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 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
Msg: 60
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decent hand job is better than a decent teeth job...Page 3 of 4    (1, 2, 3, 4)
^^ careful.......we don't want to send the poor guy into shock!

One reads these forums and realizes there's alot of folks out there having some pretty bland sex!
 Kohmelo
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 62
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decent hand job
Posted: 2/16/2012 3:44:25 PM
One of my ex's gave great HJ's but the concept of a good BJ of not within her realm of thinking.
Whenever I think of HJ's, I think of hers.
 JONITA
Joined: 8/24/2009
Msg: 64
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decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 10:21:00 AM
What's wrong with your hands? Do it your damn self!
 funinsun32
Joined: 9/1/2011
Msg: 65
decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 11:00:42 AM
Personally I look at it like this: If I am there why would I do that? I would much rather give you an awesome BJ with some hand action and lead into some steamy sex!!
 jbirdman48
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 67
decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 1:13:33 PM
It seems you like replying to a few sexual forums e.g. man talking dirty thru wall, and hand jobs ETC. I get it but do you.....Do you just like talking about sex or actually doing it!!!! would love to know, because you are really an attractive woman!By the way are you good at it?
 jbirdman48
Joined: 6/27/2009
Msg: 68
decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 1:15:10 PM
Hey, I like the way you think, thoughts on masterbation?!!!haha!
 BMB81
Joined: 1/2/2012
Msg: 69
decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 3:45:36 PM
I read that a guy prefers a great hand job to a good blow job. My gay friend, Jason, explained to me how to do it. Never had any complaints only laudatory remarks.
 Kohmelo
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 70
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decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 3:48:21 PM


A good BJ includes hand action and ball cradling/squeezing does it not?...how could she only be good at the one?


It started with the way she approached, continued with a serious lack of depth and then finished with her avoiding my cum at all costs... not to mention the fact that I had to nag to get it and always pretended like she didn't like it. She later admitted she enjoyed it, but I'd already had enough of her.
Bye
 Kohmelo
Joined: 9/20/2011
Msg: 74
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Posted: 2/17/2012 5:29:37 PM


Yeah sh*tty deal...lots of younger women do not enjoy BJs...


Hardly. I traded her in for a younger model and the younger one gave fantastic bj's and definitely enjoyed doing it.
 Pomose
Joined: 5/21/2011
Msg: 75
decent hand job
Posted: 2/17/2012 11:38:03 PM
I enjoy them, and prefer for it to end this way I find them very erotic.
 Nstram
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 76
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Posted: 2/18/2012 3:20:51 AM
Eh, i've always been of the opinion that hand jobs suck and always will for one simple reason: they are competing with me. I know exactly what i like while they will always be guessing.

I mean sure there is a level of eroticism involved, but i'd much rather be doing anything else.
 ITWYLD
Joined: 11/15/2011
Msg: 77
decent hand job
Posted: 2/18/2012 3:27:43 AM
Seriously??

Any girl worth her salt, can get herself off in less than 30 seconds........


You guys can't even find the clit in that amount of time!!!!


Do you really want to have this conversation?
 -ck-
Joined: 6/30/2009
Msg: 78
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Posted: 2/18/2012 6:30:23 AM
probably because, most women would rather suck and (rhyming word) then to get a cramp in their hand jerking it for 30mins....Even though it feels great when you get that lucky one that knows exactly how to do it.

Just give yourself a stranger...make sure its good an num.
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 80
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Posted: 2/18/2012 11:01:27 AM
Just got a good one this morning so it's fresh in my mind.

- Keep the stroking fast and steady.
- Keep it wet.
- Some ball play with the nonstroking hand when it's not working along with the stroking hand is a good thing.
- Work the head but don't overdo it and realize we get sensitive in that area after orgasm.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 81
decent hand job
Posted: 2/18/2012 11:06:22 AM
Ladies, public service announcement here:

when it comes to hand-jobs, please don't bother.

It's something we can already do better ourselves! so leave us to it, most other things are much better with 'you' in the picture--, oral, vaginal, anal and more.

and remember if your hand or forearm gets cramped while doing it remember that's God's way of telling you:

"You have a mouth, use it!"

most women when giving an HJ with a bored stroking motion, sound like this: " does it feel good?, are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? are you gonna cum yet? does it feel good?, are you gonna cum yet? "

30 minutes later: let me take over _"POP!"
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 82
decent hand job
Posted: 2/18/2012 11:36:35 AM
^ I don't agree with the above post at all, and not only because I got a great handjob this morning.

I'm thinking OoC man just hasn't gotten a good one, especially if he's thinking most women do it with a bored stroking motion as if they can't wait for it to end.

Then again if it takes him 30 minutes to get off.. I can understand why she might just want it to end.

A good BJ or HJ.. I can get off in 5-10 minutes..
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 83
decent hand job
Posted: 2/18/2012 11:38:11 AM
^ are you saying you would ever prefer an HJ to a BJ or intercourse?
 rec_diver
Joined: 11/13/2011
Msg: 84
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Posted: 2/18/2012 11:40:32 AM
OutofControlMan on 2/18/2012 211 PM
Subject: decent hand job
Message: ^ are you saying you would ever prefer an HJ to a BJ or intercourse?


OoCM,

I like to mix it up a bit, some intercourse here, a blowjob there, a handjob at other times, sometimes only one on any given occasion, other times mixing 2 or more together during a "session", but if I had to choose only one of the three, yes I prefer a blowjob ending with a messy facial over sexual intercourse any day of the week.

I don't have much if any occasion to jack off when in a sexual relationship but if I do, (usually during those rare times in my life when I'm single or she's not around for a few days), it's usually to a DVD or internet porn, almost always a video of a woman sucking a d-ck and getting her face pasted. I always mentally place myself in the video so it's me getting my d-ck sucked and me giving her the pasting, I try to time it along with the movie, sometimes having my astroglide sticky hand on the remote or the computer mouse which can sometimes result in technical difficulties.

I understand this is a very subjective thing and your mileage may vary.
 Nstram
Joined: 1/20/2012
Msg: 85
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Posted: 2/18/2012 11:44:12 AM
ITWYLD were you talking to me? because a clit and MY penis are two very different things, namely i have access to all nerve ending information coming from it... which is PROBABLY why YOU can get YOUR self off so quick.

Now if you can get ANOTHER woman off in 30 seconds, bravo. But don't act like men are ignorant slobs because we can get ourselves off much faster than you can too. it's just not as much fun.
 OutofControlMan
Joined: 12/22/2011
Msg: 86
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Posted: 2/18/2012 11:57:39 AM


I like to mix it up a bit, some intercourse here, a blowjob there, a handjob at other times, sometimes only one on any given occasion, other times mixing 2 or more together during a "session", but if I had to choose only one of the three, yes I prefer a blowjob ending with a messy facial over sexual intercourse any day of the week


got you, I figure I already have a hand (2 actually) . I don't have a vagina, I don't have a mouth capable of taking my unit into it (nor would I want to).

on the rare occasion I want hand I'll do it myself, I love vaginal or oral with a woman
 grove_22
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 87
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Posted: 2/18/2012 12:10:17 PM
Hand jobs serve 1 purpose for me. It is a good way to get me nice and hard before moving on to other sexual activities.
 Kohmelo
Joined: 9/20/2011
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Posted: 2/18/2012 1:05:19 PM


Any girl worth her salt, can get herself off in less than 30 seconds........
You guys can't even find the clit in that amount of time!!!!


Sounds like a challenge to me
 mike44tx
Joined: 10/28/2011
Msg: 89
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Posted: 2/19/2012 9:43:25 AM
mogrl42: LMFAO! You didn't mention the grammer of that wandering centense.
(sorry, OP, all in good clean fun)
 LathaMath
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 90
decent hand job
Posted: 2/19/2012 10:01:52 AM
I'd suggest getting her to start with tw0-finger jobs and work her way up so long as she doesn't run out of shaft before reaching a full hand job.

I don't think foreplay qualifies as a hand job. A job half done is not a job. She has to finish the job for it to count as a job. Who would pay for a job half done?
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
Msg: 92
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decent hand job
Posted: 2/19/2012 1:21:27 PM
really, it is not just hand jobs, it is everything!!
BJ's
sex in general, women have really changed, they are not very good at anything, nor do they care, except of course laying back
I blame it on the times....,and the fact that at my age all the great women are still married
the reverse could be true for the women!!
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