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 pinkoleander
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 153
What do women want?Page 7 of 17    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17)
A straight guy who owns a shoe store. And has a big ****.
 RazaMixta
Joined: 1/19/2011
Msg: 154
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Posted: 7/25/2011 10:32:11 PM
^^^ Hahahaha Pinkoleander and velmaValento.... Brilliant!

So, I want a francophone with a travel agency and between the 3 of us we can be in business.
Yesss, love books and shoes!

And the other thing goes without saying, no?
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 155
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Posted: 7/25/2011 10:33:15 PM

A straight guy who owns a shoe store. And has a big ****.

Wallet?
 Kitten189
Joined: 5/25/2011
Msg: 158
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:33:35 AM

^^^ Hahahaha Pinkoleander and velmaValento.... Brilliant!

So, I want a francophone with a travel agency and between the 3 of us we can be in business.
Yesss, love books and shoes!

+ one! Yep,count *me* in,too.
Though id happily settle for a chocolate shop/cafe
Oh,and the BIG...................
Yeh,baby.....................
 RazaMixta
Joined: 1/19/2011
Msg: 159
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Posted: 7/26/2011 1:06:10 AM
Purrrfect Kitten127 ... The missing piece: Chocolate et al mmm-mm

So let me add this up,
Shoes
Books
Travel
Chocolate/cafe
and each with our own BIG .....

I guess I'll have to change my profile a little. brb
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 160
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Posted: 7/26/2011 2:28:14 AM
And it all comes down to the big c0ck.... and yet they get upset when you send proof of the pudding .....
(because really a woman could own her own shoe store, book store, cafe, travel agency or chocaliatier on her own. )
so hint to all the guys that want to send the pr@ck pics, add some shoes or chocolates to the photo.

Just inked the deal to be in Kiev - Winter in town, summers in Odessa
enjoy the puddle of fish.
 joeybogoatis
Joined: 11/4/2006
Msg: 161
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Posted: 7/26/2011 4:09:15 AM
I find that being a free site. It seems to me that a lot of the woman use this site to get their kicks. They Love the attention that they may not be getting in whatever. I'd try a paying site. I am fixing to do this myself. Good luck fishing in these murky waters.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 162
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Posted: 7/26/2011 4:43:03 AM

So let me add this up,
Shoes
Books
Travel
Chocolate/cafe
and each with our own BIG .....



my list would be more like:
scratch the shoes and make it a hardware store
Books
Travel
scratch the Chocolate/cafe and make it a fruit tree farm
and a nice average sized
 Yew4ics
Joined: 9/30/2010
Msg: 163
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Posted: 7/26/2011 5:08:11 AM
I added mine at the bottom. and I'll take that banana right there please...no not that one. The bigger one behind it. Yes, that one's perfect. Thank you. *smiling*

Shoes
Books
Travel
Chocolate/cafe
Antique jewelry
 Paddy_o_Lantern
Joined: 12/9/2009
Msg: 164
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Posted: 7/26/2011 7:29:48 AM
A guy who can breathe through his ears with an IPAD on the top of his head?
 kobieta_zlota
Joined: 6/27/2011
Msg: 165
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Posted: 7/26/2011 7:30:46 AM
Amen to that, fit! I asked a guy/friend "what do men look for in a woman" and his reply was:
"For sex or for a lasting relationship? The motivations are different." He went on to say that he would look for someone he'd be able to have a conversation with after the sex was over. I believe that men and women are not so different after all.
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
Msg: 166
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Posted: 7/26/2011 7:35:09 AM




A straight guy who owns a shoe store. And has a big ****.

Wallet?


Haven't you ever worked a crossword puzzle? We're looking for a 4 letter word, not 6 letters.

big EGO ?? no, only has 3 letters
big TRUCK?? no, 5 letters
big CAR? no, 3 letters
big AUTO? Ding Ding Ding, we have a winner! Women want a straight guy who owns a shoe store and has a big AUTO!
 RichenLosAngeles
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 167
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Posted: 7/26/2011 7:42:20 AM
Pink - I thought about your wish list, then I remembered Al Bundy at the mall shoe store, and it didn't seem so appealing.
I'll stick with what I have now, and some shoe "shopping" with my friend, it's kind of like a sex drug for women.
 CumberlandIsTheBestLand
Joined: 7/2/2011
Msg: 168
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Posted: 7/26/2011 8:58:49 AM

They all want something different.
This. It goes for men, too.
 Rancloff
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 169
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Posted: 7/26/2011 10:41:45 AM
None of these conversations about shoe stores and genital sizes is constructive to the Original Poster's comment. He seems to be getting passed over, or can't seem to get women's attention on POF. I have offered my advice (work out and get in shape) it is one thing that has helped me out as far as getting more responses. Perhaps others can give advice on what to say or not to say, what kind of photos to use. All of this would be useful information to the OP and others including myself.
So, short of loaning him cash to open a shoe store or money for a penile enlargement, does anyone have any useful information that may help him?
 ladyc4
Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 170
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Posted: 7/26/2011 11:13:33 AM
Nah,abelian...
wallet is 6 letters.
As far as pictures of the "merchandise"- oh HELL no...how do we know it's really him and not some creative Photoshop -or copied from a porn website? We'll see for ourselves when (and if) the time comes...

However, what I want is a guy with a big ****, a classic car sales business and an Arabian horse farm...endurance racing horses, not prancy-ass show horses.

Hey, a girl can dream, can't she?
Cindy O
 pinkoleander
Joined: 6/2/2011
Msg: 171
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Posted: 7/26/2011 11:38:10 AM
A straight guy who owns a shoe store. And has a big ****.



Abelian, don't you have a graduate degree? Wallet isn't spelled with four letters. Try again. Buy one vowel only.
 RichenLosAngeles
Joined: 11/14/2010
Msg: 172
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Posted: 7/26/2011 11:48:49 AM
Hmmmm,
straight guy? check.
big ****? check.
shoe store? nope.
Will 2 out of 3 work?
 Rancloff
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 173
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:01:50 PM
velmaValento and cathysaint,
I wasn't referring to you in particular. Let's be honest, anyone who creates a profile on a singles website and doesn't include a picture isn't really in a position to give anyone advice on improving their chances. Not trying to be cruel or anything but who even reads a profile without a picture? No one, that's who.
 valenciacityx
Joined: 3/10/2009
Msg: 174
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:02:39 PM
What is it that you want ?
Want for what - do you mean for lunch ? for jewelry? for a puppy? for a sports car>? what do I want for what - what is your point ?
What do you want from a relationship to be happy?
I am already happy, you are talking riddles.
What is there that I could do for you in our relationship to help you to be happier?
Look, this is annoying question - I am already happy, you wish to be with happiness with me, quit asking me stupid pointless questions; when are you coming for breakfast ?
Soon
When soon is tomorrow I will be happier.

Yep, It is indeed a pointless question ;) Even in Russian.
 abelian
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 175
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:08:27 PM
Abelian, don't you have a graduate degree? Wallet isn't spelled with four letters.

Yeah, but I never claimed it was a guarantee of knowing anything useful, like how to count.

big AUTO? Ding Ding Ding, we have a winner! Women want a straight guy who owns a shoe store and has a big AUTO!

It could also be NOSE or DEBT or ARSE if in the UK. (Did I count right? I used my fingers this time.)
 RazaMixta
Joined: 1/19/2011
Msg: 176
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:32:54 PM

None of these conversations about shoe stores and genital sizes is constructive to the Original Poster's comment. He seems to be getting passed over, or can't seem to get women's attention on POF. I have offered my advice (work out and get in shape) it is one thing that has helped me out as far as getting more responses. Perhaps others can give advice on what to say or not to say, what kind of photos to use. All of this would be useful information to the OP and others including myself.
So, short of loaning him cash to open a shoe store or money for a penile enlargement, does anyone have any useful information that may help him?


Thank you Rancloff for making my day. I honestly thought no truly interested men where actually reading this thread, only trolls who like to 'twist' ideas.

*Many women have posted serious replies, mine included. Although a little comic relief is absolutely essential, which is what we're having here at this moment.
So a good sense of humor is a must. We need to laugh.

*K, photos? An absolute must. Clear, a couple, reas0nably close showing the eyes and a fully clothed body. RECENT ones!! Women get the wrong impression when a man shows too much skin... we like it but ... I speak for myself, I don't take the guy seriously because I think he wants sex first or just sex, and that's just not my style. Most of us think it's tacky.

*Profile content: Avoid being negative at all costs ... is ... Not too long not too short. Punctuation is important and separate paragraphs. It's really hard for some to read a solid wall of letters. We tend to go "next!". Be yourself, be honest (always!) A flaw ahead of time is acceptable, but after it becomes a deal breaker ... mostly because of the deceit. Do not lie about your age/height/weight. It's called sudden death.
Rather than the content I tend to glean more from the style of writing, his attention to detail, why he chooses the photos he does or say what he says, is he lazy? Because a poorly written or stingy profile tells me what kind of effort he will be putting in our potential relationship.

*Initial contact: do not cut and paste anything. We know. We are tired of the "hi babe" approach ... Make it interesting, not a book, just a couple of sentences including what you see in us besides our cute photos. Give us something, a reason to reply to you!
Remember you are seeking quality not quantity.
I think if a person does not reply is a clear indication that they are someone who you'd not want to meet anyway. You just found out sooner than later how rude they are! jmo.

*My personal needs/wants - because we ARE all different - in order of priority are:
-Respect, this includes honesty and "doing onto others..."
-Staying loose: willingness to consider other options, always growing, a sense of humor

-Humility: having a sense of ¨Creator¨ and awe for all creations and creatures, taking responsibility for oneself and not blaming, willing to forgive.
-Easy communication, it´s there or it isn´t ... a personality thing.
-Tolerance: cannot be with judgmental black or white thinking. The world is but one country and humankind it´s citizens. I need to be with broadminded, traveled, multilingual people.
-Good Physical Health: aside from the fact that it is liberty in itself and more fun, it shows emotional and mental health. A man that looks after himself is very attractive to me .... much more than the size of his nose, his , your wallet or even his toys.
-Generosity: this one melts me every time! Not necessarily about money, more with time and effort. A man walked me home the other day at 6am after a party ... 10 blocks which he had to walk back as well (we are both pedestrians by choice), and it was the sweetest thing!

Hope this helped... if not read my profile... ´Tis all there.

Raza
 Rancloff
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 177
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:45:15 PM
Look, everyone is arguing semantics. The question is not what does this woman want or that particular woman want, it's a generalized question, what is (generally speaking) more appealing to women? What are some tips that will help this gentleman attract more women to his profile or get more responses.
Here's an example, I created my profile several years ago and never really got much of anything going with it. I tried to be cute, funny, nice, whatever I thought would work. I did eventually date two women from POF but there was never really a spark there. I decided to get into better shape and start lifting weights. Since I unhid my profile about two weeks ago I have had 23 women send "meet me" invites and have been receiving on average between 1 and 3 messages a day from prospective mates. I'm sure there are guys doing far better than me in that regard, but suffice it to say it is a vast improvement over the response I was getting originally. So working out and getting in shape helps attract women. WOMEN WANT FIT MALES. That's one of the things women want.
Now maybe someone else knows something that can help. What to write in his profile perhaps, or what not to be doing in pictures and so on. There are common things that women like and dislike. That's what this guy is asking about.
 Rancloff
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 178
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Posted: 7/26/2011 12:50:14 PM
Raza,
Great post, I think I was writing mine while you were writing yours or I probably would not have posted the last. All very good advice, some of which I will incorporate into my profile.
Thanks.
 OyVay...
Joined: 7/15/2011
Msg: 179
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Posted: 7/26/2011 1:05:33 PM
"anyone who creates a profile on a singles website and doesn't include a picture isn't really in a position to give anyone advice on improving their chances."

Hmmmm, interesting statement! Well aside from the fact that you can't track their success or lack their of, why not? Seems to me, based on what you said and others, it's damn near impossible to get someone to even give you a shot.

So if that person 'has' success, who would be better to advise on improving someones chances?

Aside from the obvious reasons, here for forums, high profile job, just here for friends they made on POF there are other things that can be thought of. They could have private pictures(no dummy, not THOSE kind, just normal). They could after talking with you hook you up with their FB page, or send photos by email.

As for "who even reads a profile without a picture?" Well how about those less shallow, not only into looks, but wants someone interesting as well. Or someone who's posts interst you on the forums or shares similar interests or has a great profile 'about me' section.

Judge less, think more...JHMO

edit to add: I just saw the other poster, as expected I gotta be right...if she takes the other side!
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