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 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 169
Dateing in your 70iesPage 8 of 9    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9)
Nah, I hope to be like Shirley ( old bird who still likes to dance) Her younger BF broke her rib during sex... I imagine the look on the Hospital staff faces when she announced how it happened!
I think lots of people in their 70s still have banging good times :) Like riding a bike you wouldn't forget how
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
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Posted: 5/6/2016 6:38:01 AM

I think lots of people in their 70s still have banging good times :) Like riding a bike you wouldn't forget how


True, but you give up all those crazy BMX bike tricks you used to try when you were younger.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 171
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Posted: 5/6/2016 7:31:57 AM
Well Shirley didn't :/
I will wear a helmet.. safe sex
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 172
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Posted: 5/6/2016 7:59:57 AM
Can Shirley pop a wheelie?

Does she need a kickstand?
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 173
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Posted: 5/6/2016 12:04:11 PM
A guy can go retro and all disco-platform shoes, bell bottoms, paisley shirt with the poofy sleeves and super huge collar-and he won't look out of place to someone who is in their 70's.
 Revenne
Joined: 10/25/2012
Msg: 174
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Posted: 5/23/2016 2:39:14 PM
I'm 77. I belong to an excersise class where I met a beatiful lady of 73. I was immediately attracted to her and she to me. As time went on, I got to know her more and found that we had so much in common. We both enjoy hiking and joined a small group where we hiked locally and this lady and I always walked together. It wasn't long before I fell in love and she had the same feelings for me and we talked more intimately. A few times we went hiking on our own and I must admit I wanted to kiss her. She said no. Since we initially met I found out that she was in a live in relationship with a guy who she really doesn't love and who makes no effort to pay any attention to her, he's into fixing cars, and doesn't give a hand around the house, she virtually does everything, even cuts the grass. I love the lady to bits but cannot do anything about it as she feels she has to remain loyal to this jerk. We don't have too many years left to our lives and I want her to leave this guy as he contributes nothing to this relationship. I would love to travel the World with this Lady and do romantic things together, it's so frustrating. What should I do?
 ndm147
Joined: 8/1/2013
Msg: 175
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Posted: 5/23/2016 2:50:54 PM
The woman has to decide if she can live alone before jumping into boarding with you. What are her financial arrangements like; can she support herself?
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
Msg: 176
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Posted: 5/23/2016 4:56:51 PM
Revenne, I checked you profile and you look to be a healthy and vigorous chap. I hope she works out for you!
 flaneur001
Joined: 7/31/2011
Msg: 177
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Posted: 5/23/2016 6:26:24 PM
Revenne,

Have you had a frank conversation with her about how you feel?

Did you try to kiss her before or after you found out she was in a 'live in relationship". How long have they been involved? Are they married? Is she financially independent?
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
Msg: 178
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Posted: 5/24/2016 9:21:53 AM

We don't have too many years left to our lives and I want her to leave this guy as he contributes nothing to this relationship. I would love to travel the World with this Lady and do romantic things together, it's so frustrating. What should I do?


First thing I would do is file for divorce from the wife that you are separated from and who have moved a long ways away.

You like to travel, so fly to Bangkok for a month and check into a hotel in the sukhumvit area. I would suggest no more than $60 a day, though if I went I would only pay no more than $35, but I don't stay in tourist areas, and it's easy enough to find $45 a day even in sukhumvit .

Go to a local bar and have a beer.

If after two weeks you still remember her name or care what she does, then you are a better man than me.
 BeckyHT
Joined: 1/1/2013
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Posted: 5/24/2016 9:39:15 AM

I'm 77. .... I love the lady to bits but cannot do anything about it as she feels she has to remain loyal to this jerk. We don't have too many years left to our lives and I want her to leave this guy as he contributes nothing to this relationship. I would love to travel the World with this Lady and do romantic things together, it's so frustrating. What should I do?


In this day and age there doesn’t seem to be any rules in relationships other than the ones you make together.

It’s even possible to have multiple partners, although that isn’t the norm.

About all you can do is keep offering a better alternative. Invite her to events involving more of her time, give her more fun activities for the both of you, and give her invites. Maybe someday the light bulb will go off in her head.
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
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Posted: 5/24/2016 9:40:38 AM

I love the lady to bits but cannot do anything about it as she feels she has to remain loyal to this jerk.


Wow, Revenne, I feel bad for you, you're in a tough spot.

If you were 20 I'd say forget about her and move on but I agree with Flaneur ... talk frankly with her, let her know how you feel, see how she reacts, what she decides to do, if anything, and then act accordingly.
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 181
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Posted: 5/24/2016 9:51:27 AM

Msg 192:
Since we initially met I found out that she was in a live in relationship with a guy who she really doesn't love and who makes no effort to pay any attention to her


It's another "Everything is his/her fault while I'm totally perfect and can do no wrong" whine. Isn't that how most cheaters start out-blaming their partner for their cheating ways? And it would be cheating if you get involved with a woman who is with another man-no matter what their relationship is like. If it was that bad, they should've gone their separate ways a long time ago. Your best bet would be to find someone who is actually single.
 boatbob2q
Joined: 3/7/2012
Msg: 182
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Posted: 9/21/2016 1:12:39 PM
To The person that tried to say,gents take off their cowboy hats,before making love,Ive done it a few times,just to make the Ladies laugh,,,You guys/Gals are too damn serious,Live life,Youre NEVER going to get another.
 boatbob2q
Joined: 3/7/2012
Msg: 183
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Posted: 9/21/2016 1:22:17 PM
To the person that advised you to go to Thailand and party,The girls (mostly) are beautiful, no education,couldnt carry a conversation in a bucket,only want you to bar fine them,shack up for the nite,AND maybe give you a case of VD,or HIV,(its said,that approximately 19% of these ladies have HIV) beem there,done that ( no VD,Thank You God)
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
Msg: 184
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Posted: 9/21/2016 4:53:52 PM
I dont know who would have the statistics for VD or HIV. How accurate would 19% be???. I figure it would be higher, if anything.
A guy I know actually married a Thai girl he knew a couple of months, whilst holidaying there. She got pregnant on the wedding night and was wanting immigration and a better way of life. He is twice her age, she doesnt love him and they are unhappy. All he saw was the hot little body and didnt think it all through. They had another unwanted child and she is stuck. She can still barely make herself intelligible after 8 years in this country and mixes only with Thais..
 dragonbytes
Joined: 9/15/2015
Msg: 185
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Posted: 9/23/2016 11:23:29 AM

To the person that advised you to go to Thailand and party,The girls (mostly) are beautiful, no education,couldnt carry a conversation in a bucket,only want you to bar fine them,shack up for the nite,AND maybe give you a case of VD,or HIV,(its said,that approximately 19% of these ladies have HIV) beem there,done that ( no VD,Thank You God)


It helps if you speak fluent Thai rather than expect a poor peasant farm woman to be able to speak fluent English. And even if I did speak Thai, I have limited interest in the royal family, gossip about actor/actresses, ghosts, sick buffalo and the latest scooter accident. Just as I l have limited interest in USA reality shows and what is going on with the Kardashians.

I doubt very much HIV is 19%, I have read in the general pop it's 1.3%, maybe VD with bar girls is 5%?. The majority of bar girls will refuse to have sex without a condom, and it's rather foolish to have sex with a sex worker without using a condom.

Despite having spent 6 months in Thailand, I have only visited 1 bar and spent time with 1 bar girl on my first visit to Thailand. My "expertise" has been from being a forum member on a Thai bar girls website where men discuss their hobby of racking up huge number of sexual encounters, to get in the big leagues you have to have sex with at least 1000 different bar girls. So they are the experts.

Personally, I like a more low key one on one approach to sex rather than having women crawl all over me, I find it a bit annoying. Sometimes college girls just like to get the newest Iphone and will looks to score, I any my wife have overheard the negotiations at restaurants.

Unlike the USA, sexual transgressions are accepted as a normal part of life, and doing sex work isn't encouraged but certainly well accepted, a low end but well paying job for those lacking a better opportunity.

My brother in law has one wife, 3 other GFs, one GF he has a child with and built her a small house, he heart was recently broken by the GF (not the one he has a child with) he has that also works in his business. She borrowed money from him and gave it to another man she also has as a BF, he was crying his eyes out over that.

I always comment to my wife, glad I don't speak Thai, it keeps me out of trouble with relatives.

I can't empathize with my brother in law, I sort of expected some drama with his complicated social situation, I was curious what form it would take. Double standards are part of society in Thailand, it's well accepted. Hard for me to apply USA Christian standards to a Buddhist culture on the opposite side of the world.
 Ladyinred0407
Joined: 2/6/2016
Msg: 186
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Posted: 9/25/2016 9:19:43 AM
LOL Two of my divorced/widowed aunts, early 70's, found men to marry them. One aunt has since divorced, the other got married about 2 weeks ago. The one aunt has her Phd in Psychology, has her own practice and the other has a BA in Nursing.
Dating in your 70's? Sure why not?
 Like2dance
Joined: 4/13/2013
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Posted: 9/25/2016 9:31:44 AM
I know a couple of guys in their seventies who still date rather successfully. One has a model quality 55 year old girlfriend.
 katz53
Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 11/18/2016 5:59:51 PM
The female equivalent of "geezer" is "Cougar" :)
 katz53
Joined: 1/13/2008
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Posted: 11/18/2016 6:01:35 PM
I'm 70 and have recently met an 84 yo who can dance me til the end of dawn. I cannot believe, at this stage in my life, that I'm having as much fun as I did when I was much younger. You just never know...
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
Msg: 190
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Posted: 11/19/2016 4:17:22 PM
I didn't date in the 70's. I was too busy celebrating the fact that I was done with school.
 professora
Joined: 7/28/2008
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Posted: 12/14/2016 4:07:36 PM
I asked my 88 year old Aunt "When will I tire of dating?

She answered with "I'm not tired yet."

BTW- Four months ago I cautiously met a former military and police officer who I met online. So far so good.

I have no advice except that it feels comfortable as we go camping, spend time at my farm, enjoy pets, and most important: family.
 dallasdoer
Joined: 2/9/2009
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Posted: 12/26/2016 1:55:29 PM
Tell her to hire a young studly "walker" [most of them are queer so if she wants sex, she'll have to pay more]
since at that age, unless she has no shame, she would probably be better off with some other old gals.
Surrender to the facts. She can do all the Zumba she wants... Older men that think like her
want younger women, especially if they will be seen in public. That's Women's Lib for ya
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 12/26/2016 4:25:13 PM

The female equivalent of "geezer" is "Cougar" :)

Ahhh, not so fast. Cougar's aren't to "geezer" stage, tho. You're referring to Jaguar.
- Puma: The pre-Cougar. To upper classmen in high school they'd see them as Cougars. These gals tend to be late 20s - early 30s. Cougars-to-be.

- Cougars: Fitting the "Milf" age-range, but no having had kids required. But more emphasis on looks to be Able to get said youth *and* want them. Usually mid-30s into the 40s.

- Jaguars: Also called "gMilfs", but grandkids not required. 50+ range. Looks and the ability to get younger men... and like Cougars, want younger men than themselves, too.

*Panthers: What would otherwise be called Cougars, but want Older men instead. Panthers can also tied into what would be Jaguars (50+). But most fitting Jaguars aren't chasing notably older men than themselves. "I saw this Cougar on the other side of the bar, so after a while I walked toward her... but then realized she's a Panther, as she was all over this Way older guy."

*Mountain Lion: What would otherwise be called Cougars, but are NOT attractive, while desiring younger men. "I saw what I thought was a Cougar on the other side of the bar eying me, but, she turned out to just be a Mountain Lion."

I'm 70 and have recently met an 84 yo who can dance me til the end of dawn. I cannot believe, at this stage in my life, that I'm having as much fun as I did when I was much younger. You just never know...

70? Your profile says 62. :) I guess nothing really does change as we get older -- our Online age as just an expression, and some women will always be pursuing men technically old enough to be their very young dad! That actually makes you a Panther. :) It seriously only makes things look promising down the road...

I asked my 88 year old Aunt "When will I tire of dating?

She answered with "I'm not tired yet."

Damn! Sounds like Blanche from GG! :)

I have no advice except that it feels comfortable as we go camping, spend time at my farm, enjoy pets, and most important: family.

I always enjoy petting when dating. After dating for a while, if there's no petting, there's no real dating...
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