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 tonyl6596
Joined: 4/13/2011
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try Zoloft.....works like a charm
 ForeverLong
Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 8/1/2011 5:14:02 PM
If you masturbated for enough years, you could have learned control by slowing down or stopping for a few seconds when you start to feel it coming on. That way you can delay it for a long time. Only drawback is if you delay it too long you may not be able to climax at all. Also more frequent sex makes it less urgent to ejaculate.
It's natural to ejaculate very soon. Delaying it is a concious learning effort to prolong pleasure for both.
 binxy1234
Joined: 1/11/2011
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Posted: 8/2/2011 1:03:10 AM
try this website will def help you out
www.spanglefish.com/herbalmaleimpotenceaid
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 8/4/2011 2:13:40 AM
Start dating Larry the cable guys sister.....that should slow you down.
 Secondhand_Lion
Joined: 11/10/2008
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Posted: 8/18/2011 5:01:20 PM
Don't worry too much about it ffffisherman, my case is far more severe than yours.....I came yesterday, and my date isn't until next week.
 wowiluv269
Joined: 7/29/2011
Msg: 62
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/18/2011 10:26:32 PM
easiest thing to do is to forget how you feel... pay attention to how she feels. also if you really get turned on and harder, it will last longer.
 king 21
Joined: 5/3/2009
Msg: 63
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/18/2011 10:54:18 PM
Hey, one way you can prevent premature ejaculation is to exercise what doctors call your Pubocoxygeal muscles or (PVC muscles) which are in pubic region.

To exercise these muscles you:

1. When going to the bathroom particularly when you are going to urinate you first let out a little urine then hold back the rest (hold for about 5-10seconds) then urinate again and then hold back again (hold for about 5-10seconds)


****** Repeat this pattern for a total of about 5-10 times or untill you run out of urine***
*** In order for this to work you must do this almost everytime you go to urinate in the bathroom (do this often)



You could also "think of something else non-sexual" just before orgasm

You could also just have one big orasmic release the first time you have sex. Then just have sex again. The second time you have sex you should be able to last as long as you want

**** REMEMBER THE MORE OFTEN YOU HAVE SEX THE BETTER YOU GET AT WITHHOLDING ORGASM AND EJACULATION
 jon_of_arkansas
Joined: 8/2/2011
Msg: 64
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Posted: 8/19/2011 10:17:33 AM
wow you`re seeking intimate encounter and have problems with premature ejaculation wouldn`t have seen that coming as you can judge by the female response it`s not sexy ..they are not laughing with they are laughing at you. you have to start masturbating more and learn your limits might even help to masturbate before the act it`s not sexy and honestly I`m surprised you haven`t been stabbed or kicked out buck naked when this happened to seek a intimate encounter and then disappoint like this women are not really the most compassionate in those situations
 bonniegirl75
Joined: 7/5/2011
Msg: 65
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Posted: 8/19/2011 10:35:56 AM
We should ask this question to Bill Clinton.
 onlytakesonedan
Joined: 7/24/2011
Msg: 67
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/19/2011 4:10:59 PM

premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?


I guess we're not talking about the little pre-cum lube of the urethra are we?? cuz I think that little penile feature is pretty neat.
 complete_moron
Joined: 6/4/2011
Msg: 68
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Posted: 8/19/2011 4:30:29 PM
You need to practice, but not by having sex. I have looked into it when i was 18-19 because sometimes I had a problem.

Ok this sounds funny, but you gotta masturbate more times. Then, when you do that, don't "go". Just get to a point and stop. Next day you may go all the way but try to hold it out as long as you can. Plus control yourself doing sex. Do get overexcited, and if it helps start thinking about stuff that aren't related to sex. Sort of like the American Pie movie, lol.

This is gonna sound even funnier, but what I do when I don't want to go yet is I start analyzing the situation I am in , basically trying to write down in my mind that i'm having sex, but like I'm on a biology class and I have to use scientific terms. Other times I think about what bills I'm gonna have to pay soon. Trust me, my excitement quickly dies down after that!
But don't tell her, that you are thinking about your Visa check payment or you imagined yourself being in the Discovery channel or something..LOL,
On the other hand, she will appreciate the length of the "sexy time".
 mhbsport77
Joined: 8/14/2011
Msg: 69
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/19/2011 11:05:55 PM
You wanna know the absolute cute to your problem? Absolute 100% success. I guarantee this will work. Take a couple vikodyn or codiene or oxy contin a few hours before you are going to have sex. You can take any opiate. If you do this, I guarantee you can last as long as you could ever imagine. However, depending on how much you take and what your tolerance is, there is a chance that you wont cum at all. But atleast you don't have to worry about pleasing your lady friend!
 johnniefrank
Joined: 7/10/2011
Msg: 70
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/20/2011 6:51:11 AM
When I was younger I could last for about an hour. I had many happy partners. today at 60 I am lucky to last 30 seconds. I had a prostate problem and it ruined my sex life. for the last 20 years my wife has given up on sex because of my troubles. think about that for a minute just masturbating for 20 years that's why I am here now looking for a woman who wont mind my problems. I have been to doctors, sex therapists, tried pills, creams, hypnosis, anyway nothing has worked. Yes someone with normal ejaculation problems can be helped but It looks like I can not.+
 WolfLikeMe88
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 72
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/20/2011 8:36:34 PM
all depends on how much everything stops when you get yours however quick. if you can go from you being done to playing with her until she's compleatly happy-shouldnt matter-or atleast not that much.
 WolfLikeMe88
Joined: 7/23/2011
Msg: 73
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/20/2011 8:43:40 PM
ok-there seems to be this myth that i would like to debunk:
all women love when guys have their thing in their thing always and they just love that and thats all they care about
THIS IS CRAZY: the d*ck is not a magical object that makes us happy down there regardless of how its used-and I have yet to meet the guy that can get me happy just from that-or the girl thats happy just with that. For me personally (sorry to be graphic) I need some really great attention to my cl*t at all times for anything hitting my G to register in happyland.

Wind her up real good
do your thing until your close
Play with her until you calm down
repeat
 casey0413
Joined: 10/27/2009
Msg: 75
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 8/24/2011 9:25:11 PM
Stop and change positions a lot.


Do you have any idea how annoying that this? Just when you've figured out how to make it feel good in THAT position, he goes and changes it on you...

Also benzocaine will only make things worse in the long run. Eventually the you get used to it, and then without it, it's even more sensitized.
 shy2anne
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 77
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Posted: 5/28/2012 7:00:06 PM
i think if you have to ask..she didn't.
 Aglaeca
Joined: 3/10/2012
Msg: 78
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Posted: 5/29/2012 4:34:47 AM
Is it still premature ejaculation when you’ve trained her to cum on verbal command?
 MacInOC
Joined: 2/19/2012
Msg: 79
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 5/29/2012 4:51:13 AM
Best advice I have is ride a bike. Get the muscles that sit on the saddle in shape. You will last longer. Plus your whole body will benefit.

Second, change your masturbation technique. Like most guys, we just lube up and race to the finish - not caring about time. Have to teach your mind and body something different. Now you have to lube up, get close, edge, and stop!!!!! Yes it sucks, but you're done for a while. Repeat until you A) get use to stopping and not cumming, and B) start to last longer.

Any woman worth loving / bedding would love to do this with you via different techniques (oral without him cumming - every woman's dream Lol).
 thepigofyourdreams
Joined: 2/23/2012
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Posted: 5/29/2012 2:31:58 PM
Most of the time, I wish I DID suffer from premature ejaculation. Jackhammering away for hours, drenched in sweat, trying to cum is getting to be really tiring.
 Ed Bear
Joined: 5/19/2007
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Posted: 5/31/2012 11:45:37 PM
Riding a bicycle saddle causes impotence, crushing the primary penile artery and erectile bladders. It places all your weight directly on a small section of penis. A more motorcycle-style "banana seat" is better, if not as easy to pedal at high output. They sell "penis-sparing" seats with a cut-out, but they look like they'd dig into you a lot.
ED BEAR
 sonnybella
Joined: 5/19/2012
Msg: 84
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 6/1/2012 12:53:28 PM
I wont stay with a man whose d!ck doesnt work!

A man without a proper workig D!ck isn't a man to me.

Sounds like you got screwed in the genetics pool dude.
 that1mofo
Joined: 2/11/2012
Msg: 85
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 6/18/2012 3:10:02 PM
Beer. Lots of beer.
 2hotcougar
Joined: 3/29/2011
Msg: 86
premature ejaculation , how much does it really bother people ?
Posted: 6/18/2012 8:11:45 PM
always the first time but wait a few min and go again better the second time
 nomank
Joined: 4/20/2012
Msg: 87
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Posted: 6/25/2012 9:10:32 AM
stud 100 .............. ..
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