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Joined: 12/18/2004
Msg: 51
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^5 mr.m i thought the same
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 52
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:51:21 PM
If it's about power for him, maybe he somehow feels powerless. I don't think most women enjoy anal, but I've heard that once a man finds a woman who does enjoy it; she never wants to let him go !!! I wonder if this is true. Could you yourself be with a guy who never wanted to do it? Finding a 3 hole woman would be a rare treat for me.
Joined: 1/25/2005
Msg: 53
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:53:03 PM
Anal sex is different. The ass has a different texture and variety is the spice of life. For me I like to have it as a naughty option every now and then. Also it can be enjoyable for the girl. But if your boyfriend can't get off without putting it in your ass than that smells like trouble...
Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/21/2005 3:59:16 PM

he says, the tighter the orifice, the better ! So, for men it's a power trip.
Really bad logic there. Enjoying a tight sensation doesn't make it a power trip. Yes, there -can- be that element, but it's not conclusive.

paintedpony69: WHY HASN"T PANDY CLOSED THIS ONE YET???????? hummmmmm

Because this thread is not about anal sex? This thread is just one more thread in a long line of threads about Lauren's gay fiancé. These constant threads are really more of a blog/journal than anything.

Krystal_lyrics - I've just gone through the whole thread and only noticed a couple of homophobic comments. Only person to use the word "homo" has been Lauren herself. What I've seen here is a couple of dozen people looking at the same situation that we've been reading about here since December of 2004 and *still* saying "He's gay! He's gay!" Lauren's profile may look new, but it's not. We've been getting to know Thomas for a long time now.
Further, "adj. sexually attracted to members of your own sex" <- doesn't say anything about love. You were addressing the subject of him receiving rather than giving. We've seen both sides of this coin here -- Thomas asked for a strap-on before they'd ever had sex and now he prefers to be a "Top".
Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/21/2005 4:04:39 PM

This thread is just one more thread in a long line of threads about Lauren's gay fiancé. These constant threads are really more of a blog/journal than anything.

Ain't that the truth! Xander

Maybe the guy just tried sticking his finger up his as.s while he was yanking it....
and he likes it.
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/22/2005 11:59:32 AM
I'm not even gonna ask.....
Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/22/2005 12:26:51 PM
Did we ever hear wether or not she had, how was this put, a problem as a child that was sexual in nature? Perhaps an over zealous uncle? It would explain a whole lot.
Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 58
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Posted: 7/22/2005 12:43:00 PM
most men seem to be into it these days....
Joined: 5/27/2005
Msg: 59
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Posted: 7/22/2005 12:47:42 PM
I don't think he's gay, he could be bi, but maybe not. Different strokes for different folks. Personally, my best friend is gay, and no guy goes near his ass. The fact that he was a church going virgin before her doesn't make him gay or bi, I was all for trying new things with the "first" and the same with him. He's just more open to different things that most straight guys are disgusted by.
Joined: 11/3/2004
Msg: 60
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Posted: 7/22/2005 1:12:44 PM
I AM STRANGE....but nobody is violating me like parole....I'll tell you that much about it!!!
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 61
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Posted: 7/22/2005 1:19:12 PM
Can't say by experience, I never tried anal sex, but if I ever do, it's like the rest of my sexual self, it's all about pleausre and I never felt any "powerfull" feeling or "dominating" feeling out of sex. This is plain stupid.
Joined: 7/20/2005
Msg: 62
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Posted: 7/23/2005 7:09:24 AM
Ok, cupid. thanks.
Joined: 5/26/2005
Msg: 63
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Posted: 7/23/2005 9:02:25 AM
2 out of 4, of the women i have had long term relationships liked it, first wife not intrested, second wife loved it, ex live in babe, wanted to experement did it a couple of times, ex girlfriend, whould have done it if I really wanted to, but she was not into it so we never did it, intresting note other than my firs wife, they have all been 20 to 32 years younger than me, the homo bit, bull, been in the entertainment business for many years have met a lot of gays guys, never even hugged a guy other than my son.
as for lesbians, I would go out with them in a new york minute, I have met a lot of really hot,young and beautiful ones, and, after all we have a lot of things in common !!!
Joined: 7/29/2005
Msg: 64
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Posted: 6/20/2006 11:59:20 AM
I dont care if they like it or not. MY butt is no-mans land! lol
 Fry Lock
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 65
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Posted: 6/20/2006 12:11:00 PM
I'm not that into it; anything that you do where you have to worry about poop is NOT for me...
Joined: 11/29/2005
Msg: 66
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Posted: 6/20/2006 12:58:48 PM
outie only hole
Joined: 6/17/2006
Msg: 67
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Posted: 6/20/2006 1:03:33 PM
Anal pleasure has NOTHING to do with being gay. There are gay guys that DO NOT have anal sex of any kind.

A relationship with another man is the homosexual act.
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 6/20/2006 1:08:25 PM
It is no power trip here, i do like doing it and i love watching the girls enjoying it so much.Ever since the 1st time i did it and i seen the look on her face and she said i love the way it feels, about 35yrs ago, i want to let other feel great and feel something new. Any pain and we are done, no power just love.
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 69
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Posted: 6/20/2006 1:11:11 PM
I think men and yes some women do enjoy it too,
like anal sex or at least think they really want it is because it's the latest.
It's the 'taboo factor' as I call just named it! lol
You know the excitment is so much more intense when you are doing some thing
that you are not supposed to be doing, right! Thus this added excitment flows into the orgasm making it even more extreme. Guys are like oh yeah Iam ****ing her ass ,"cool"! wow! lol get it!
Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 70
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Posted: 6/20/2006 1:22:55 PM
oh snaps i thought we were talking guys giving it to women ! lol well on the other hey im straight and have no problem with a Woman exploring me!haha If a guy says busting a load with a hotties finger in you doesn't give him a crazy orgasm then you no what I think he just might be afraid that he is gay or will be looked at as gay. Pleasure given to you in any form is not gay. I dont want a man penis in there at all. I have zero interest and/or attraction to men . I can't even think of that being possibe. But hell yeah I have "no limit" fun with women!(except for that pain business! not 4 me!) I mean yeah scratch down my back bite my nipple ring and give it a tug , even spank my ass lol but i hope the way i work it will have you trembling very soon! later ppl , and lkadies cum find me average to slim olease those skinny face shots are false advertising!!sorry just being honest like we all should be!COOP
 Fry Lock
Joined: 10/4/2005
Msg: 71
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Posted: 6/20/2006 3:29:53 PM
it's just the whole poop factor for me....not something that turns me on....
Joined: 6/2/2006
Msg: 72
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Posted: 6/20/2006 3:51:29 PM
Consider sex as a state of mind. You could be having a whole senario about being a little girl sitting on daddy's knee and cumming like a banshee while he's thinking about how you'd look tied up and used repetedly by all of his friends. You both cum you both are happy and no one gets called a pervert for takeing a risk and talking about it. Myself I just love shareing the journey I find the female mind complex and exciteing when she lets go. Problem is for every really truley open female you get ten that are strung so tight the can hardly touch themselves long enough to wipe after they piss!
Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 73
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Posted: 6/20/2006 4:12:27 PM
I love it and it has nothing to do with power for me either its more a matter of variety and pleasure and the ability to stimulate more of my partner at one time.

Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 74
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Posted: 6/20/2006 6:01:41 PM
So your'e making love to a woman and she reaches around behind you and slides her finger in. Yeah that can be good-as long as she reaches your prostrate, which is what makes it possible for you to get an erection in the first place! Yeah that can help alot. And maybe she's getting into the fact that she's also penetrating you as well! Sex is so much better when everyone involved is participating- as long as she doesn't try it with those long gypsy fingernails! Yowtch!!!
Joined: 3/21/2006
Msg: 75
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Posted: 6/20/2006 6:24:20 PM
I am no a big enough fool to speak for others, for me it is a sign of special acceptance and trust usually following active oral sex, when she has cum repeatly and is totally relaxed at at ease with me. This maybe hard for a woman too belive but my climaxes are diffent with anal sex since at first it is tight but as she gets into and the tenison in her muscles is released she opens up like a flower. No I do not feel powerful or in control, I am in awe of her ability to yield and still be totally in control.

The man who feels powerful and in control, must think the spartian men won the battle at the gates of fire. they did not their women did.

Ladies Love and Honor
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