ways. When each bares the soul, especially during the act, as well as thereafter, there is no ceiling, and a good, solidly connected, relationship can be taken to whole new levels when pegging is added to the repertoire. 'Course, man-sluts are everywhere, lolz, and sometimes the hunger to be butt-****ed by a sexy woman totally consumes our single-core processors.
 chris10712567
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Posted: 10/24/2012 3:23:02 PM
you are so hot baby,you can peg my ass anytime you want.see you in my dreams.
 ARTSYLADEEEE
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Posted: 10/24/2012 3:57:38 PM
My sister is a lab tech administrator and she talks about bacteria back there called Giardia. It's nasty and can really make you sick. Just something to think about.
 Inicia
Joined: 12/21/2007
Msg: 97
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Posted: 10/24/2012 7:06:54 PM
meeting the criteria of the OP I will just address what I have heard of women's experiences or my own.
Many of my female friends have said their male lover has fully enjoyed anal stimulation. I personally have experienced only men who were extremely homophobic and wanted nothing to do with any anal stimulation. Or had such short term relationships as to not know their desires. So while I am not opposed to such actions have not experienced stimulating a males anal sensations. And actually have had few men interested in stimulating me anally.
 think-kink
Joined: 6/23/2008
Msg: 98
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Posted: 10/25/2012 8:29:24 AM
my wife has pegged me a few times an i love it, an yes im totallly str8. we sometimes smoke a little wacky hay then get kinky an man i tell you when she is doing me with a strapon i CUM harrrrrd. to bad your so far away maybe we could hook up my wife has been talking about doing a ffm thing id be doing her and she would be doing me vs versa
 MakeUTingle
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 99
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Posted: 10/25/2012 3:15:53 PM
will somebody please peg me?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 100
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Posted: 10/26/2012 3:24:33 PM
^^^^^ ISO of intensely intimate sexual acts with absolute strangers, especially the cyber kind, just hardly ever works, and usually ewwwww's all the other campers.


It is an orifice of excretion.


Surely, by now, you are aware of the location of your urethra?
Several anatomical parts have more than one use- a mouth is necessarily used to eat, and talk, but it also plays a seriously integral suxual role, a vulva excretes urinary waste several times daily, but is a primary sexual anatomical part, as are hands, as are, . . ., well, everything, and pretty much everything, in a sexual coupling, is available, like within reach, to enhance the sexual experience of each partner. I use my brain to balance my checkbook, do crossword puzzles, but it is deeply and intensely used in my sexual experiences.


It is not good to mix with a womans delicate bits, . . .


Huh? The recipe for the kind of pegging I'm talking about requires (1) male ass, broken or unbroken, and (1) properly equipped (strap-on faux penis) woman. Add lube. Any other additives are optional add-ins; the strap-on toy never even points in the direction of the poosy, much less penetrates it, cuz, on the flip side of most male butts is a shur 'nuff poossy penetrator. Now, pegging can be one act in a 3- or 5-act play, and sometimes that play can be a matinee followed by a prime-time night performance, lol. Quite aside from my request, in my OP, to bypass the oft-discussed health issues surrounding anal sex (there are a bunch of like deterrents to vaginal and oral sex), I just don't see where in pegging a woman's holes are simultaneously threatened.


Many of my female friends have said their male lover has fully enjoyed anal stimulation.


There are hordes, legions of 'em, at this point, I think. Lol


I personally have experienced only men who were extremely homophobic and wanted nothing to do with any anal stimulation. Or had such short term relationships as to not know their desires. So while I am not opposed to such actions have not experienced stimulating a males anal sensations. And actually have had few men interested in stimulating me anally.


While I can't source it to any childhood event or experience, I've always thought anal sex to be hawt. But it's only been more recently that I've experienced anal sex from the flip side, and I've found it to be every bit as intensely intimate as male---> anal sex, and probably even more so, because of the role switch. I don't know what to tell ya about the kind of men you've experienced, sexually, so far; I'm a decade or two older than you, so we can probably rule the age factor out. Maybe geography, maybe even politial persuasion influences the mindset. And anyway, while I never felt particularly threatened by contracting gayness, like it's some kind of contagion, once I read/heard that my prostate was a buried gold mine of erotic thrills, akin to a g-spot, and that it was eminently reachable, I was all in for it. Lol Come on, a new sexual center of gravity, in additon, not replacing, the one I've always know about?!!! Duhhhh, lol.
And I gotta add, that I'm triply disappointed that the men you've encountered were disinterested in your ass. That (anally penetrating a woman) was in my head at my starting gate.
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