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 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 73
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Look, Sir James. When your lady is doing her best to get you to your "happy place" and you don't have the common decency to stay awake, I'm amazed she would even bother to try again. Or was she just not that good?
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 74
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:18:10 PM
I'm with you Simlasa.
It's not a question of how much you don't think they are doing a "Good" job but the different energy levels and time. I'm also a very much morning person. Not that I can't get jiggy with it at night but sometimes a lack of sleep and work loads and energy levels just don't sync up.
And really if it was someone you'd only just met and were maybe a little uncomfortable being around, would you have the comfort level to be able to fall asleep?

Is this hole get any shallower yet?
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 75
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:19:46 PM
Sir James, you are good!!! Need any more help with that hole. I'll bring the shovels.
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 76
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:21:19 PM
Okay, so how are you in the morning?
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 77
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:21:55 PM
Great She's gonna throw the dirt back in while I'm down here!

MUCH better BTW (morning!)
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 78
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:23:31 PM
Can you blame her??? What if she fell asleep while you were going down on her? Would that not be a blow to your male ego??? BE HONEST!!!!
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 79
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Posted: 9/12/2005 6:24:44 PM
It's not always about getting to the 'happy place'...
A lot of times it's nice to just relax with someone and help them unwind and if they end up asleep then that's what they needed to do... I've done my part in putting some fine women to sleep.

K
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 80
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:28:05 PM
Yes me too Simlasa!
I never took it personal.
I never felt that my technique was suspect. I was always asked for a REPEAT performance.
Maybe my ego isn't so fragile as maybe some others! (I just know I'm gonna pay for that!)
 HB2
Joined: 5/11/2005
Msg: 81
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:31:45 PM
Now Sir.......
If you fell asleep on me it could be a dangerous thing (as you should know by now...lmao)!

Good response for getting out of trouble tho...lol

good to see ya in the threads btw
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 82
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Posted: 9/12/2005 6:32:12 PM
Some people are more goal-oriented.
Overachievers who need a big gusher to let them know they succeeded...

K
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 83
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:32:26 PM
So, you mean to tell me that you were busy licking some woman's **** and she fell asleep and you didn't take it personal. How much more personal does it get than that?
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 84
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:36:53 PM
simlasa, when I'm down there making my man feel good the goal is not to put him to sleep. If that were the goal I'd read to him from the dictionary!
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 85
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Posted: 9/12/2005 6:37:44 PM
She was tired and had had a hard day... she was upset... I calmed her down... she took a nap... I made dinner... it was a nice evening...

Didn't take nothing personal cause that was what I meant to happen.

K

PS... Don't dare be calling me a 'nice guy' either... I did it for all kinds of self-serving piratey reasons that paid off in the long run... arrrrrggghhhh!
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 86
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:38:07 PM
Hey Hotbush! glad to see you again!
No I never took it personal and actually thought it quite funny.
I just cleaned up and curled up next to them and when we both woke up late it was full steam ahead!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 87
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 6:39:31 PM
You are a rare man indeed, Sir James!
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 90
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Posted: 9/12/2005 7:14:33 PM
Yep...
Let yourself space
get a messy face

That's what my dad always says...

K
 Bright Delight 4 U
Joined: 12/29/2004
Msg: 91
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Posted: 9/12/2005 7:17:55 PM
Okay, I have to join 'the BJ to nap by' group. I had had very little sleep over a few days, had done a lot of physical activities, and to top it off, we had just made passionate love about an hour before 'she was going to give me a BJ like I had never had before.' It felt wonderful, however, she wasn't too talented, and I slowly, & delightfully nodded off.
P.S. Was she ever pissed off 'cause "She was the Best". To bad her talent wasn't as good as her inflated ego. Anyway, I'm just posting this to show that circumstances can dictate the mind & body. So it's happened once to me, out of how many?????? Actually, right now I wish there was someone under my desk doing a Monica Lewinski. I envy that lucky President. Imagine having a set of lips under every desk !!!
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 93
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 7:48:27 PM
You know sometimes the journey is as much fun as the destination.
I don't always cum from every sexual encounter. I don't expect to and I'm not dissapointed if I don't. Just to have someone else there is good enough for me. I also don't have a problem if the women I'm sharing this particular moment reaches the big "O" either. I'm not a race car driver. Sometimes I just don't get to finish a race.
The question should be, "Did you enjoy your time together?". If the answer is "Yes" then you've really accomplished what you set out to do in the first place.

And thats not a smooth answer. It come from my experience and my heart. That's from the book of Sir James. Soon to be on a bookstore shelf nearest you.
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 94
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 8:08:30 PM
Believe it or not, Sir James, I totally agree with you on that note. Just giving you a hard time. The intimacy is important. If you get to the destination that's great but it's not the most important part, the journey is.
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 96
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Posted: 9/12/2005 8:29:49 PM
Sir James...

Has that changed for you with age?
Did it used to be 'checkered flag' or bust?

Just curious.
K
 sammysalt
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 98
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:07:40 PM

He fell asleep! Thats funny and yet not.
 Sir James
Joined: 9/7/2004
Msg: 99
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:09:03 PM
At Simlasa
If your refering to pleasing a women, by oral only, I've never tried to be an all or nothing kind of guy. I was lucky that I had several books fall into my hands at a very early age and I became a student of the female body and it's responses to various stimuli. Any lack of reactions I took as negative responses to the current experiment and changed my parameters to try new stimuli. I must say with age, I have found that certain oral techniques along with the application of internal stimulis of a personal nature have resulted in excellent results.
Any lack of response was just looked at as a chance to try new stimulis at the first opportunity. Apparently my success has garnered a certain noterity and I do not lack for new subjects for my trials. My only failure, I've been told is that I'm not getting the message when they flirt with me.
 Simlasa
Joined: 10/30/2004
Msg: 100
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Posted: 9/12/2005 9:20:47 PM
Thanks,
Yes, that's pretty much what I meant.
My assumption being that at a younger age people tend to want to 'measure up' more and prove things to themselves. Look for overt symbols of accomplishment.
And that with age/wisdom/experience (not all arrive at the same time) people start to enjoy the subtleties and nuances of these things... how in a good relationship a couple may spend a length of time 'making love' without ever taking off their clothes or even touching each other... and that these things don't need to follow preconceived paths that always lead to the same conclusion.

Just a thought or opinion or something...
K
 Cubano
Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 101
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/12/2005 9:22:39 PM
try tickling his balls while you're blowing him. I know that would keep me the hell awake!!!
 sweet995
Joined: 7/19/2005
Msg: 103
Falling asleep during a BJ
Posted: 9/13/2005 2:34:19 AM
Experience rocks, ladies and gentlemen!!!!!
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