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 tracemania
Joined: 9/18/2009
Msg: 76
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Just because a woman is sexually active does not mean shes a slut.
 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 77
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Posted: 7/20/2011 9:33:28 PM
15 does seem excessive. She may have a prolific sex life and at least she is being responsible and is prepared.....Many men hate the idea of a condom but I wouldnt countenance any sort of sex without them. Even oral sex can be a disease prone experience.....especially when you are just meeting casually or dont really know the person's history.

NO BALLOON NO PARTY

 femaleandflirty
Joined: 7/16/2011
Msg: 78
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Posted: 7/20/2011 9:38:23 PM
And if she is a slut what business is it of anyone else??? Men can be studs and they are applauded for it.

You can get condoms that come a cassette type thing that used be able to be kept in a car cassette player but I guess that is old fashioned now. Super idea.....I have also seen some that are tricked up as ear rings.....You could probably get a pendant that would carry a few and still be pretty jewellery.

Seriously though anyone that is so well prepared is to be congratulated.

 Flipgirl24
Joined: 7/20/2010
Msg: 79
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Posted: 7/20/2011 9:47:26 PM
[Quote]You replace them with a fresh pack of Magnums I hope? just because the last pack went unused does not mean you shoud not be prepared in the future. Hope springs eternal.And yes in your case I most certainly was curious.


Of course! One always has to look forward to future endeavours and be prepared. Thought this thread was amusing... maybe the OPs friend was hoping they'd hook up one day...too bad he called her a slut.
 ChrisD1957
Joined: 12/20/2010
Msg: 80
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Posted: 7/21/2011 10:00:30 AM

I'd call her a hoe


Hmmm...29 years old and your profession is college student? Id call you a bum.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 81
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Posted: 7/21/2011 10:36:33 AM

How am I being an ass? I'm just wondering why women have condoms in the nightstand or in their room. Isn't it our job to bring that to the bedroom?


You know.. you might be an upstanding, honest, respectable kind of guy who actually practices safe(r) sex without complaining about how condoms make your penis soft, or how uncomfortable they are, or how you can't get off while wearing one, and always have one with you at all times, or whatever.. but there ARE men who use those excuses to try and convince a woman that just once without one won't matter.

Is she a slut because she has them? Because she's prepared for any situations? Because she might have been burned in the past and doesn't want to repeat that situation? Because she's proactively taking responsibility for her sexual health and contraceptive options?

I have about.. oh.. 2-3 dozen or so here. Why? I have an IUD so it's not for birthcontrol purposes. I've been in a long term relationship for 3.5 yrs, so it's not for disease prevention. I'm not sleeping with others (despite what you may or may not hear about me).

My dad.. yes.. my DAD.. taught me to be a good boy scout. I have male spawn that I fully expect to have need of condoms at some point, and if I ever hear of them pulling the "I don't have one on me, I promise I won't cum inside.." crap on any girl, I will personally castrate them myself.

We.. yes.. WE.. use them on toys sometimes because it makes clean up fast and easy. Plus they are left over from when we were just starting to date.. I got a great rate on bulk condoms. Yes.. I check expiration dates and condition of them on a regular basis and use the old ones on the toys first.

She's being responsible and unless you are sleeping with her, what business is it of yours anyway?
 HarDayKnight
Joined: 12/27/2007
Msg: 82
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Posted: 7/21/2011 11:27:31 AM
Is it just me or is this post totally sexist?



Yeah. It's just you. What you took from the OP reflects on where your mind goes. Would you have thought it was sexist for a woman to ask this about a man?




She is a smart girl and you are an ass.



Maybe she is smart, or maybe she IS a slut (Which isn't always a bad thing. Depending on who you ask.). We don't know. He's a smart guy for not assuming the former without regard for the latter... If the latter is a problem for him. If it is, then he has the right to be more discriminating of who spends his time with, than the next person might be. I've read a few of your posts in other threads, and you calling someone an ass is a bit ironic.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 83
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Posted: 7/21/2011 11:45:07 AM
namrael

Interesting. If someone offers to give me a massage, I'm going to assume they mean massage. Because anyone I'm going to sleep with will be adult enough to actually TALK to me about their motives and not be that skeezy guy giving me a massage for other reasons, unless we're already established as sexual partners.


There's a huge difference between offering to give a massage, and asking to receive one. If I offer to give a massage, it more than likely has no intentions attached to it, unless SHE also wants to escalate it to another level. With that said most of the times when the lady requested the massage, she had intentions to escalate it.

I have some cycling friends that are women. Sometimes they have been in back or shoulder pain after a ride. I have offered, they have received, nothing more happened.
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 7/21/2011 2:07:14 PM

I'd call her a hoe


Hmmm...29 years old and your profession is college student? Id call you a bum.


Just a career change...acutally getting a second degree.
 EG63
Joined: 1/13/2010
Msg: 85
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Posted: 7/21/2011 4:53:03 PM

What do you think of a woman that has condoms in her bedroom at all times? Is she just prepared, or does she think sex is the meaning of any date? Do tell, since a girl I know has like 15 in her nightstand.


I think she shops at COSTCO.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 86
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:26:36 PM
I think "What a smart girl" Then I wonder.... will those be enough..... LOLOLOL....JK
 Jamesmaltby25
Joined: 5/11/2011
Msg: 87
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:28:01 PM
It's better that she has them no? If she didn't have them and either did the guy.. and the guy pressures her into having sex without a condom, that can be a very bad outcome.. better safe than sorry.
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 88
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:33:44 PM
So you are saying she's weak and has no self respect and can't say no huh?
 Jamesmaltby25
Joined: 5/11/2011
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:37:16 PM
Anybody can be.. I don't know her so I can't say that..
I've known lots of girls to carry Condoms. Its just there "in case"
 oldsoul_new1911
Joined: 7/18/2011
Msg: 90
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Posted: 7/21/2011 5:43:23 PM

What do you think of a woman that has condoms in her bedroom at all times?

I've never snooped through a woman's bedroom before.
If I did see them I wouldn't think anything though, really.
As I have no idea if she bought them, or her mom bought them, or friends, or Eugene Levy bought them for her along with some porn mags on the day she became a "woman."

I have no idea if she bought as many as she could at the time because she is highly embarrassed, didn't know how many to buy, because it's novel to her, and didn't want to go back.

I don't know if she confiscated them from her son.

I don't know if she puts them on her toys to make clean up easier. Maybe she masturbates constantly and likes the easy cleanup and free lube or something.

I don't know if she is anal retentive and really only wanted a 3 pack, but she stayed up late the night before worrying about what if those broke, and she got pregnant, so wants to wrap it 3 times to try and be as safe as possible, or just because she has OCD.

All of those are people that I've met (except for the Eugene Levy thing, replace that with "cool dad sending daughter off to college).

So based on my experience I wouldn't really think anything. I'd wait until I knew something. And that would be based on what she does rather than what she owns.
 egowitch
Joined: 6/5/2011
Msg: 91
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:06:15 PM
Now - if she had 15 USED condoms in her nightstand , THAT might be something more interesting to write about ...

But condoms at the ready ?
Means she's a sensible , realistic , and wise woman in my book !

Might be time for you to catch up to the rest of the world .
 afashionlady
Joined: 4/19/2008
Msg: 92
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:15:13 PM

So you are saying she's weak and has no self respect and can't say no huh?


And I'm saying you're a pretty good imitation of a sexist boy. Seriously, any woman who has ANY amount of condoms in her possession isn't necessarily slutty. Some of you men are so freakin judgmental...and will be the FIRST ones to screw a pooch.

Instead of tossing around slut, whore, hoe and the like, THINK about it for a minute. Wouldn't you rather a woman handle her business like a grownup? If we wait on men to bring condoms, well guess what? Some of ya'll DON'T...and still expect to get the cookie.

Get over yourself already. The way you've reacted, you would be lucky that a woman with condoms would want to deal with you.
 Naadirah
Joined: 6/3/2011
Msg: 93
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Posted: 7/21/2011 6:52:15 PM
***It sounds like is she has purchased at least 5 boxes of 3 packs.***

They were stored in a respectable place, readily available if/when needed. Unfortunately, men do not like them and tend to be full of excuses or never have them available, yet are always eager for sex.

It's better to be safe than sorry. I'm not currently sexually active, but it doesn't keep me from being prepared. I've picked up some different options, variety, one would never know which works best.
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 94
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:04:40 PM

Are you just messing with my head or what? I guess a good Christian boy like your self does not need any because you will not be having any sexual relationships with your lady until after marriage right? Well good for you!
Like I said before… I think you are on the wrong site. Because for someone who is saying they are going back for a second degree you do not sound too smart to me. I would agree with the last guy’s comment about you.


Never said I was a Christian really...as explained above I just celebrate Christian holidays because thats what my parents are. Actually the whole religion thing makes me sick and I think is the problem with this world. Acutally every war fought just about roots to relgion in one way or another. What I'm saying is no one waits and sex has no meaning now days. Thats what I think is wrong. Its just freely given out.
 barefootkitten
Joined: 12/17/2009
Msg: 95
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:18:09 PM

What I'm saying is no one waits and sex has no meaning now days. Thats what I think is wrong. Its just freely given out.
You have no idea what sex means to the people who choose to have it, because you aren't one of them. Sex means something different to everyone as well....for everyone to whom it means nothing, there's just as many that see it as an important part of a relationship and showing affection for their chosen partner.

I don't know what you classify as "freely given out", but last time I checked I don't go into a crowded room of men, throw myself on my back, spread up and declare, "Have at 'er boys!" Just because someone chooses to have sex does not mean they are giving it away freely. For many, it is a way to connect with ONE PERSON in a committed relationship to build intimacy and express their love for the other. Spare me the "then you should get married first" because I would NEVER marry someone I hadn't had sex with because I understand that not all people are sexually compatible and I don't want to be married to someone with whom my sex life would be lacking. There are many things you could never know about someone until after you've had sex with them, and those of us SMART enough to recognize this are those that choose not to lock into a contract without checking out the fine print first.
 Lostncalgary
Joined: 2/1/2007
Msg: 96
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:26:42 PM
well if ya forget urs, ya still going to get some hahhahahhaha
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:39:28 PM
barefootkitten- Oh but thats also why you are single mother...yeah sex is great once you start popping out kids right? haha...see why you should wait? Who wants to tell their kids they were an accident or a condom broke or birth control failed or the guy was stupid and didn't pull out?
 barefootkitten
Joined: 12/17/2009
Msg: 98
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Posted: 7/21/2011 7:47:03 PM
barefootkitten- Oh but thats also why you are single mother...yeah sex is great once you start popping out kids right? haha...see why you should wait? Who wants to tell their kids they were an accident or a condom broke or birth control failed or the guy was stupid and didn't pull out?
I'm a single mother because I chose to have sex in a committed relationship and our bc failed. And yep, the sex was great! (Note: I've never "popped out" kidS, I only have one child and I can certainly say she didn't just "pop out"!) I CHOSE to keep the child I became pregnant with and have never once regretted it. I support mine and do just fine and wouldn't trade my child for the world. If I had chosen to wait I never would have my beautiful little girl. It doesn't matter HOW my daughter came into the world, just that she's here!
 4u_a_spclsom1
Joined: 4/2/2011
Msg: 99
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Posted: 7/21/2011 8:21:51 PM
Wow gunz, you sound like you need to get laid. Don't forget to bring a condom because unless she's a virgin, you will be sleeping with every man before you. Don't bring more than one though, you don't want to look like you're easy.
Oh ya, you might want to come down off your pedestal, sex in high places can be dangerous to your health.

 Attained82
Joined: 9/29/2010
Msg: 100
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Posted: 7/21/2011 8:25:45 PM
There is nothing wrong with having condoms in the nightstand... its better to be safe than sorry and if you have a guy over and things are getting heated up, its better to have them around...

p.s. its also recommended to use condoms on your "toys" to avoid bacteria growth.. perhaps she has toys and likes to keep em clean!
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