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 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 86
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_mermaid_of_the_sea_
I see more women these days that are really fit, look much younger than men their own age and are in long term relationships with younger men, not older. Because society is evolving and because.they.can ;)

That's all I'm done here.


Agree with your thinking _mermaid_of_the_sea_ .
That's why I don't date women my age and prefer to date younger women to about 35 years old.
The younger generation has taken to fitness like my generation didn't.
And I guess because I can. ;)
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 87
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Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/18/2014 5:55:48 PM
Frankly I refuse to date women who are not gym fit. Most of the women I have dated in the last few years have run from about thirty five to forty five and have still looked good for their age, at least to me.

They have all been pretty high maintenance but a lot of fun!
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 89
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/18/2014 7:24:07 PM
Are you sure a young 22 year old man would be interested in a 32 year old woman?
Provided the older women of that age is athletic,
aside from sex,
on the whole, young men generally don't date older women. (if so, not for very long)
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 91
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/18/2014 7:44:28 PM
Given that I said:

Provided the older women of that age is athletic


Your post was unnecessary.
Thankfully I am not threatened, given that I put most young men to shame in the fitness department.
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 93
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/21/2014 1:52:21 PM
Ok mermaid stfu already!! We get it, older guys aren't ur cup of tea. Fine. Everyone is different. We get it when u say ur athletic (not sure if I belive that though, lack of pics) but we get it. We guys around ur age are evil, just condemned to not date. We don't fit in ur version of attraction. We get it. Ur a very visual and shallow entilment princess. We get it


Now please shut ur piehole, go into the kitchen, put on an apron and cook something little lady aka little man. Lol.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 94
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Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/22/2014 1:36:17 AM
As long as no laws are being broken...
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 95
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/22/2014 8:53:51 PM

Blueguy99881
Ok mermaid stfu already!! We get it, older guys aren't ur cup of tea. Fine. Everyone is different. We get it when u say ur athletic (not sure if I belive that though, lack of pics) but we get it. We guys around ur age are evil, just condemned to not date. We don't fit in ur version of attraction. We get it. Ur a very visual and shallow entilment princess. We get it


Now please shut ur piehole, go into the kitchen, put on an apron and cook something little lady aka little man. Lol..


Blueguy99881,
you may want to visit this place:
http://www.psych.med.umich.edu/patient-care/adult-inpatient-program/
 Lindt40
Joined: 6/6/2014
Msg: 96
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/23/2014 12:35:39 PM
I agree definitely. Besides, who are you people who are putting your own self standards to other people?
You should learn that its not all in the age numbers, its not even on the face looks, because its very deceiving.
I am in my mid forties and I look young. I date anglo saxon men and they do age physically faster and they look older, from my experiences some from 36 to 56 years old men can look like my father. I should feel good but I get annoyed since people look at us with their judgmental eyes. They don't even know the real truth of our ages.

Maturity does not come in the number of ages! Looking through the age number is the common mistake most people do in choosing partner. There is no equation or algorithm formula in finding the right partner. You have to get to know someone, date, thats why there is the stage of dating, do not skip this stage, its the fun period, its the good times and bad times while getting to know each other. From this and during this period, the couple can decide whether to ho forward or end the relationship.

Thats dating 101 advice.
 hotdogshop100
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 97
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/25/2014 2:48:46 PM
No 22 year old is having the hots for a 50 year old unless she is downright fat and ugly. Only exception is if you are famous, in the arts and have a huge wallet.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 98
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/25/2014 5:30:48 PM
actually, she doesn't have to be fat 'n' ugly. I've met some attractive women who went for an older guy. Of course, there may have been other issues at play....but, if they're both getting what they want, why hate? Better to focus on what we might be doing wrong.
 hotdogshop100
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 99
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/25/2014 7:45:36 PM
Why do you equate it with hate? Maybe the truth really does hurt and you want to live in fantasyland.
 norwegianguy123
Joined: 10/27/2014
Msg: 100
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/25/2014 8:49:40 PM

Why do you equate it with hate? Maybe the truth really does hurt and you want to live in fantasyland.

He meant hate in the broad sense of the word -- like "Man, I'd have to be really fat and ugly to want to have sex with THAT girl!" Yeah, that's "hatin'". :)

There are gals who do like older men. And some guys at 50 can be good looking and in good shape. You know, the type that can lie and say they're 40 and get away with it pretty easily? A typical 22-yo isn't going to want to ride the bone of a typical 50 year old guy -- No. But there's much more women who like older men than guys who like older women, even though since American Pie was released it started to even out a bit. A cute 22 year old gal boning her attractive 50 year old boss, or a good looking older man at an after-work party? Yeah, it's not unheard of. It's not the truth that it basically requires a 22-year-old fat & ugly gal to partake.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 102
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/25/2014 9:28:05 PM
If I was 20 right now, I'd tag Madonna!
 hotdogshop100
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 103
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 6:46:15 AM
Actually if a female decides to go younger it is usually a reasonable age difference or both are at a mature age. One instance that I knew of the man was 58 the woman was 70. Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life. After the age of 40 the spread isn't as important.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 104
18+ and "All is Fair in Love & War"
Posted: 12/26/2014 11:14:34 AM

Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life.


What about the other 50% of the equation?

You know, the younger adult "wanting" the older person.
Everyone seems too focused, and negatively at that, on the older person and that the older person is dirty or up to no good. Give it a break people.

And let's drop the gender stereotyping also.
Women love sex as much as men.
How is it robbing the cradle if an older man seduces a younger woman?
But everyone congratulates the young man when he is seduced by his high school teacher?

Like I said, if was 20.... I'd let Madonna "break-in, ransack and rob my cradle" at the drop of a hat!
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 105
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 11:15:06 AM

Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life.


What about the other 50% of the equation?

You know, the younger adult "wanting" the older person.
Everyone seems too focused, and negatively at that, on the older person and that the older person is dirty or up to no good. Give it a break people.

And let's drop the gender stereotyping also.
Women love sex as much as men.
How is it robbing the cradle if an older man seduces a younger woman?
But everyone congratulates the young man when he is seduced by his high school teacher?

Like I said, if was 20.... I'd let Madonna "break-in, ransack and rob my cradle" at the drop of a hat!
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 106
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 2:09:17 PM
Lol. Mermaid is a slut. Who knows where she's been.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 108
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 3:50:41 PM
awesomefifty is always boasting about his physical prowess ad nauseum but we don't see his pics either.
Blueguy, as usual you are being way over the top and no one has inferred that older guys are evil. How old are you?
That old song about the women not wanting the unattractive guy, are just shallow and superficial. Very tired of hearing it. Let me know how many fat, ugly, otherwise undesirable women you contact and what the response is? Because you are not "superficial" right??
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 109
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 3:53:21 PM
Outside of laws/statutes that prevent adults from preying on children, "inappropriate age difference" is a matter of personal judgement, values and ethics.
The case cited in the OT, I did not think was that big of a deal but if one of the principals in the situation thinks it is, if he feels uncomfortable, then nothing anybody else thinks really matters, does it?

As for you, mr blueguy, have you ever even been NEAR a woman? I don't think you are capable of assessing who is-or isn't- a slut.
There may not be any moderators around anymore, but when limpd*ck TROLLS and airheaded female bimbo trolls
show up and invade the place, just because they CAN, it points up just how PATHETIC some people's lives must be.

Wonder how many of these trolls are forum regulars who are joining under additional profiles just to make asses of themselves in the forums.
I hope they DO understand that their profiles can still be reported for suspicion of multiple accounts, or abuse of the forums?
That isn't a threat...just a statement of fact. I'll speak my opinion straight at their heads(though that may require some kind of cyber enema equipment LOL), and I realize that their lives are so pathetically empty that they will probably just open another profile if one gets torpedoed.
I've spoke my piece.
Blueguy you are an idiot. Does your minder know you've figured out how to work the computer and get on the internet?
Cindy O
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 110
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 5:58:40 PM
Hey blueguy99881,

I made it easier for you to access this facility that caters to your type.

http://www.psych.med.umich.edu/contact/directions.asp
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 111
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 5:59:48 PM

petula1908
awesomefifty is always boasting about his physical prowess ad nauseum but we don't see his pics either.
Blueguy, as usual you are being way over the top and no one has inferred that older guys are evil. How old are you?
That old song about the women not wanting the unattractive guy, are just shallow and superficial. Very tired of hearing it. Let me know how many fat, ugly, otherwise undesirable women you contact and what the response is? Because you are not "superficial" right??


Oh petula1908, stop whining!
 tgif111
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 113
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 3:23:12 PM
i'm 59.

in 2014 I went out with women 22 to 74.

but then all I do is date.

so sue me. I had a good time with all of them.

edit:

on the other hand there was the 39 yr old from POF on our first date who had 3 long island ice teas at dinner and then a few miles from her home had her top and bra off and was groping me. drunk girls who want sex can make even a man like me feel like a piece of meat. I dumped her off at her home
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 114
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Posted: 1/7/2015 3:57:41 PM
Over the holidays I spent some time with three women I used to date. Two of them are now married; the third is not. The still single one is 9 years younger than me. She asked me to do new years eve with her and brought dinner over. Although I was quite attracted to her back when she was 38 I no longer am. She has gained a lot of weight and at 52 seems too old for me.

The married ones are now 46 and 50 and still look OK but no longer are the head turners they once were.

Thankfully, enough late thirties to early forties women still look good to me and want to date me.
 Behind-Blue-Eyes_53
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 115
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 4:33:09 PM

on the other hand there was the 39 yr old from POF on our first date who had 3 long island ice teas at dinner and then a few miles from her home had her top and bra off and was groping me. drunk girls who want sex can make even a man like me feel like a piece of meat. I dumped her off at her home


Translation: The Viagra doesn't work anymore.............
 TrustInKarma
Joined: 12/26/2014
Msg: 116
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 4:49:13 PM

Over the holidays I spent some time with three women I used to date. Two of them are now married; the third is not. The still single one is 9 years younger than me. She asked me to do new years eve with her and brought dinner over. Although I was quite attracted to her back when she was 38 I no longer am. She has gained a lot of weight and at 52 seems too old for me.

The married ones are now 46 and 50 and still look OK but no longer are the head turners they once were.

Thankfully, enough late thirties to early forties women still look good to me and want to date me.


I have an acquaintance (male) who I used to have the hots for when I was 20 and he was 25. He was not interested in me though, he was a big womanizer and just had lots of sex with tons of different women. Today, he is grossly overweight, single, never married, no kids, and NOW is interested in me, to the point of being pushy. No way Jose. If he had kept in shape, I might give it a try, but the thought of him naked now grosses me out. Thankfully, I have enough attractive younger guys in their 20s-mid40s interested in me, so it's all good.
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