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 Attained82
Joined: 9/29/2010
Msg: 100
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There is nothing wrong with having condoms in the nightstand... its better to be safe than sorry and if you have a guy over and things are getting heated up, its better to have them around...

p.s. its also recommended to use condoms on your "toys" to avoid bacteria growth.. perhaps she has toys and likes to keep em clean!
 Easygoin68a
Joined: 5/17/2011
Msg: 101
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Posted: 7/21/2011 8:55:16 PM
Sounds like a fair question.

Maybe she has a friend that comes over, and she is trying to be safe. she could be keeping her sexual appetite from you, as you and her are just friends.

The best part of your post, is when you were called an ass for asking the question... I had to chuckle when I read.

Like I said in the beginning, I thought it was a fair question...

Im enjoying reading the comments.
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 102
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Posted: 7/21/2011 9:03:00 PM

Massages often lead to sex...
Either deliberately or not...

One of the best things though is women who figure they've got the game figured out.. They're usually the easiest to get into bed.... Because they know what's going on... or at least, they think they do....


And I do so appreciate the heavy implication that I'm too naive and stupid to read the people that I know and you don't.

I'm trained in a massage technique. Massage is a distinctly nonsexual experience for me. I expect the people who are interested in me to be forthright enough to tell me if they want more than to give me a massage. If they aren't, I'll pick up on those vibes and be uncomfortable enough not to accept a massage from them. And at any rate, I'm perfectly capable of telling someone I'm not interested in to mind where their hands wander.

Just because you only know a single, underhanded game, doesn't mean that that's true for everyone. My views might actually have some validity in my life, just maybe.
 Sin_Sational_Lady
Joined: 10/27/2010
Msg: 103
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Posted: 7/21/2011 10:13:38 PM
I am a woman who keeps an appropiate number of condoms in my nightstand. In this day and age, you have to take responsibility , with STD and HIV rates on a constant rise, you must be prepared. This does not make you a hore or a slut...just sexually aware. And no, every date does not end in sex, so thats a bas assumption to make. At least you know she is practicing safe sex...
 ChrisD1957
Joined: 12/20/2010
Msg: 104
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Posted: 7/22/2011 6:56:01 AM

I'd call her a hoe


Hmmm...29 years old and your profession is college student? Id call you a bum.


Just a career change...acutally getting a second degree


So bascially you are saying that with the small amount of information at my disposal I shouldnt make an overall judgement of your character. Hmmm.... interesting concept.
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
Msg: 105
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Posted: 7/22/2011 7:26:18 AM
And with it just being me and the only payments I basically have right now are my college expenses...sure you can call mea bum...I have no one supporting me and I have no one to support. Hell I even tried to qualify for medical assistance but I'm too rich for that I guess. I thought for sure since I was a bum I'd qualify for medical assistance but nope!
 1234deleted1234
Joined: 10/8/2009
Msg: 106
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Posted: 7/22/2011 7:43:47 AM
^^^^ and hand lotion!
 ChrisD1957
Joined: 12/20/2010
Msg: 107
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Posted: 7/22/2011 7:46:41 AM
gunz058.... Seriously, I couldn't care less about your situation. I was making a point. Far too often people on here will make an overall assessment of a person with almost no information. Calling them "hoes" or "sluts" Character assassination based on a post or a one paragraph profile.

Unfortunately many people on online dating sites are insecure enough to take some of these remarks to heart. In all reality these types of comments tell me more about the person responding than they do about the OP
 ksready11
Joined: 6/12/2011
Msg: 108
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Posted: 7/22/2011 7:47:56 AM
I have some left over from my last relationship...they are there..and won't be used until I am in another relationship...so I don't think thats a bad thing.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 109
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Posted: 7/22/2011 8:16:22 AM

gunz058.... Seriously, I couldn't care less about your situation. I was making a point. Far too often people on here will make an overall assessment of a person with almost no information. Calling them "hoes" or "sluts" Character assassination based on a post or a one paragraph profile.


Good point, but gunzo, takes the high ground, that he is better than anybody else that has dwelled in the desires of the flesh. So consequently he takes great pride in his virginity and by the high standards that he sets for himself, matrimony, relationships he more than likely will remain a virgin for quite some time.
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 7/22/2011 8:19:00 AM
better throw those condoms out...bet they will expire before your next relationship

As for calling someone a whore or slut? 1 partner or 100 doesn't make a difference to me really...all get thrown in that category.
 Kitten189
Joined: 5/25/2011
Msg: 111
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Posted: 7/22/2011 9:45:44 AM

As for calling someone a whore or slut? 1 partner or 100 doesn't make a difference to me really...all get thrown in that category.


So,when and if you DO actually get laid,you're going to be a whore/slut like the rest of us.
Too funny.
Im goin' to bed.
Night all.
 CMonster
Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 112
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Posted: 7/22/2011 11:51:55 AM

I am a woman who keeps an appropiate number of condoms in my nightstand.

Gotta ask, how many does one need to have in order to have the appropriate amount and does the number differ between gender?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 113
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Posted: 7/22/2011 1:11:17 PM
As for calling someone a whore or slut? 1 partner or 100 doesn't make a difference to me really...all get thrown in that category.

Then take an English course while you're in college so you learn the meanings of common English words and don't use words in ways that are inconsistent with their definitions. Substituting your own definitions usually prevents people from understanding what you are trying to say while simulateneously providing them with a lot of reasons to dismiss what you say as uneducated ranting.

but gunzo, takes the high ground, that he is better than anybody else that has dwelled in the desires of the flesh.

I have to disagree somewhat with you here, Outmind. People who take the high ground aren't refer to others who have different attitudes about sex as whores and sluts. People who do those things are taking the path they're on because it was the only one open to them and they're bitter because of it. The high ground implies some sense of ethics that rises above being holier-than-thou.
 funguy02379
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 114
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Posted: 7/22/2011 1:50:49 PM
That is how i test to see if a woman practices safe sex , if she knows that sex is in the near future and we end up at her place i will pretend not have a condom, if she pulls one out then i feel safer with her.........i always have my own though.

Sounds fishy but, it's eases my mind when she is prepared as well
 totalazzhole
Joined: 3/27/2011
Msg: 115
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Posted: 7/22/2011 4:00:56 PM
neither gunz058's left hand nor his right is virgin..both are dirty worn-out sluts/whores by his own definition..

not to mention any ripe melons or kumquats in the vicinity as well as warm chopped liver
 My_Guy
Joined: 6/7/2008
Msg: 116
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Posted: 7/22/2011 4:25:11 PM
Ha !
He thought she just wanted a message!
 Pingshooter
Joined: 3/15/2009
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Posted: 7/22/2011 8:26:51 PM

As for calling someone a whore or slut? 1 partner or 100 doesn't make a difference to me really...all get thrown in that category.


You are sure wooing the ladies here on POF that read this thread..wow..
Yeah, you're someone they'd like to date...NOT

Your 'roids affecting your cognitive thought process man?
 namrael
Joined: 8/10/2008
Msg: 118
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Posted: 7/22/2011 8:44:41 PM


Interesting. If someone offers to give me a massage, I'm going to assume they mean massage. Because anyone I'm going to sleep with will be adult enough to actually TALK to me about their motives and not be that skeezy guy giving me a massage for other reasons, unless we're already established as sexual partners.


That's ok.... Assumptions are the realm of the naive...




And I do so appreciate the heavy implication that I'm too naive and stupid to read the people that I know and you don't.


I wasn't referring to you...
But then, maybe you didn't read my intent correctly...


Seemed pretty clear to me. Perhaps you didn't communicate your intent correctly?
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
Msg: 119
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Posted: 7/22/2011 8:53:02 PM
I think she's a smart woman.

I keep two in my purse. You never know.
 rickb121
Joined: 7/1/2011
Msg: 120
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Posted: 7/24/2011 9:50:05 AM
I think if a woman has condoms in her bedroom she is thinking with the right head because if he didnt bring them he 's not planning right just easy unsafe sex ... is not cool .....Richard from Augusta ....
 PittsburghVixen
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 121
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Posted: 7/24/2011 10:09:13 AM
So,when and if you DO actually get laid,you're going to be a whore/slut like the rest of us.
Too funny.


Your 'roids affecting your cognitive thought process man?


^^^^^ HAHAHAHA ^^^^^ good ones - ZING!

Gunz is just itching for karma (that beyotch!) to bring him down. Too bad we probably won't get to pull up a chair and watch the process. Save the buttered popcorn for another show...
 gunz058
Joined: 4/5/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2011 10:25:07 AM

: So,when and if you DO actually get laid,you're going to be a whore/slut like the rest of us.
Too funny.



Your 'roids affecting your cognitive thought process man?


^^^^^ HAHAHAHA ^^^^^ good ones - ZING!

Gunz is just itching for karma (that beyotch!) to bring him down. Too bad we probably won't get to pull up a chair and watch the process. Save the buttered popcorn for another show...


Well I was going to just keep quiet but when some 52 year old hag decides to bring me up again I guess its time to respond. If I was still single at 52 I'd give up on life. And as far as roids? never did roids...hell I've never done anything drug wise that was illegal. I might as well have done roids though cause its not like I am using my nuts but I wouldn't want the other side effects.
 Red Fish GF
Joined: 12/3/2009
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Posted: 7/24/2011 10:30:25 AM
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I can't believe this thread didn't get flagged for deletion due to : Utter and total stupidity.



I agree and I thought posts directed at one person were against the rules. This thread has gone completely off topic which was a stupid question to begin with.
 Santababy70
Joined: 7/20/2011
Msg: 124
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Posted: 7/24/2011 10:48:01 AM
She is probably being smart & not depending on a guy to be safe when having sex. I think its great that she is thinking of safety for her and her partner.
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