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 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 151
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it sounds like he is trying to hide something from you. so i advise to proceed with caution.


Lol. That advice might fit nicely into one of those anal threads.
Condoms, and latex, have their uses, OP. I've seen commuters wearing surgical gloves maneuvering throught the Philly train stations, so as to be safe from the ickies on the stair railings, several use them on toys to ease the cleaning chores, and still others make, like, special clothes from that stuff (like wetsuits, not a real good look for me, lol).
One day, I discovered that my 12-year old step-daughter had purloined my condom stash, which was better hidden than anything else I ever had, so I immediately took them to another place. An hour later, it hit me that I was just being stoopid. I put them back where they were- if, as I suspected, she was doing that 6th grade boy she was hanging with, they each needed protection more than I did at that point.

Maybe you should be happy that your guy is a rabid, but mostly safe, condomconsumer.
 fuzzywuzzy11
Joined: 11/11/2010
Msg: 152
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Posted: 8/30/2011 2:50:20 PM
Tho it is super likely he is just shitting in his pants trying to pull a fast one on ya...

I have put lube in a condom and jacked off...like when I am at a friend's place and there is no kleenex around--or even better---if i feel crazy and want to jerk off somewhere in secret---anywhere---car, movie, restaurant, change room---somewhere illicit where the thrill is in getting away with it...then it is a cool way to go and you can stroke with out the lube drying out if you put it inside the condom---
 64LITE
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 153
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/1/2011 5:06:11 PM
DUMP HE IS FULL OF SH&*&78T.
 Crunaman
Joined: 6/23/2011
Msg: 154
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/2/2011 5:11:03 AM
Plain old bullshit.
 raiko23
Joined: 8/25/2011
Msg: 155
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/2/2011 7:02:08 PM
My now ex tried that line on me before I found out he was cheating on me. I'm sorry, but I don't know any guy in his right mind who would voluntarily use a condom to masturbate. My advice is to go with your gut feeling and don't rationalize it, because you'll regret it in the end. If he is sleeping with someone else, best to find out now than a year from now.
 My1onlyLove
Joined: 8/30/2011
Msg: 156
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/3/2011 4:44:43 AM
masterbation is a touchy subject for any one and in this forum you have mananged to find the odd one here and there who has done it and the response seems the same to me. he is obviously lieing to you, and hiding things from you. do you really want that in your life? do you really need someone like that? he seems like a peice of shit that you desperately need to get rid of and sorry for my bluntness but if you cant see whats in front of you then your an idiot and deserve it
 GrievousAngel1134
Joined: 8/22/2011
Msg: 157
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/3/2011 10:28:45 AM
I've done it a few times. I hate using a condom with a girl but will unless I know for sure I don't need to use one. That being said I also dont like to rub blisters on my Head. I like to masturbate and as said by others its a way to relieve tension or get your mind of being horny. It does make clean up easier, Sometimes I've used socks, or a shirt, or an old pillow case, but if you have a condom laying around u can just throw it strait in the garbage and your done. It doesnt mean hes cheating. Ive had gf's that we had sex at least 5 out of 7 days a week, and i'd still jerk it on the 1 or 2 days we didnt have sex. Got keep the machinery working lol. Maybe he lied maybe he didn't but what does it say about you that u ask the internets for advice?
 SlikRickAF
Joined: 8/5/2010
Msg: 158
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/3/2011 6:47:56 PM
I have done it before but not for clean up reasons. I hate.....and I mean hate condoms so much that sometimes I would lose my erection just by putting one on. So I did it to kind of get my mind used to the idea. I still hate them.
 fitzsij1
Joined: 7/9/2011
Msg: 159
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/3/2011 9:40:58 PM
Yeah,,

It's possible that he uses a condom to JO.

JOing is done in many different ways..

Some guys will use pillows, some just hand jobs, some KY jelly.

I'd give him the benefit of the doubt.

Anyone who wants to call me a JO expert should look to themselves first.

Changing Skies, do you always masturbate in the same way ??

Good luck.

Get tested and have sex bareback the way it was ment to be

Joe
 The1Artist
Joined: 8/13/2009
Msg: 160
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/4/2011 12:47:30 AM
What, has no one seen "I Love You, Man" 2009 starring Paul Rudd and Jason Segel?

There was an actual scene about this topic.

Maybe this is where he had the idea....
 homoemo
Joined: 8/19/2011
Msg: 161
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/7/2011 9:44:56 PM
I've done it numerous times, when I cum it tends to get very messy and winds up all over the place, anywhere from my hair to legs to pretty much anything within about 5 feet of my penis. If he has a similar problem then I would believe him. If not, however, you can't really prove anything one way or the other so, I'd be cautious.
 forrestw67
Joined: 5/9/2010
Msg: 162
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/8/2011 5:56:42 PM
You can bet your pretty face that he's cheating! Kick him to the curb darlin!!
 Wrenchturner
Joined: 7/30/2011
Msg: 163
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/9/2011 5:22:59 AM
He probably forgot how many you two used together and how many were left. Most guys are not detail oriented that way like women are and then he put his foot in his mouth asking you to pick up more condoms.

If you think he used those extra condoms to masturbate in I have some swamp land in Florida I would like to sell you too. He is obviously covering his ass with a bulls**t story. One thing you can be thankful for is this. You only had protected sex with him and he is having protected sex with whomever else he is sleeping with so at least you are probably safe on the whole STD front.
 genezvouspas
Joined: 12/7/2010
Msg: 164
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/9/2011 9:00:03 AM
OP , you were together for four entire days and nights and used only five condoms? You were watching tv instead of doing it or what?
 whytwater
Joined: 8/7/2008
Msg: 165
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/9/2011 10:36:23 AM
Now I'm not sure if I can trust him at all...


Maybe you should thank your lucky stars he doesn't cover his whole body in latex with sex in mind.

Seems like the consensus of responses is that he is either 1) weird, or )2 lyin'. Poor sob can't win in this crowd. Hope you're just a tad more openminded, OP. Seems there's always something, some idiosyncracy, a peculiar move or mannerism, an unusual use of "props", in each of us that might spook the faint of heart. The pof list of risks and red flags grows exponentially.
Might be way too late, OP, but I recommend you take it one day at a time.
 Prospect76
Joined: 8/21/2011
Msg: 166
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Posted: 9/9/2011 7:53:53 PM
OMG this is freaking hilarious....... No f-ing way does a guy use a condom to jack off. I am dying from this thread... You should run.....
 badassdaddy
Joined: 8/28/2007
Msg: 167
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Posted: 9/10/2011 2:30:06 AM
I've done it. If u put lube in the condom it slides up n down the shaft a litle which doea have a little better sensation than ur hand (by that I mean my hand lol). And easier to just toss it n give ur cokk a good wipe rather than cleaning lube n cum off ur fingers.
 lake_grove
Joined: 8/22/2011
Msg: 168
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/10/2011 10:19:01 AM
It's possible that he was telling the truth. Some men do use condoms when they are jerking off.
 SGRunner
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 169
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/10/2011 4:10:11 PM
For me yeah. When I can't be around my honey, I want the experience to be as close as possible to the real thing. I love her. I use a condom when I'm with her, and when I'm not, I use a condom anyway. Beat's chaffing, or using some strange oil. I think only of my honey babe, and wrapping that rascle helps make the entire experience more real!
 FyrKrakn
Joined: 2/21/2010
Msg: 170
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/11/2011 5:20:40 AM
I've known 2 men who do this. Easy clean up, just reach in the bedside table, and when done toss in the garbage. Every guy has their own way. Some can't do it standing, some can't laying down. Some prefer a pocket puzzy or something called a fleshlight, some do it staright into a sock. Same as every woman has their own way. If possible, some toys for women can be covered with a condom, again, makes clean up easier, I mean, who wants to jump out of bed to do the wash up and disinfect immediately after? A condom on the toy can be slipped off and tossed in the garbage and a general clean up of the toy can be done. Cheap condoms are fine for this because you aren't concerned with STD or pregnancy.

All the same, why BF didn't already have a stash of the cheap ones for this purpose and why he only used that few (if this is his preferred method) kind of points to some dishonesty.

But then, that's why you are using condoms right now.
 mikessp
Joined: 4/24/2011
Msg: 171
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/11/2011 5:55:06 PM
Your picture does you some real justice, you do not look that stupid, he has been banging something besides his hand honey!!!
 jaysdarts
Joined: 7/7/2011
Msg: 172
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/21/2011 8:40:17 AM
his first answer joking or not about the other girl is probably true. mess my ass there will always still be some kind of mess with a condom unless he jerks off standing up. me i perfer layed back and relaxed. i think this guy is cheating. having a towel will control the mess the little mess there is
 xb1200l
Joined: 3/11/2011
Msg: 173
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 9/22/2011 12:08:19 PM
HA ha, he used them on some other girl! dump the cheater.
 crazymultirounds
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 174
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 10/17/2011 9:44:19 PM
acutally putting a bit of lube or spit into a condom and materbating feels so much better then hands. cuz there is lube and friction every where touching your penis.

vagina is still better thats why sex with out condom is perfered.
but sex with a condom dosent feel as good becuase the sliding motion is on the out side of the condom not the inside. lube on inside can make condom slip off.

another good way is to use a ribbed condom. turn inside out and lube and put on. and wack away. its good. or hold the condom at base of penis and pinch the tip and strech condom about 1/2 -double its lengh and lower back down and repeat. the ribs rubb the penis and feel great.

ive personally used condoms alot for this purpose. :D

he may still be cheating but theres is this posibility. I have a high sex drive and masterbate 1-2 a day on average.

here is a few examples of condoms uses on jackinworld.com


http://www.jackinworld.com/techniques/jackinexpert-collection/objects-substances/the-condom-twist

http://www.jackinworld.com/techniques/jackinexpert-collection/objects-substances/two-pillows-condom

http://www.jackinworld.com/techniques/jackinexpert-collection/objects-substances/the-lube-filled-condom
 Aguywithasmile
Joined: 10/6/2011
Msg: 175
Guys, Have you ever done this? Should I believe my boyfriend?
Posted: 10/17/2011 10:21:38 PM
Pretty obvious he's lying. In fact; there's no doubt. He's clearly just another internet serial dater. ( Do you like older guys from mich...? ) ( kidding ) ;)
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