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Joined: 11/23/2008
Msg: 21
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Definitely not. Even if you were still together it is not your responsibility to dish out this amt of cash to someone that is not your spouse. Loaning it is one thing but get it in writing if you do. This girl stated she no longer loves you. She could go to the bank for a loan if she needs the operation. Even if I was with someone, I would never expect him to pay an operation or this amt of money for anything for me.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 24
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Posted: 7/17/2011 2:49:53 PM

Where were you when I had my eyes lazered?

I sure could have used the cash.
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 26
Should I pay?
Posted: 7/17/2011 3:11:51 PM
Is this question even for real?

If it is, then hell no you owe this girl NOTHING.

People are just too self centered and self absorbed anymore..............
Joined: 5/31/2011
Msg: 28
Should I pay?
Posted: 7/17/2011 3:28:50 PM
If he's signed a document stating that he would give her the money and it's notarized or has a witness, then he's in trouble. If that isn't the case, then NO, she doesn't have a case on just some oral agreement. That would be hear say or his word against hers.
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 29
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Posted: 7/17/2011 3:43:51 PM

You really don't need to give her the Two thousand or fifty dollars even you are still together ,it is not your obligation if she wants an eye cosmetic surgery , she can have it,as long it is her money to pay for it and not hustling others..
Joined: 11/18/2008
Msg: 30
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Posted: 7/17/2011 3:54:52 PM
Hell to the no! Do not give her the money. She can finance the surgery, or get hew new boyfriend, parents, siblings, or bank loan to finance it. Better yet, she can get a second job and save up for it if she wants it that bad.
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 31
Should I pay?
Posted: 7/17/2011 4:01:19 PM

I had a girlfriend we lived together for Two years she wanted eye sugary I heard a commercial for the sugary for fifteen hundred. So we made a appointment and found out that total cost would be Five thousand this was in February I told her that I couldn’t afford that but I would give her Two thousand. At the end of April she told me that she didn’t love me anymore and it was over. She has a new boyfriend and has now called me looking for the two thousand that I said I would give her. I have told her to get her new man to pay for her, that it’s not my job any more. She said she wants me to keep my word and pay her. Do I owe her this money, she’s the one who ended it.

Dude..walk away, keep your money. You don't owe her anything..that was a benefit of her being with you.

You're time to take care of her is over.
Joined: 4/19/2011
Msg: 33
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Posted: 7/17/2011 6:15:13 PM
Hell no you should not pay the only reason you said you would in the first place was because you where togther snd she broke it off
Joined: 12/25/2009
Msg: 34
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Posted: 7/17/2011 8:25:14 PM
If you don't see the answer to this, you are the one that need the eye surgery!
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 36
Should I pay?
Posted: 7/17/2011 9:05:25 PM
Yes, pay her the money. Then ask her if she wants you to buy her a vacations, all accommodators paid with her new dude. Ohh, you will even buy them two boxes of condoms, which they will not use, since they are not at that stage. While you are at it, ask her about her dental, and pay for whatever she wants done there.

Good boy. Now roll over and play dead.
Joined: 7/8/2008
Msg: 37
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:11:11 PM
^ msg.59
If I were a guy, I don't think I will burn my hard earned money just to beautify her eyes, so he can see me that I am a good catch, I would rather put it in the bank, and I am sure it will earn an enterest. And I will look for a woman who will not use me as an easy money to enhance her eyes, wrinkles,butt, boobs....

Pardon me ,I would rather turn into a transvesite and spent the money on me to turn to a beautiful he/she and hit on men..

msg.53: easy there teacher,(you ) u are not in your classroom to check his typo error.
sugary ------surgery
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 38
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Posted: 7/17/2011 9:41:40 PM
stupid is as stupid does...
Joined: 11/23/2010
Msg: 40
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Posted: 7/19/2011 10:35:13 AM
LMAO at this thread...... WOw, how come I don't run into guys like this lol!!!! I'm still trying to get an ex to pay for damage to my car 3 years ago smh!!!
Joined: 12/9/2008
Msg: 41
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Posted: 7/19/2011 1:22:24 PM
Tell that b*tch that she can kick rocks. You didn't owe her anything -prior- to breaking up. You surely don't owe her anything now.
Joined: 5/16/2008
Msg: 43
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Posted: 7/19/2011 4:55:06 PM
The fact that you actually have to ask the question (let's just forget agreeing to pay for it in the first place) makes me fear for your well-being in any relationship. For the good of mankind, PLEASE find your testicles, no woman should expect this kind of treatment.
Joined: 6/21/2010
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/19/2011 8:59:20 PM
Hell the **** no! She broke up with you, that's her loss next she riding up on some next man's****licking her lips, coming to you 4 the money. She's got some nerve. The word was broken the day she left so once again her loss.
Joined: 5/21/2008
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/20/2011 11:58:07 AM
Lol at small claims court, the judge will just laugh at her and tell her what a terrible person she is.
Joined: 8/29/2007
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/22/2011 7:43:33 AM
Good thing you found out she's a whore before you wound up getting in for more cash. Eye surgery for an ex? Tell her you can't 'see' paying for that, so maybe you should save the money to have it done yourself someday.
 Belle Requin
Joined: 2/17/2007
Msg: 51
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Posted: 7/25/2011 4:04:40 PM Really Dude- Really? You wrote into Ms. Lonely hearts too? Shame.
Joined: 6/28/2011
Msg: 53
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Posted: 7/28/2011 8:43:27 PM
helllllll no she need to find anther victim she is ab,,,h un greatfull move on man
Joined: 12/31/2009
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/29/2011 4:36:29 AM
Well it depends if you dumb or not...if you are then pay it??
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 56
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Posted: 7/30/2011 3:40:13 AM
the SECOND I read the first sentence, I knew EXACTLY what was going to happen.

Just FYI. Newsweek did a 10 year study on those that lived together and only 7% were still together after 5 years. Living together may seem convenient but it's a terrible idea. You are just 113124124124 story that proves that.

Legally, you dont' owe it and she's is quite the slime ball to still ask for it. Morally if you give it to her I think every guy in this forum will kick your butt.

NO DON'T GIVE IT TO HER!!! Wow; you need to pick a much better girl next time too. She's a peach. What a huge lack of class.
Joined: 7/3/2011
Msg: 57
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Posted: 7/30/2011 3:40:41 AM
He chose her and then lived with her for 2 years so it wasn't like someone was twisting his arm.
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 58
Should I pay?
Posted: 7/30/2011 5:52:43 AM

Is she freaking nuts? Oh Hell no you should not pay.

Not when you were living together, and ESPECIALLY not after you break up.

Sounds like my cousin's ex wife who petitioned the court for him to pay for the breast implants she got after they separated.
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 61
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Posted: 8/27/2011 3:03:41 PM
You DO NOT owe her anything! She was using you for your money. When she didn't get every last penny that she wanted, she broke up with you. She has an incredible amount of nerve to call you up & demand the $2000 after she broke up with you! She is not in a position to ask for or demand anything! Tell her if she calls again you will file a police report against her for phone harassment, & you will get a restraining order against her. If she continues to call you do it! You see people like her on the those shows where someone was murdered for something stupid. Stay away from her, she is dangerous.
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