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 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 102
Inappropriate age difference?Page 5 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
If I was 20 right now, I'd tag Madonna!
 hotdogshop100
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 103
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 6:46:15 AM
Actually if a female decides to go younger it is usually a reasonable age difference or both are at a mature age. One instance that I knew of the man was 58 the woman was 70. Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life. After the age of 40 the spread isn't as important.
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 104
18+ and "All is Fair in Love & War"
Posted: 12/26/2014 11:14:34 AM

Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life.


What about the other 50% of the equation?

You know, the younger adult "wanting" the older person.
Everyone seems too focused, and negatively at that, on the older person and that the older person is dirty or up to no good. Give it a break people.

And let's drop the gender stereotyping also.
Women love sex as much as men.
How is it robbing the cradle if an older man seduces a younger woman?
But everyone congratulates the young man when he is seduced by his high school teacher?

Like I said, if was 20.... I'd let Madonna "break-in, ransack and rob my cradle" at the drop of a hat!
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 105
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 11:15:06 AM

Hardly a dirty old individual robbing the cradle of a young adult barely into this phase of life.


What about the other 50% of the equation?

You know, the younger adult "wanting" the older person.
Everyone seems too focused, and negatively at that, on the older person and that the older person is dirty or up to no good. Give it a break people.

And let's drop the gender stereotyping also.
Women love sex as much as men.
How is it robbing the cradle if an older man seduces a younger woman?
But everyone congratulates the young man when he is seduced by his high school teacher?

Like I said, if was 20.... I'd let Madonna "break-in, ransack and rob my cradle" at the drop of a hat!
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 106
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 2:09:17 PM
Lol. Mermaid is a slut. Who knows where she's been.
 petula1908
Joined: 8/9/2014
Msg: 108
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 3:50:41 PM
awesomefifty is always boasting about his physical prowess ad nauseum but we don't see his pics either.
Blueguy, as usual you are being way over the top and no one has inferred that older guys are evil. How old are you?
That old song about the women not wanting the unattractive guy, are just shallow and superficial. Very tired of hearing it. Let me know how many fat, ugly, otherwise undesirable women you contact and what the response is? Because you are not "superficial" right??
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 109
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 3:53:21 PM
Outside of laws/statutes that prevent adults from preying on children, "inappropriate age difference" is a matter of personal judgement, values and ethics.
The case cited in the OT, I did not think was that big of a deal but if one of the principals in the situation thinks it is, if he feels uncomfortable, then nothing anybody else thinks really matters, does it?

As for you, mr blueguy, have you ever even been NEAR a woman? I don't think you are capable of assessing who is-or isn't- a slut.
There may not be any moderators around anymore, but when limpd*ck TROLLS and airheaded female bimbo trolls
show up and invade the place, just because they CAN, it points up just how PATHETIC some people's lives must be.

Wonder how many of these trolls are forum regulars who are joining under additional profiles just to make asses of themselves in the forums.
I hope they DO understand that their profiles can still be reported for suspicion of multiple accounts, or abuse of the forums?
That isn't a threat...just a statement of fact. I'll speak my opinion straight at their heads(though that may require some kind of cyber enema equipment LOL), and I realize that their lives are so pathetically empty that they will probably just open another profile if one gets torpedoed.
I've spoke my piece.
Blueguy you are an idiot. Does your minder know you've figured out how to work the computer and get on the internet?
Cindy O
 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 110
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 5:58:40 PM
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 awesomefiftyman
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 111
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 12/26/2014 5:59:48 PM

petula1908
awesomefifty is always boasting about his physical prowess ad nauseum but we don't see his pics either.
Blueguy, as usual you are being way over the top and no one has inferred that older guys are evil. How old are you?
That old song about the women not wanting the unattractive guy, are just shallow and superficial. Very tired of hearing it. Let me know how many fat, ugly, otherwise undesirable women you contact and what the response is? Because you are not "superficial" right??


Oh petula1908, stop whining!
 tgif111
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 113
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 3:23:12 PM
i'm 59.

in 2014 I went out with women 22 to 74.

but then all I do is date.

so sue me. I had a good time with all of them.

edit:

on the other hand there was the 39 yr old from POF on our first date who had 3 long island ice teas at dinner and then a few miles from her home had her top and bra off and was groping me. drunk girls who want sex can make even a man like me feel like a piece of meat. I dumped her off at her home
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 114
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Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 3:57:41 PM
Over the holidays I spent some time with three women I used to date. Two of them are now married; the third is not. The still single one is 9 years younger than me. She asked me to do new years eve with her and brought dinner over. Although I was quite attracted to her back when she was 38 I no longer am. She has gained a lot of weight and at 52 seems too old for me.

The married ones are now 46 and 50 and still look OK but no longer are the head turners they once were.

Thankfully, enough late thirties to early forties women still look good to me and want to date me.
 Behind-Blue-Eyes_53
Joined: 12/19/2011
Msg: 115
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 4:33:09 PM

on the other hand there was the 39 yr old from POF on our first date who had 3 long island ice teas at dinner and then a few miles from her home had her top and bra off and was groping me. drunk girls who want sex can make even a man like me feel like a piece of meat. I dumped her off at her home


Translation: The Viagra doesn't work anymore.............
 TrustInKarma
Joined: 12/26/2014
Msg: 116
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 4:49:13 PM

Over the holidays I spent some time with three women I used to date. Two of them are now married; the third is not. The still single one is 9 years younger than me. She asked me to do new years eve with her and brought dinner over. Although I was quite attracted to her back when she was 38 I no longer am. She has gained a lot of weight and at 52 seems too old for me.

The married ones are now 46 and 50 and still look OK but no longer are the head turners they once were.

Thankfully, enough late thirties to early forties women still look good to me and want to date me.


I have an acquaintance (male) who I used to have the hots for when I was 20 and he was 25. He was not interested in me though, he was a big womanizer and just had lots of sex with tons of different women. Today, he is grossly overweight, single, never married, no kids, and NOW is interested in me, to the point of being pushy. No way Jose. If he had kept in shape, I might give it a try, but the thought of him naked now grosses me out. Thankfully, I have enough attractive younger guys in their 20s-mid40s interested in me, so it's all good.
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 117
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Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 4:59:28 PM

Thankfully, I have enough attractive younger guys in their 20s-mid40s interested in me, so it's all good.


Judging from you photos I can see why!
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 118
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 5:02:11 PM
Oh karma. Still the same ole rant. Older guys are ugly, evil blah blah balh. For what it's worth, I don't think ur attractive. Actually ur wasteline is a bit thick. Lol you ain't all that. Just being honest.

And if anyone attacks from what I just posted will get reported and post deleted. I'm allowed to be honest.
 TrustInKarma
Joined: 12/26/2014
Msg: 119
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 5:07:33 PM
Actually, blueguy, you are right - I'm not all that and my waistline is a bit thick. I do put on a little weight over the winter months, and I do look a bit chubby in that dress. And still I get enough attention and dates, because there are men out there who like curves. It's all a matter of taste. And I didn't say older guys are evil - most of them just want to only date much younger women, and that's fine with me, because, like I said, there are plenty of younger or same-age guys who are interested in me. I do go out on dates with older men too, but the ones that are still attractive and in shape after a certain age are hard to find and a bit set in their ways. I'm sure likes2dance must be in good shape to be able to attract much younger women. And I don't fault him for not being attracted to women who are not in shape, I'm the same way when it comes to men. Only for some reason I get "chewed out" for voicing the same preference.
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 120
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 5:34:25 PM
Oh blueguy,still the same ineffectual troll, I see.
What age difference is "inappropriate" is an individual decision. It is always inappropriate for adults to date children under the age of consent. It is generally inappropriate for an older person in a position of authority( like a teacher of professor)to date a much younger person who is in a position of being under that authority.
Cindy O
 blueguy99881
Joined: 11/23/2014
Msg: 121
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 6:05:12 PM
Ladyc4 go get an "insanity video" works wonders. Karma I don't care about u do to be honest. I'm not you. Your not me.

No issue what u do. But everyone you post it's always the same crap again and again and again "I only want young men" "older men need to stay away" " I'm better than people because I sleep around with younger guys". We get it already!! Just shut ur trap. Find other things to post besides young men, military and in shape stuff. And get an std test too lol.

Oh and ladyc just got reported for attacking me. I warned you!!!
 tgif111
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 122
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/7/2015 6:47:55 PM
if you don't like a post just skip over it.

I dislike when someone says something like: "this thread or subject has been done a million times. do a thread check".

yes I've heard Karma say stuff about how she prefers younger men and men of all races. I find that fascinating. but her point is valid. men in their 50's and 60's just don't look very nice with or without their clothes on.
on the other hand I disagree with you and find Karma a very attractive and sexy woman.

i'm on here telling the world about my numerous woman of all ages that I go out with and all my adventures with these ladies, and if you don't like reading about my hi-jinks or hers then move along. sheesh.
 cotter
Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 123
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Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/8/2015 12:07:07 PM
Message 123 ...
on the other hand there was the 39 yr old from POF on our first date who had 3 long island ice teas at dinner and then a few miles from her home ...................... and was groping me ......................... I dumped her off at her home
Yeah, she probably requested to be dropped off ... after she discovered what she was groping for ... wasn't there ...

LMAO ... big ego ... still won't make up for "short-comings" ...
 tgif111
Joined: 10/24/2014
Msg: 124
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/11/2015 6:08:59 AM
we are all human beings and men and women of all ages can find things they have in common and since chemistry is such a mysterious thing it can hit anyone at any time.

no one has the right to tell anyone what their standards should be.
 Eric_Summit
Joined: 11/3/2009
Msg: 125
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/11/2015 6:24:28 AM
Posted by tgif111:
"no one has the right to tell anyone what their standards should be."

Excellent point you made above, tgif111.
If two people are happy enjoying company with each other...why would someone wish to rain on their parade?
That is always a fascinating topic. One would think people would be more inclined to accept others.

I know what works for me...others know what works for them.
It is ridiculous for others to make judgement since it is NOT their life.
Live and let live is what I say! :-)
 Forumuseronly
Joined: 1/15/2015
Msg: 126
Inappropriate age difference?
Posted: 1/22/2015 11:29:09 PM
Up to a point this formula works:

Take your age, divide it by two and add 6. If she/he's younger then that then the chances of success are slim. It work for all ages:

20 - 16
30 -21
40 - 26
55 - 32

Gets kinda creepy after 60 I think.
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